hollandgirl: I am ticked at these, not knowing how to kiss guys, what kind of girlfriends they had. They were okay with his ways? What I am trying to say is; Why do I have to show them?
Maybe you just have to take the bull by the horns and show them how it's done....
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Maybe you just have to take the bull by the horns and show them how it's done....
Ha ha, I did try this with one guy; He was not amused. Like I said before their frail ego's can't take it. Really I did try to be not to obvious about it but that is not so easy to do.
hollandgirl: Ha ha, I did try this with one guy; He was not amused. Like I said before their frail ego's can't take it. Really I did try to be not to obvious about it but that is not so easy to do.
Then I guess his ego was more important than pleasing his lady by being shown how she likes to kiss....
hollandgirl: Ha ha, I did try this with one guy; He was not amused. Like I said before their frail ego's can't take it. Really I did try to be not to obvious about it but that is not so easy to do.
well,,,if they dont know how to kiss, what do they do?? I mean, are they even smling???
BarrenPneuma: Kissing is as important as any part of a conversation. It needs timing and rhythm to be properly experienced. Lips come in amazing varieties but never have I seen a mouth that was shaped like a fish pucker or the hole from a punch, so it is entirely beyond me how anyone would present such to someone they wish to physically communicate with. Kissing is not relegated specifically to the lips either, the neck, hands, arms, all parts of the face and virtually every other portion of the anotomy are all receptive to its magic as well. Timing again is the key, as rushing into forbidden territory without the silent non-verbal invitation required will certainly assure you a series of defense if not a good, well-deserved slap. A kiss is not just about tongues, or pressure, or any one specific thing, it is an artistic, graceful thing that can only be worked as a paired art. The giver and receiver exchanging places so rapidly that the eyes of any bystander should never know who is doing what. A real kiss is a physical poem, alight with passion and ardor, fire and flame. The language of kissing sadly has taken the backstage in the art of life, as we are thoroughly entrenched in our instant gratification and the world of me me me. Fortunately for all, men and women, their remain artists and artistes through whom this lost art may yet be found. In truth they will likely have only one student for many years or perhaps their lifetimes, but they are out there.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
nomindgames: I think kissing is an art form,but you must be born with the talent,can't learn it.It is naturalor not at all.
I believe there is something to what you are saying. I met my first at age fourteen and boy could he kiss wow! No body had to teach him. Met the next good kisser at age 28 lol see how I still remember them?
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
BarrenPneuma: Kissing is as important as any part of a conversation. It needs timing and rhythm to be properly experienced. Lips come in amazing varieties but never have I seen a mouth that was shaped like a fish pucker or the hole from a punch, so it is entirely beyond me how anyone would present such to someone they wish to physically communicate with. Kissing is not relegated specifically to the lips either, the neck, hands, arms, all parts of the face and virtually every other portion of the anotomy are all receptive to its magic as well. Timing again is the key, as rushing into forbidden territory without the silent non-verbal invitation required will certainly assure you a series of defense if not a good, well-deserved slap. A kiss is not just about tongues, or pressure, or any one specific thing, it is an artistic, graceful thing that can only be worked as a paired art. The giver and receiver exchanging places so rapidly that the eyes of any bystander should never know who is doing what. A real kiss is a physical poem, alight with passion and ardor, fire and flame. The language of kissing sadly has taken the backstage in the art of life, as we are thoroughly entrenched in our instant gratification and the world of me me me. Fortunately for all, men and women, their remain artists and artistes through whom this lost art may yet be found. In truth they will likely have only one student for many years or perhaps their lifetimes, but they are out there.
Beautiful and well told, hope other men are reading and heeding this.
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They were okay with his ways?
What I am trying to say is; Why do I have to show them?
Maybe you just have to take the bull by the horns and show them how it's done....