Moving on (27)
Never have had a broken heart...never will have one!!
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shipoker55: Never have had a broken heart...never will have one!!
HI
Never?
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super glue and vodka
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Sommerauer71: So then...
I tried to find a relationshps forum, nothing! So I dumped it in here. How do people move on?
From a broken heart?
Discuss.....
I tried to find a relationshps forum, nothing! So I dumped it in here. How do people move on?
From a broken heart?
Discuss.....
Onced heard a psychologist say...that the end of a marriage (e.g divorce) or failed serious relationship.....that the emotional pain was second only to having a loved one die.
After seeing divorce court on TV for a few season...I began to think
he was wrong. Staying in a bad relationship is the second greatest emotional pain.:-)
Having joked about it.
It hurts. It is not easy emotionally or mentally to go thru a realtionship/marriage failure. The question is.....once you go thru the 6 stages of recovery on it......find yourself healed.....find a good direction in life....and tread it wiser than when you were younger. jmo
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I try to remember that everything is for a reason.
I stay busy. Repair to the garage to fix stuff. I've restored five motorcycles since I got here in California. I'm think that must mean something...
I stay busy. Repair to the garage to fix stuff. I've restored five motorcycles since I got here in California. I'm think that must mean something...
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I found the best way to get over a broken heart (and I have a very tender heart that gets attached easily so I know this, lol) is to get out and do things to keep busy...don't just sit hiding out and dwelling on what happened...maybe learn from it but don't dwell on it. Get out and be around other people, it will help 
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ttom500: Onced heard a psychologist say...that the end of a marriage (e.g divorce) or failed serious relationship.....that the emotional pain was second only to having a loved one die.
After seeing divorce court on TV for a few season...I began to think
he was wrong. Staying in a bad relationship is the second greatest emotional pain.:-)
Having joked about it.
It hurts. It is not easy emotionally or mentally to go thru a realtionship/marriage failure. The question is.....once you go thru the 6 stages of recovery on it......find yourself healed.....find a good direction in life....and tread it wiser than when you were younger. jmo
After seeing divorce court on TV for a few season...I began to think
he was wrong. Staying in a bad relationship is the second greatest emotional pain.:-)
Having joked about it.
It hurts. It is not easy emotionally or mentally to go thru a realtionship/marriage failure. The question is.....once you go thru the 6 stages of recovery on it......find yourself healed.....find a good direction in life....and tread it wiser than when you were younger. jmo
And your opinion is so lovely.
I have never watched Divorce Court.
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Time. It was the only thing that made the pain go away for me. But, for me, it wasn't so much the breaking up part as it was being angry and hurt at what he did to me. Years later, it still bothers me if I let myself think of it.
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At night, I try to drink my way through another night by myself. During the day, I try to stay as busy as possible and surround myself with good friends. When I can make it through a whole day without thinking about him at all, then I'm good. Thankfully, I haven't had to go through this for several years.
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lanabyte: Time. It was the only thing that made the pain go away for me. But, for me, it wasn't so much the breaking up part as it was being angry and hurt at what he did to me. Years later, it still bothers me if I let myself think of it.
lanabyte
Hi
And if you do not think of it?
I think, a birthday, a valentines day, a Christmas, once you re through the first year, then you have made it?
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Sienne: At night, I try to drink my way through another night by myself. During the day, I try to stay as busy as possible and surround myself with good friends. When I can make it through a whole day without thinking about him at all, then I'm good. Thankfully, I haven't had to go through this for several years.
Sienne
Bless you.
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Sommerauer71: HI
Never?
Never?
yes....never!!
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One sharp knife, one sheet of plastic, a bag of lie, one shovel, a trunk large enough for a body and a full take of gas.....
..... uh, i mean..... ask god for help....
no....
um..... listen to cliche advise from people ..... like.... "It just wasn't meant to be." or "You will find someone better."
no.....
realize that everything we do in this life is pretty much meaningless so it is wise to not dwell on things in the past that you cannot change. If you can't cope then people will not want to be around you. Then you slide into a downward spiral.....
Welcome to part of that spiral.... this is the climb out of that pitch black pit.
..... uh, i mean..... ask god for help....
no....
um..... listen to cliche advise from people ..... like.... "It just wasn't meant to be." or "You will find someone better."
no.....
realize that everything we do in this life is pretty much meaningless so it is wise to not dwell on things in the past that you cannot change. If you can't cope then people will not want to be around you. Then you slide into a downward spiral.....
Welcome to part of that spiral.... this is the climb out of that pitch black pit.
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Sommerauer71: So then...
I tried to find a relationshps forum, nothing! So I dumped it in here. How do people move on?
From a broken heart?
Discuss.....
I tried to find a relationshps forum, nothing! So I dumped it in here. How do people move on?
From a broken heart?
Discuss.....
Free your spirit of negative emotions and energy..... do something for yourself to help you lay those emotions to rest..... that can be anything which will once again set your heart free.... such as the ritual of burying your lovers letters.... but close the door on it...
Afterwards think back to the time when the person you fell in love with was fresh and new in your life, and replant your emotions for them as they were then..... do this, and you will purge yourself of your broken heart, and gain a new understanding of love.....
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Sommerauer71: And your opinion is so lovely.
I have never watched Divorce Court.
I have never watched Divorce Court.
American Court TV Shows...where great American Jurists gather to provide Soloman like wisdom to the American public.:-)
Thank you for the compliment.
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letitroll: Free your spirit of negative emotions and energy..... do something for yourself to help you lay those emotions to rest..... that can be anything which will once again set your heart free.... such as the ritual of burying your lovers letters.... but close the door on it...
Afterwards think back to the time when the person you fell in love with was fresh and new in your life, and replant your emotions for them as they were then..... do this, and you will purge yourself of your broken heart, and gain a new understanding of love.....
Afterwards think back to the time when the person you fell in love with was fresh and new in your life, and replant your emotions for them as they were then..... do this, and you will purge yourself of your broken heart, and gain a new understanding of love.....
I do with a smile....
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i give myself time to:
cry
let myself be bothered by the fact that its over.
binge - smoke, drink, food
allow myself to get angry at the person
allow myself to get angry at ME.
allow myself to be stubborn and close-minded.
then...
i pray
listen to friends
focus on work
get back in shape
read a book -- Its called BREAKUP because its broken by Greg Behrendt is one.
forgive
learn from what happened.
laugh about the silly things i did.
be thankful that it happened
get excited about the next one that comes along
cry
let myself be bothered by the fact that its over.
binge - smoke, drink, food
allow myself to get angry at the person
allow myself to get angry at ME.
allow myself to be stubborn and close-minded.
then...
i pray
listen to friends
focus on work
get back in shape
read a book -- Its called BREAKUP because its broken by Greg Behrendt is one.
forgive
learn from what happened.
laugh about the silly things i did.
be thankful that it happened
get excited about the next one that comes along
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I always think of it as ....
it was just not meant to be and that life has greater plans for us...there's a quote somewhere that states....
People come into our lives for a reason, whether it be only for a moment or a lifetime
it was just not meant to be and that life has greater plans for us...there's a quote somewhere that states....
People come into our lives for a reason, whether it be only for a moment or a lifetime
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Goofie42: I always think of it as ....
it was just not meant to be and that life has greater plans for us...there's a quote somewhere that states....
People come into our lives for a reason, whether it be only for a moment or a lifetime
it was just not meant to be and that life has greater plans for us...there's a quote somewhere that states....
People come into our lives for a reason, whether it be only for a moment or a lifetime
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I tried to find a relationshps forum, nothing! So I dumped it in here.
How do people move on?
From a broken heart?
Discuss.....