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Sep 12, 2008 6:06 PM CST is it posssible??
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
yes .. depends on where u think u want to draw the line.

Its possible to feel an attraction to what they are portraying but if you are going to let yourself go with the flow or are weak minded ( another possibility) .. maybe even falling in love might be possible.

I would rather believe in love at first sight again a feeling of connection that u might in feel with someone .. than without having seen them.

Personally , i can have admiration and maybe even an infatuation but not love. Love is too strong a feeling to be so casual.

wave
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Sep 12, 2008 6:08 PM CST is it posssible??
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
HJFinAZ: 6 Commandments..

1. Do not build walls, for they are dangerous. Learn to transcend them.

2. Live in the moment, for each one is precious and not to be squandered.

3. Take care of yourself, first & foremost.

4. Drop the ego, be real and watch what happens.

5. All things are possible, all the time.

6. Maintain Universal Flow. When someone gives, it is an act of generosity to receive. For in giving there is something gained..

"love", is a choice..


Good quote! Love it, HJ! wave
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Sep 12, 2008 6:11 PM CST is it posssible??
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
brokenspirit: When we learn to love the person we see in the mirror each day at our worst or best or in between, then we can love those we talk to, come in contact with or just type words on the computer. However, true, long lasting, forever love, is complex. To meet the person will give you a better chance to know them on the inside as well as the outside. Pretty and handsome packages are not always that once they are opened.


Oooo...I like that! And I agree, whether online or in person, we must love ourselves before we can love another. And yes, love is very complex. I certainly know plenty of people who are pretty on the outside, but it's only skin-deep. I believe that inner beauty is much more important. I need to love someone's soul.
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Sep 12, 2008 6:13 PM CST is it posssible??
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
My honest feeling in response to this question is that I think you can fall in love online, but actually loving the person would require spending time in person getting to know each other's quirks...and making sure that they really are who they said that they are...falling in love is easy, maintaining it is hard.
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Sep 12, 2008 6:38 PM CST is it posssible??
AutumR: ~~~It depends on the idividuals involved, how true they are being to each other and themselves, same as it would be meeting someone the "regular" way. You can meet someone and be attracted to them, get caught up in that attraction and realize later "What the hell was I tinking." This way you learn alot about each other before you ever meet and have a good strong starting point.


Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
Yes I do..provided that both people are being themselves and are open and honest with each other...it's a more intimate way of getting to know each other on-line and of having conversations that you might not talk about right away when meeting in person...I don't think you can put a time frame on it...every person and couple is different...

Well, said both of you. I agree with what each of you have said.

Initially, I did not think it was possible. That is why I resisted joining the site. Now, however, I do believe it is possible, IF they have total honesty, trust, respect.

There also has to be, as in any relationship, an understanding that each person had a life before their life with you. Along with this, you have to have an acceptance for that life and the lessons that went along with it, because it is the experiences of the other person's life before you that helped to make them into, the person you fell in love with.



Hi Autumn,Cristina, Luscious

Hiwave wave wave wave hug hug hug
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Sep 12, 2008 6:39 PM CST is it posssible??
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Tamarory: does anyone think its possible to fall in love without meeting somebody in person?? if you do.. how long do you think you would had to have been talking to the person to realise it??


Welcome to the digital age.....
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Sep 12, 2008 6:41 PM CST is it posssible??
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
CjTenorSax: Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
Yes I do..provided that both people are being themselves and are open and honest with each other...it's a more intimate way of getting to know each other on-line and of having conversations that you might not talk about right away when meeting in person...I don't think you can put a time frame on it...every person and couple is different...

Well, said both of you. I agree with what each of you have said.

Initially, I did not think it was possible. That is why I resisted joining the site. Now, however, I do believe it is possible, IF they have total honesty, trust, respect.

There also has to be, as in any relationship, an understanding that each person had a life before their life with you. Along with this, you have to have an acceptance for that life and the lessons that went along with it, because it is the experiences of the other person's life before you that helped to make them into, the person you fell in love with.



Hi Autumn,Cristina, Luscious

Hi



Helooo! wave hug
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Sep 12, 2008 6:51 PM CST is it posssible??
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Tamarory: does anyone think its possible to fall in love without meeting somebody in person?? if you do.. how long do you think you would had to have been talking to the person to realise it??


Let me answer that for you YES...

i Have.....some say it is lust..

but for me it was love...

we talk for a very long time on the site..and email and on the phone

and then we met in person..

everything he said on here was infact what it was when we met..

Each is different...Some it takes only a short time..some longer...

We all are different...

but always becareful
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Sep 12, 2008 6:53 PM CST is it posssible??
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
kissmedeeply: Let me answer that for you YES...

i Have.....some say it is lust..

but for me it was love...

we talk for a very long time on the site..and email and on the phone

and then we met in person..

everything he said on here was infact what it was when we met..

Each is different...Some it takes only a short time..some longer...

We all are different...

but always becareful


applause I like to see success stories here! I'm so happy for you Joanne...
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Sep 12, 2008 6:53 PM CST is it posssible??
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
StressFree: I like to see success stories here! I'm so happy for you Joanne...
thank you stresshug
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Sep 12, 2008 6:58 PM CST is it posssible??
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
When THE WALL is around.......nothing's impossible.

Now if you'll excuse me,I'm off to Monster gym to do what I DO BEST..........Clear House.


THANK YOU VERY MUCH.grin


super
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Sep 12, 2008 7:01 PM CST is it posssible??
kkitty4u
kkitty4ukkitty4uSt Paul, Minnesota USA24 Threads 3 Polls 1,138 Posts
Tamarory: does anyone think its possible to fall in love without meeting somebody in person?? if you do.. how long do you think you would had to have been talking to the person to realise it??



first of all I think its all about what u want from a relationship and how u choose to love someone. so is it possible, the saying anything is possible comes to my mind.
I think that you can fall in love in a matter of minutes and then its all about building a lasting love and
a stronger relationship love
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Sep 12, 2008 7:04 PM CST is it posssible??
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
All kidding aside,you can develop feelings for someone maybe,but I DON'T think anything is REAL until you actually meet.

Now I'm gone.wave super
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