Judging someone (19)
lucky200761Blue Springs, Missouri USA38 Threads 5 Polls 569 PostsEver been too quick too judge someone before actually finding out what their really about, Then find out you misjudged that individual...Does this happen to you often and what do you do about it?
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No i try not to judge anyone b4 i get to know them
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well i think I've misjudge someone and now Im on their bad side...any advice of what to do about it?
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lucky200761: well i think I've misjudge someone and now Im on their bad side...any advice of what to do about it?
Well tell them you are sorry and explain to them why
you misjudge them..and why you jump to that conclusion
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lucky200761: Ever been too quick too judge someone before actually finding out what their really about, Then find out you misjudged that individual...Does this happen to you often and what do you do about it?
I have done it a lot of times.....now I try to get to know the person first before I decide anything...and it's always based on their actions....and I have often become good friends with people I misjudged as well after finding out they weren't the person I thought they were...and it also worked for me in reverse..where I get to know someone and think they are a good person and then I find out they aren't....
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This person has a big ego and i wanna try and approach this in a different way because i can tell they will tune me out..and I can't ignore it because I have to be around that person everyday?
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Hugz_n_Kissez: I have done it a lot of times.....now I try to get to know the person first before I decide anything...and it's always based on their actions....and I have often become good friends with people I misjudged as well after finding out they weren't the person I thought they were...and it also worked for me in reverse..where I get to know someone and think they are a good person and then I find out they aren't....
...yeah that happens to me often....and It also goes the other way around, im the one being misjudged
, but im all for keeping the peace
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lucky200761: Ever been too quick too judge someone before actually finding out what their really about, Then find out you misjudged that individual...Does this happen to you often and what do you do about it?
No, it hasn't happened to me OFTEN but, of course, I have mis-judged someone..... I'm only human. It would be ridiculous to say I never have, I would then be the only one in the world not to have done so, don't you think?!
The key is to learn from it and attempt (and, yes, still maybe fail from time to time).... but ATTEMPT to not make the same mistakes again...?? I am not flawless, by any means, one can only try one's best.... yeah?
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Happens to me all the time. I have dealt with this crap all my life, but what the hell?
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mbcasey: Happens to me all the time. I have dealt with this crap all my life, but what the hell?
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lucky200761: This person has a big ego and i wanna try and approach this in a different way because i can tell they will tune me out..and I can't ignore it because I have to be around that person everyday?
Sounds like you need to go about this slowly,
small steps at a time to regain their respect maybe.
good luck
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mbcasey: Happens to me all the time. I have dealt with this crap all my life, but what the hell?
how do you go about handling it...do you sit and take it and try your best explain yourself as best as possible or do you dont give a damn and move on??
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SirenLydia: Sounds like you need to go about this slowly,
small steps at a time to regain their respect maybe.
good luck
small steps at a time to regain their respect maybe.
good luck
Yeah thats what I initially thought, but i had hoped someone could relate to me and find a quicker and faster way of solving the problem
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lucky200761: how do you go about handling it...do you sit and take it and try your best explain yourself as best as possible or do you dont give a damn and move on??
I will explain myself once...if the person doesn't get it...so be it...I have been in your shoes too of being misjudged....and people will think what they want to think sometimes because they are narrow minded...I would move on...It's not up to you to prove anything....
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lucky200761: Yeah thats what I initially thought, but i had hoped someone could relate to me and find a quicker and faster way of solving the problem
kissmedeeply's advice is the only quick way if the person
you have misjudged will take your apology.
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lucky200761: Ever been too quick too judge someone before actually finding out what their really about, Then find out you misjudged that individual...Does this happen to you often and what do you do about it?
Yes I have, but try not to voice my judgements to often. I generally take my snap judgements and compare them to other times I have made similar judgements. I then back track and re-evaluate.
Though some of my judgements are boiled down to a generalization. Like, can work w/ this person - can not work w/ this one. Those are usually right.
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no one ever does that on this site. Maybe in real life it happens, but not on CS
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shipoker58: no one ever does that on this site. Maybe in real life it happens, but not on CS
Hey Ship! How's it going? Hi Lucky. Apologize, explain why you did what you did, and move on. They'll either accept it for what it is or hold a grudge and you have NO control over that.
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lucky200761: Yeah thats what I initially thought, but i had hoped someone could relate to me and find a quicker and faster way of solving the problem
Does this person know you have mis-judged him?
If so. could you face him and tell him that you have done
this. but later realized that you made a error in judgement and
tell him now that I know you better, I can tell how wrong I was.
If this person does not know, than just be yourself, be nice, but don't over do it.
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