"I" statements ( Archived) (62)

Olsojente: So, I'll ask again, who's surprise did I ruin???

mindfful: nuala and jim

not to mention racial slurs under a 10 minute kamikaze profile that you admitted to later openly on forumsthen changed one letter in your name and came back so none of that stuff could be read

why all those who know this pretend they dont i dont know
maybe they are more mature than me?

but those are facts

there.

mindfful: like i heard said today

we can all read

youve called me disgusting names straight out on forums
im not sure ive ever reported it

what you could have reported me for therefore i cant imagine

and am not concerned with-but you seem to feel justified in your behavior and thats ok-we all do i guess

i dont harass but sometimes do feel compelled to defend myself
when im not busy laffing

and oslo

everyone remembers

you may not remember but you told some people personally
unless your profile was inhabited by someone else when you told or did those things

i dont know

you did the right thing for you
buried it by changing your name
i would never have mentioned it if you hadnt nagged so much

i hope barcelona is wonderful
i hope everyone thats able to go has a fabby time

i hope maybe some day my sincerity will show thru my big mouth

but whatever

Olsojente: You really should get your fact straight before talking about stuff publicly...
That's not what I told "some people"...

And me changing my name has nothing to do with it, my posts as Oslo can easily be found...

So again, I'll ask you, stay away from me, and I will stay away from you...

And that goes even on the What are you listening to-thread...
I've had enough of your snide comments..

jbibiza: I understand what MF was saying.... we have all suffered loses of people who were dear to us, and it is agonizing to recover from. But there is a time, place and people to whom that grieving should be shared with. One or two comments on a forum with people you don´t know when it pertains to the topic being discussed I understand, but continual comments about your loss and grief to people who don´t know you and who are not effected by it I have a hard time understanding.

I was in a situation when my daughter was in gymnastics where the mother of my daughters best friend lost her father. The girls had an out of town gymnastic competition that weekend so I told her mom, Deb, that I would take them to the meet giving her some time and space. At the last minute Deb changed her mind and said that she wanted to come, she didn´t feel like being alone. That was fine, I took her and 4 of the girls competing to the meet where we were staying over the weekend.

While I understand that Deb was in a lot of pain losing her dad, she made the weekend miserable for the girls...they were afraid to laugh and have a good time... they were not directly effected by her loss... was it fair to put them in her grieving process?

I´m not saying that SC doesn´t have a right to post what ever she chooses to and up until now I have never commented on it. But when I see someone getting attacked, for what I thing, was a comment made in concern rather than maliciousness.... I do feel obliged to say something.

mindfful: like i heard said today

we can all read

youve called me disgusting names straight out on forums
im not sure ive ever reported it

what you could have reported me for therefore i cant imagine

and am not concerned with-but you seem to feel justified in your behavior and thats ok-we all do i guess

i dont harass but sometimes do feel compelled to defend myself
when im not busy laffing

and oslo

everyone remembers

you may not remember but you told some people personally
unless your profile was inhabited by someone else when you told or did those things

i dont know

you did the right thing for you
buried it by changing your name
i would never have mentioned it if you hadnt nagged so much

i hope barcelona is wonderful
i hope everyone thats able to go has a fabby time

i hope maybe some day my sincerity will show thru my big mouth

but whatever