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Hi, Granny!!

Going to try to address your questions in small doses. Too many levels for me to tackle all at once.

I am not advocating any of this for you specifically. I am just saying that it is possible, and sometimes even advantageous to have no prerequisites.

There are problems with all of this, of course there are. For one, people don't all think alike. No two people's values are the same. In order for any of this to work people would have to believe it's possible and be willing to try it at least. (I'm sure many think I am crazy for even thinking this way but I've experiences the value of not having labels).

I do , however believe it is possible to get on with anyone within reason, (barring the mentally deranged here, like murderers etc), thought there are people who get on with those too and dont find them impossible to live with. I didn't.

As for self destructive habits, many people not only have those, but develop them over the years depending on how they cope with stress, their situations, life or whatever, while they are with partners who may not have stayed with them or chosen them had they had these habits to start with. Everything is relative.

I don't think that being in a situation that is different from our own is detrimental to our growth in any way. In fact I see it as the opposite. The more we live outside our comfort zones, the more we learn and improve on all levels.

to be cont.......

Hellooo poor child will be disowning me by the time it's five !!!

Again I see what you are saying here. You'd gain insight, which is invaluable, and experience and tolerance and beliefs outside your safe zone which allow us to grow and develop in ways that you can't even imagine until you've been there.

As for incompatibility, if someone told you at 6 years old that you'd be who and what and where you are right now, you'd never have believed them, because you couldn't imagine it. If they asked you at 12 or 20 to imagine concepts that you take for granted each day now, you wouldn't have been able to do it. You had step outside and embrace other things in order to become who you are right now.

I notice you haven't asked, would that do if I were compatible with them?.... It's like beware what you wish for, your wishes might come true... The thinking is ruled by fear....

If you were incompatible, you'd still have learned something and you'd have opened yourself up to a wider experience that you can draw on in later situations. You would have less fears.

This is just another step outside........

This child will adore you Morganlee, and will form a bond that you couldn't have imagined possible and that will fill your heart to bursting.

Congratulations. You deserve this.

Thank you ginger

Do animals have races? I want two animal wishes.

I'm sure they have some sites like that out there, go for it.