coolieno1OPpoint fortin, Point Fortin Trinidad and Tobago546 posts
when my ex broke up wit me we were at a party an i was totally drunk, she saw this an took an advantage, she told me it was over in front of my friends embrassed me in public, i looked at her an said thank you it was nice knowing you, an walked away 2 get a drink cause she had som one else all d time so what she did was a blessing, she followed me started 2 curse an get on it ended up with me gettin into a big fight wit her an the guy i waiked away but that wil always sting me my question is in a party how would you copee with a break up?
coolieno1: when my ex broke up wit me we were at a party an i was totally drunk, she saw this an took an advantage, she told me it was over in front of my friends embrassed me in public, i looked at her an said thank you it was nice knowing you, an walked away 2 get a drink cause she had som one else all d time so what she did was a blessing, she followed me started 2 curse an get on it ended up with me gettin into a big fight wit her an the guy i waiked away but that wil always sting me my question is in a party how would you copee with a break up?
Sorry to hear this.
If you don't mind my asking, what was her reason for breaking up anyway?
coolieno1: when my ex broke up wit me we were at a party an i was totally drunk, she saw this an took an advantage, she told me it was over in front of my friends embrassed me in public, i looked at her an said thank you it was nice knowing you, an walked away 2 get a drink cause she had som one else all d time so what she did was a blessing, she followed me started 2 curse an get on it ended up with me gettin into a big fight wit her an the guy i waiked away but that wil always sting me my question is in a party how would you copee with a break up?
well at least she told u to your face, mine texted me a breakup! either way they suck!
hey bro, that's why u get in there with her friends, back up options, i lost that one but gain 3, ya know the over under thing just like bettin on sports
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
If someone chooses to publicly humiliate someone in that way, it sounds like it smacks of severe immaturity, to be frank. The end of a relationship is a private and personal thing and should be dealt with as such.
Having said that, we really only have your version of events and I know nothing of what really happened....
Though, if someone treated me in such a casually dismissive and disrespectful fashion, I think I'd be better off without them......
coolieno1: when my ex broke up wit me we were at a party an i was totally drunk, she saw this an took an advantage, she told me it was over in front of my friends embrassed me in public, i looked at her an said thank you it was nice knowing you, an walked away 2 get a drink cause she had som one else all d time so what she did was a blessing, she followed me started 2 curse an get on it ended up with me gettin into a big fight wit her an the guy i waiked away but that wil always sting me my question is in a party how would you copee with a break up?
Ah coolieno
I am so sorry that you had to endure that.
If it was me, I would go home, I would walk away and go to the safety of my home, and curl up safely and do my best to recover.
If your friends are your friends they will support you, mine would.
sxc666: Personally I think that is a gutless way to break up with someone. I dont have the guts to do it myself, so I'll drink a gut full of grog and do it.
Be grateful move on......how to cope, time take the time and reflect and then slowly move forward.
Good luck.
Hey Tina I read somewhere that you would be out of touch for about 4 weeks. Glad to see you. Hope the move is going smooth.
coolieno1: when my ex broke up wit me we were at a party an i was totally drunk, she saw this an took an advantage, she told me it was over in front of my friends embrassed me in public, i looked at her an said thank you it was nice knowing you, an walked away 2 get a drink cause she had som one else all d time so what she did was a blessing, she followed me started 2 curse an get on it ended up with me gettin into a big fight wit her an the guy i waiked away but that wil always sting me my question is in a party how would you copee with a break up?
Your first reaction was spot on. That is how I would handle something like what you were put through. Never get into the gutter.
lola36: I don't know what was the reason that you guys broke up,and also maybe she has something to say as well.....it always takes two people....
Well Lola, not always...sometimes its just 1 party that wants out...and the other really wants to keep it together...at least that's how it was in my case....I mean to say that, I understood when she wanted out: but I damn sure didn't want her to go...
Honey,in that situation,you,the real you comes out.Maybe it is real always but that would be shocking.Walk or drive away from there after thanking host for invite,head up high.Then go have a good cry and feel better soon. Your on here now,moved on so don't look back except as a learning experience.In time you will for another.Bewell
cardsfan24: hey bro, that's why u get in there with her friends, back up options, i lost that one but gain 3, ya know the over under thing just like bettin on sports
Hey Card with an attitude like that do you ever wonder why you're still single?
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