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Sep 10, 2008 2:19 PM CST Profiles!
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
I just need to vent about this. I know we've had similar threads, but oh well. Why is it that when some people message you they don't read your profile? Mine obviously states that I am taken.

I got a mail today that said they came across my profile and it was lovely and they want to get to know me better. No, what happend was the person saw my pic thought I was pretty and didn't take the time to read my profile.

frustrated frustrated frustrated
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Sep 10, 2008 2:20 PM CST Profiles!
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
twinkles1994: I just need to vent about this. I know we've had similar threads, but oh well. Why is it that when some people message you they don't read your profile? Mine obviously states that I am taken.

I got a mail today that said they came across my profile and it was lovely and they want to get to know me better. No, what happend was the person saw my pic thought I was pretty and didn't take the time to read my profile.


You haven't heard?????


Those ones can't read...I'm shocked he could write.....wave roll eyes uh oh dunno laugh
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Sep 10, 2008 2:21 PM CST Profiles!
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
I had one today from a 30 year old thought I was an angel!

I didn't realise a silhouette could look that good!

It says no scammers on my profile and he most
definitely was one!

They do not read the profiles, heck they don't
even bother about the lack of picture!!!!!



doh wave devil
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Sep 10, 2008 2:22 PM CST Profiles!
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
twinkles1994: I just need to vent about this. I know we've had similar threads, but oh well. Why is it that when some people message you they don't read your profile? Mine obviously states that I am taken.

I got a mail today that said they came across my profile and it was lovely and they want to get to know me better. No, what happend was the person saw my pic thought I was pretty and didn't take the time to read my profile.


Honey i get that everyday here...

They dont read that is the problem...

or they just dont care that we are taken..

Go figurewave
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Sep 10, 2008 2:23 PM CST Profiles!
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
twinkles1994: I just need to vent about this. I know we've had similar threads, but oh well. Why is it that when some people message you they don't read your profile? Mine obviously states that I am taken.

I got a mail today that said they came across my profile and it was lovely and they want to get to know me better. No, what happend was the person saw my pic thought I was pretty and didn't take the time to read my profile.


I understand, Twinkles, but after reading your profile I've decided we are soulmates and should begin dating as soon as humanly possible!blushing roll eyes laugh wave
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Sep 10, 2008 2:23 PM CST Profiles!
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
So what??!!.....who cares?....just delete him....if I received a silly superficial mail from someone who obviously hasn't read my profile, it's gone in a nano second....why the fuss?...


confused dunno

twinkles1994: I just need to vent about this. I know we've had similar threads, but oh well. Why is it that when some people message you they don't read your profile? Mine obviously states that I am taken.

I got a mail today that said they came across my profile and it was lovely and they want to get to know me better. No, what happend was the person saw my pic thought I was pretty and didn't take the time to read my profile.
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Sep 10, 2008 2:23 PM CST Profiles!
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Ambrose2007: I understand, Twinkles, but after reading your profile I've decided we are soulmates and should begin dating as soon as humanly possible!
scold grin
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Sep 10, 2008 2:25 PM CST Profiles!
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Lagoona22: So what??!!.....who cares?....just delete him....if I received a silly superficial mail from someone who obviously hasn't read my profile, it's gone in a nano second....why the fuss?...


Thats what i do...

have a good laugh

then delete themwave
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Sep 10, 2008 2:25 PM CST Profiles!
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
twinkles1994: I just need to vent about this. I know we've had similar threads, but oh well. Why is it that when some people message you they don't read your profile? Mine obviously states that I am taken.

I got a mail today that said they came across my profile and it was lovely and they want to get to know me better. No, what happend was the person saw my pic thought I was pretty and didn't take the time to read my profile.



Because they are not interested in you, they are interested in themselves,

you're not a person to them, just a means to and end.
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Sep 10, 2008 2:25 PM CST Profiles!
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
Ambrose2007: I understand, Twinkles, but after reading your profile I've decided we are soulmates and should begin dating as soon as humanly possible!


Sure, umm but I think my boyfriend might have little issue with that! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 10, 2008 2:27 PM CST Profiles!
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
Lagoona22: So what??!!.....who cares?....just delete him....if I received a silly superficial mail from someone who obviously hasn't read my profile, it's gone in a nano second....why the fuss?...


It just irks me. I just feel that if you are going to take the time to send a message, take the time to read the profile. That's why we have them!
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Sep 10, 2008 2:27 PM CST Profiles!
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Actually, maybe Twinkles should make little dolls with a likeness of the mailer, ask him to send some hair in an envelope...and then she can stick pins in it to get even........


devil

kissmedeeply: Thats what i do...

have a good laugh

then delete them
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Sep 10, 2008 2:28 PM CST Profiles!
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Lagoona22: Actually, maybe Twinkles should make little dolls with a likeness of the mailer, ask him to send some hair in an envelope...and then she can stick pins in it to get even........


Thanks i might try thattyping
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Sep 10, 2008 2:30 PM CST Profiles!
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
What a relief I have no hair....would you like some belly button lint instead??....


popcorn
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Sep 10, 2008 2:30 PM CST Profiles!
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
Lagoona22: So what??!!.....who cares?....just delete him....if I received a silly superficial mail from someone who obviously hasn't read my profile, it's gone in a nano second....why the fuss?...


I agree...

I just block and delete...


isipisi
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Sep 10, 2008 2:30 PM CST Profiles!
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
Lagoona22: Actually, maybe Twinkles should make little dolls with a likeness of the mailer, ask him to send some hair in an envelope...and then she can stick pins in it to get even........


Actually, that's a wonderful idea! I've been wanting to brush up on my voodoo!devil devil devil
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Sep 10, 2008 2:30 PM CST Profiles!
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Eezeepeezee...!!


rolling on the floor laughing


Olsojente: I agree...

I just block and delete...isipisi
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Sep 10, 2008 2:31 PM CST Profiles!
dancingfarmer
dancingfarmerdancingfarmerColumbia, Connecticut USA41 Threads 752 Posts
Those types of messages could be the result of several things: one, they truly did not read your profile because scammers sending those e-mails never do; or two, this is a dating site and if you're taken, logic says you would not be on this site (although I do know many people do for 'friendship' sake but if you choose to do that, you shouldn't wonder why peole still e-mail you as this is a dating site afterall, not a social club like my space; or three, they really don't care and are just hitting on anyone. Your reply can be anything from a kind "thanks but I'm taken" to a more clear "why didn't you read my profile before e-mailing me?" to the abrupt "get new glasses, my profile says I'm taken!" The only thing I can suggest is a little patience should be afforded, after all, if you don't want people to get to know you better, you shouldn't be on a dating site, taken or not.
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Sep 10, 2008 2:31 PM CST Profiles!
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Don't take it personally, and don't be so flattered. Most if em are just scanning to see who's online and sending out email en masse. They aren't taking the time to read or look, they're just sending out feelers hoping someone will but dumb enough for them to scam.
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Sep 10, 2008 2:36 PM CST Profiles!
Manyfeathers
ManyfeathersManyfeathersWerrimull, Victoria Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 243 Posts
Lagoona22: So what??!!.....who cares?....just delete him....if I received a silly superficial mail from someone who obviously hasn't read my profile, it's gone in a nano second....why the fuss?...


If you are taken, good luck, you can kiss this goodbye. confused
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