shipoker58: Have a heart like mine...it feels nothing. Therefore can't be broken, bruised, or even hurt!!
No Problem.
......Unfortunately as bad as it sounds....I can relate to this Author post....I used have good and giving heart......but now my heart is so wary and so guarded ....like the above Author its 'feels nothing'....so it can't be broken or smashed to pieces.....
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virgiomonkey: ......Unfortunately as bad as it sounds....I can relate to this Author post....I used have good and giving heart......but now my heart is so wary and so guarded ....like the above Author its 'feels nothing'....so it can't be broken or smashed to pieces.....
Very good education for Broken Heart ..Hello Boban1 how are you..cure of broken heart is to learn to be careful the next time you fall in love..thank you..
YURIMA: Very good education for Broken Heart ..Hello Boban1 how are you..cure of broken heart is to learn to be careful the next time you fall in love..thank you..
I look at the children we both had, and i think of the good times, and put the bad times behind me.My children are all in their 30's, with families of their own.I flushed the bad times down the toilet, along with the pain.There is always a lesson to learn, from the past.
I agree with all the posters about "time" being the answer. I never thought I would stop thinking about my ex,but each day I forgot about her more and more. It is a cruel thing to say that,"I will forget you in time",but time heals. On the other hand,if one just keeps going from person to person without LETTING time heal,each new mate will just be a old rehashed ex....therefore the "time" has to be alone for awhile.
I have only been married once, at the age of 44. I waited hoping not to make all the mistakes we all here about, well, I was hurt very much, I wonder how many times a heart can fall in love...it seems every time your heart is broken you have a little less love the next time. But I'm a romantic ( Cancer ) so I will never give up trying to find the love of my life.
RobertC2: I'd love to go and see my ex........... but if she doesn't want to see me that would not be nice of me, would it? - plus I don't want to go to prison!
If she doesn't want to see you, what use of your going to her? you'd better stay where you are
Start picking him to pieces. He was sloppy....he didn't wipe his feet.....he didn't fix stuff around the house.....he spelled badly......etc. Soon you will hate the S.O.B. (sorry ole buzzard)
This is the same thing men and women do to destroy thier marriage every day.......it works!!!!
Thanks for sharing,Inthewoods...I also waited a long time before marrying thinking it would make for a better marriage. I also was devasted. The problem with marrying later is that your older when the divorce happens. Most people my age are on their 3rd or 4th marriage. I only wanted to be married ONCE. Marriage is work,but BOTH parties have to want it to make it happen. Best of luck friend and what I have found out,look up your old high school classmates on FB and connect back with them. It will give you the strength you need thru friends. Most of them are either divorced or single still!
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