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Aug 12, 2008 9:03 PM CST breaking up
coolieno1
coolieno1coolieno1point fortin, Point Fortin Trinidad and Tobago96 Threads 546 Posts
dunno when my ex broke up wit me we were at a party an i was totally drunk, she saw this an took an advantage, she told me it was over in front of my friends embrassed me in public, i looked at her an said thank you it was nice knowing you, an walked away 2 get a drink cause she had som one else all d time so what she did was a blessing, she followed me started 2 curse an get on it ended up with me gettin into a big fight wit her an the guy i waiked away but that wil always sting me my question is in a party how would you copee with a break up?
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Aug 12, 2008 9:06 PM CST breaking up
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
coolieno1: when my ex broke up wit me we were at a party an i was totally drunk, she saw this an took an advantage, she told me it was over in front of my friends embrassed me in public, i looked at her an said thank you it was nice knowing you, an walked away 2 get a drink cause she had som one else all d time so what she did was a blessing, she followed me started 2 curse an get on it ended up with me gettin into a big fight wit her an the guy i waiked away but that wil always sting me my question is in a party how would you copee with a break up?


Sorry to hear this. hug


If you don't mind my asking, what was her reason for breaking up anyway?


conversing
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Aug 12, 2008 9:07 PM CST breaking up
kkitty4u
kkitty4ukkitty4uSt Paul, Minnesota USA24 Threads 3 Polls 1,138 Posts
find a different party to go too drinking grin
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Aug 12, 2008 9:10 PM CST breaking up
coolieno1
coolieno1coolieno1point fortin, Point Fortin Trinidad and Tobago96 Threads 546 Posts
she was using me 2 get his attention
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Aug 12, 2008 9:19 PM CST breaking up
gigi36
gigi36gigi36mansfield, Massachusetts USA6 Threads 89 Posts
coolieno1: when my ex broke up wit me we were at a party an i was totally drunk, she saw this an took an advantage, she told me it was over in front of my friends embrassed me in public, i looked at her an said thank you it was nice knowing you, an walked away 2 get a drink cause she had som one else all d time so what she did was a blessing, she followed me started 2 curse an get on it ended up with me gettin into a big fight wit her an the guy i waiked away but that wil always sting me my question is in a party how would you copee with a break up?
well at least she told u to your face, mine texted me a breakup! either way they suck! laugh hug comfort
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Aug 12, 2008 11:16 PM CST breaking up
Awww that's to bad.comfort
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Aug 12, 2008 11:21 PM CST breaking up
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
gigi36: well at least she told u to your face, mine texted me a breakup! either way they suck!



Just for future reference. How much did that text message cost? dunno
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Aug 13, 2008 12:30 AM CST breaking up
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
hey bro, that's why u get in there with her friends, back up options, i lost that one but gain 3, ya know the over under thing just like bettin on sportslaugh
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Aug 13, 2008 1:06 AM CST breaking up
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
If someone chooses to publicly humiliate someone in that way, it sounds like it smacks of severe immaturity, to be frank. The end of a relationship is a private and personal thing and should be dealt with as such.

Having said that, we really only have your version of events and I know nothing of what really happened....

Though, if someone treated me in such a casually dismissive and disrespectful fashion, I think I'd be better off without them......

Hope you're feeling better now....?? cheers
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Aug 13, 2008 3:33 AM CST breaking up
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
coolieno1: when my ex broke up wit me we were at a party an i was totally drunk, she saw this an took an advantage, she told me it was over in front of my friends embrassed me in public, i looked at her an said thank you it was nice knowing you, an walked away 2 get a drink cause she had som one else all d time so what she did was a blessing, she followed me started 2 curse an get on it ended up with me gettin into a big fight wit her an the guy i waiked away but that wil always sting me my question is in a party how would you copee with a break up?



Ah coolieno

I am so sorry that you had to endure that.

If it was me, I would go home, I would walk away and go to the safety of my home, and curl up safely and do my best to recover.

If your friends are your friends they will support you, mine would.
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Aug 13, 2008 5:56 AM CST breaking up
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Personally I think that is a gutless way to break up with someone. I dont have the guts to do it myself, so I'll drink a gut full of grog and do it.

Be grateful move on......how to cope, time take the time and reflect and then slowly move forward.

Good luck.wine
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Aug 13, 2008 6:12 AM CST breaking up
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India84 Threads 588 Posts
sxc666: Personally I think that is a gutless way to break up with someone. I dont have the guts to do it myself, so I'll drink a gut full of grog and do it.

Be grateful move on......how to cope, time take the time and reflect and then slowly move forward.

Good luck.


Hey Tina wave
I read somewhere that you would be out of touch for about 4 weeks. Glad to see you. Hope the move is going smooth.
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Aug 13, 2008 6:15 AM CST breaking up
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
kkitty4u: find a different party to go too
Seriously roll eyes
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Aug 13, 2008 6:16 AM CST breaking up
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Karma3: Hey Tina
I read somewhere that you would be out of touch for about 4 weeks. Glad to see you. Hope the move is going smooth.
Brilliant very excited heading home to the beach can't wait. Miss you all terribly though hug
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Aug 13, 2008 6:16 AM CST breaking up
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India84 Threads 588 Posts
coolieno1: when my ex broke up wit me we were at a party an i was totally drunk, she saw this an took an advantage, she told me it was over in front of my friends embrassed me in public, i looked at her an said thank you it was nice knowing you, an walked away 2 get a drink cause she had som one else all d time so what she did was a blessing, she followed me started 2 curse an get on it ended up with me gettin into a big fight wit her an the guy i waiked away but that wil always sting me my question is in a party how would you copee with a break up?


Your first reaction was spot on. That is how I would handle something like what you were put through. Never get into the gutter.
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Aug 13, 2008 6:18 AM CST breaking up
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
I don't know what was the reason that you guys broke up,and also maybe she has something to say as well.....it always takes two people....



wave
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Aug 13, 2008 6:48 AM CST breaking up
HondoLaneNJ
HondoLaneNJHondoLaneNJtoms river, New Jersey USA4 Threads 694 Posts
lola36: I don't know what was the reason that you guys broke up,and also maybe she has something to say as well.....it always takes two people....


Well Lola, not always...sometimes its just 1 party that wants out...and the other really wants to keep it together...at least that's how it was in my case....I mean to say that, I understood when she wanted out: but I damn sure didn't want her to go...
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Aug 13, 2008 6:59 AM CST breaking up
Honey,in that situation,you,the real you comes out.Maybe it is real always but that would be shocking.Walk or drive away from there after thanking host for invite,head up high.Then go have a good cry and feel better soon.hug bouquet Your on here now,moved on so don't look back except as a learning experience.In time you willheart beating for another.Bewellthumbs up yay
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Aug 14, 2008 9:56 PM CST breaking up
cupcakeness
cupcakenesscupcakenessAldergrove, British Columbia Canada62 Threads 1 Polls 367 Posts
kkitty4u: find a different party to go too


LOL!laugh
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Oct 12, 2008 11:49 PM CST breaking up
cardsfan24: hey bro, that's why u get in there with her friends, back up options, i lost that one but gain 3, ya know the over under thing just like bettin on sports


Hey Card with an attitude like that do you ever wonder why you're still single?
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