twinkles1994OPVancouver, Washington USA2,258 posts
I just need to vent about this. I know we've had similar threads, but oh well. Why is it that when some people message you they don't read your profile? Mine obviously states that I am taken.
I got a mail today that said they came across my profile and it was lovely and they want to get to know me better. No, what happend was the person saw my pic thought I was pretty and didn't take the time to read my profile.
twinkles1994: I just need to vent about this. I know we've had similar threads, but oh well. Why is it that when some people message you they don't read your profile? Mine obviously states that I am taken.
I got a mail today that said they came across my profile and it was lovely and they want to get to know me better. No, what happend was the person saw my pic thought I was pretty and didn't take the time to read my profile.
You haven't heard?????
Those ones can't read...I'm shocked he could write.....
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
twinkles1994: I just need to vent about this. I know we've had similar threads, but oh well. Why is it that when some people message you they don't read your profile? Mine obviously states that I am taken.
I got a mail today that said they came across my profile and it was lovely and they want to get to know me better. No, what happend was the person saw my pic thought I was pretty and didn't take the time to read my profile.
twinkles1994: I just need to vent about this. I know we've had similar threads, but oh well. Why is it that when some people message you they don't read your profile? Mine obviously states that I am taken.
I got a mail today that said they came across my profile and it was lovely and they want to get to know me better. No, what happend was the person saw my pic thought I was pretty and didn't take the time to read my profile.
I understand, Twinkles, but after reading your profile I've decided we are soulmates and should begin dating as soon as humanly possible!
So what??!!.....who cares?....just delete him....if I received a silly superficial mail from someone who obviously hasn't read my profile, it's gone in a nano second....why the fuss?...
twinkles1994: I just need to vent about this. I know we've had similar threads, but oh well. Why is it that when some people message you they don't read your profile? Mine obviously states that I am taken.
I got a mail today that said they came across my profile and it was lovely and they want to get to know me better. No, what happend was the person saw my pic thought I was pretty and didn't take the time to read my profile.
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
Lagoona22: So what??!!.....who cares?....just delete him....if I received a silly superficial mail from someone who obviously hasn't read my profile, it's gone in a nano second....why the fuss?...
twinkles1994: I just need to vent about this. I know we've had similar threads, but oh well. Why is it that when some people message you they don't read your profile? Mine obviously states that I am taken.
I got a mail today that said they came across my profile and it was lovely and they want to get to know me better. No, what happend was the person saw my pic thought I was pretty and didn't take the time to read my profile.
Because they are not interested in you, they are interested in themselves,
you're not a person to them, just a means to and end.
twinkles1994OPVancouver, Washington USA2,258 posts
Lagoona22: So what??!!.....who cares?....just delete him....if I received a silly superficial mail from someone who obviously hasn't read my profile, it's gone in a nano second....why the fuss?...
It just irks me. I just feel that if you are going to take the time to send a message, take the time to read the profile. That's why we have them!
Actually, maybe Twinkles should make little dolls with a likeness of the mailer, ask him to send some hair in an envelope...and then she can stick pins in it to get even........
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
Lagoona22: Actually, maybe Twinkles should make little dolls with a likeness of the mailer, ask him to send some hair in an envelope...and then she can stick pins in it to get even........
Lagoona22: So what??!!.....who cares?....just delete him....if I received a silly superficial mail from someone who obviously hasn't read my profile, it's gone in a nano second....why the fuss?...
twinkles1994OPVancouver, Washington USA2,258 posts
Lagoona22: Actually, maybe Twinkles should make little dolls with a likeness of the mailer, ask him to send some hair in an envelope...and then she can stick pins in it to get even........
Actually, that's a wonderful idea! I've been wanting to brush up on my voodoo!
Those types of messages could be the result of several things: one, they truly did not read your profile because scammers sending those e-mails never do; or two, this is a dating site and if you're taken, logic says you would not be on this site (although I do know many people do for 'friendship' sake but if you choose to do that, you shouldn't wonder why peole still e-mail you as this is a dating site afterall, not a social club like my space; or three, they really don't care and are just hitting on anyone. Your reply can be anything from a kind "thanks but I'm taken" to a more clear "why didn't you read my profile before e-mailing me?" to the abrupt "get new glasses, my profile says I'm taken!" The only thing I can suggest is a little patience should be afforded, after all, if you don't want people to get to know you better, you shouldn't be on a dating site, taken or not.
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
Don't take it personally, and don't be so flattered. Most if em are just scanning to see who's online and sending out email en masse. They aren't taking the time to read or look, they're just sending out feelers hoping someone will but dumb enough for them to scam.
ManyfeathersWerrimull, Victoria Australia243 posts
Lagoona22: So what??!!.....who cares?....just delete him....if I received a silly superficial mail from someone who obviously hasn't read my profile, it's gone in a nano second....why the fuss?...
If you are taken, good luck, you can kiss this goodbye.
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I got a mail today that said they came across my profile and it was lovely and they want to get to know me better. No, what happend was the person saw my pic thought I was pretty and didn't take the time to read my profile.