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Sep 28, 2008 8:25 PM CST If I were to say
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
BarrenPneuma: When we see someone who is down from past experience and we offer a hand to lift them up, the most selfish thing to do is expect anything in return. It is easy to confuse thank you with I need you at times, but it does not make it right to do so.
We should be happy that our effort no matter how great or small has helped someone to regain their own footing. The world is a treacherous place at times and the last thing any of us needs is to take a hand that will not let go or worse will bite if the hand pulls away.
There is no expectation in helping someone, and this is a key element to true friendship.
The hole we see in others who are suffering from loss cannot be filled with ourselves, it can only be filled with that person and by that person
. In helping someone find some part of themselves we may in turn find part of ourselves, and in doing so make the world a better place for all.


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Sep 28, 2008 8:34 PM CST If I were to say
BarrenPneuma
BarrenPneumaBarrenPneumaGolden Staircase, Ontario Canada87 Threads 3 Polls 1,561 Posts
Daniel4021: Wise words Mark, but do you really mean them? I read what you said about me, and my poetry, just didn't respond, I do remember you, and once we called eachother friend, so what happened to you? and why don't you put your picture back up? Just wondering..


Daniel I returned for the wonderful voices of reason and mirth here. My picture is me just a different one. It represents the present, how I feel today. Yes we used to be friends but what you did was not a responsible action from a friend. I still sought to forgive you as you well know but you once again reverted to the man who did what he did to me. You just did it to others in a different way. As for your poetry it is often very enlightening but it also at times has a very ulterior motive which can readily be seen in the posts that follow. No response equals please pity me. Pleasant responses (which there are rightfully many) equals pleasant responses from you. But until the one at whom it is aimed has replied there is always a burning hole in your heart waiting for them to hear it. Once they do you are all over it and it is clear.
As for my words. yes I do Daniel, I mean them with all sincerity. I do not hate anyone least of all you, but I am not one to sit back idly and watch someone tear someone up for no proper reason. Who knows what the Lord has planned for any part of the future, perhaps I would call you friend again, perhaps not. A man or woman is not what they say they are no matter how often they say it. They are the sum of their actions, not their words. Ask anyone who knows me about my actions and you will know who I am.
As for what happened to me... well lets just say life happened and it caught me off guard. The names in my past are private and have no bearing in a public forum.
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Sep 29, 2008 6:25 AM CST If I were to say
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Daniel4021: Yes I know, but I also know I will lose my sister when you go to be with Eric, of all the people that called me friend, you are the only one that never left me.. true friends never leave friends, and the ones that said they were true friends, weren't.. all I can say sis is this, love life, be happy, love Eric, he is a good man, one of the best, I know he will take care of you..


Nope bro you are wrong about this statement..

I wont/never will...

I will always be here/there and everywhere you want me...

Well you will just have to see how friends/family will stick together..

AND THAT IS ME...hug
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Sep 29, 2008 6:38 AM CST If I were to say
Daniel4021: Yes I know, but I also know I will lose my sister when you go to be with Eric, of all the people that called me friend, you are the only one that never left me.. true friends never leave friends, and the ones that said they were true friends, weren't.. all I can say sis is this, love life, be happy, love Eric, he is a good man, one of the best, I know he will take care of you..



Daniel whether you believe this or not I will still be there for you if you let me. I know we had our disagreements but it doesn't change the fact that I still care about you as far as as friendship goes.

What was that you told me once on the phone about how we'd never really abandon one another. To me that's true friendship.

Friends who are there for one another through the good,bad, and through all the inbetween times.
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Sep 29, 2008 6:39 AM CST If I were to say
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
BarrenPneuma: When we see someone who is down from past experience and we offer a hand to lift them up, the most selfish thing to do is expect anything in return. It is easy to confuse thank you with I need you at times, but it does not make it right to do so.
We should be happy that our effort no matter how great or small has helped someone to regain their own footing. The world is a treacherous place at times and the last thing any of us needs is to take a hand that will not let go or worse will bite if the hand pulls away.
There is no expectation in helping someone, and this is a key element to true friendship.
The hole we see in others who are suffering from loss cannot be filled with ourselves, it can only be filled with that person and by that person. In helping someone find some part of themselves we may in turn find part of ourselves, and in doing so make the world a better place for all.



hug
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Sep 29, 2008 6:44 AM CST If I were to say
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Daniel4021: Yes I know, but I also know I will lose my sister when you go to be with Eric, of all the people that called me friend, you are the only one that never left me.. true friends never leave friends, and the ones that said they were true friends, weren't.. all I can say sis is this, love life, be happy, love Eric, he is a good man, one of the best, I know he will take care of you..


With what you said here really made me sad..

Cant believe these words came out of ur mouth...

Read what you said of all the people i am the one
that never left you..

So why would i LEAVE YOU EVER...

Dont matter who i am with/or who i start a family with..

You/always will be FAMILYteddybear
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Sep 29, 2008 6:55 AM CST If I were to say
TeArawa
TeArawaTeArawaAuckland, New Zealand15 Threads 188 Posts
Daniel4021: If I were to say I love you
would you turn me away
close the door
or slap my face

If I were to shed tears
and pour out my soul
would you comfort me
or just let me go

If I really needed you to be there
would you come to my side
would you help heal
my pain inside

would you really be there
through thick and thin
would you help me stand
on my feet again

Would you pick up the phone
would you give me a call
would you help me get up
if I were to fall

By Daniel
09/27/08

A friend is one that comes in when the whols world has gone out, always cherish them, always love them, for they will always stand with you, until the very end..



Awww too beautiful....Thanks for sharing hug
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Sep 29, 2008 7:53 AM CST If I were to say
kamelia
kameliakameliaNegotino, Macedonia15 Threads 1 Polls 574 Posts
“Maybe” is such a long time
Trapped within the crop of faith
And the fear that tomorrow will never be.

“Maybe” is such a lame word
I would rather you walk away in silence
Then leave me holding on to a thread.

“Maybe” is just a way to hide
Between the true meaning
And the loss of a genuine beginning.

Maybe I am too proud
Maybe I am too difficult
Maybe you are everything that I am not,
But I will never say “maybe”
To someone I really care about.


PS Don't mind me confused grin just venting my emotions head banger
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Sep 29, 2008 8:44 AM CST If I were to say
mcampos87
mcampos87mcampos87Bauru, Sao Paulo Brazil62 Posts
In God I trust....all others must pay cash...
99% of lawyers give the rest a bad name...
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Sep 29, 2008 10:38 AM CST If I were to say
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
I am absolutely on no ones side here ! I have read it that two manipulaters became friends , and the mutual love and appreciation flowed freely ! Love knew no bounds , respect was a given , the world was such a fabby place for the two " Fantastic Manipulators" , then all of a slap all hell broke loose , TBO, I am bored with it , it eats in2 my flirting time damn it !!
laugh
But seriuosly these two need to get a grip , CS is not about there stuff , but about all of us.
I do not see any victim here , both were adults , but now BOTH want to express the lunacy in public and look for sympathy , well they can jog on , I have rather a lot to do, so can't be arsed . Sick attracts sick!! Let them on !
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Sep 29, 2008 10:42 AM CST If I were to say
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
livinglarge: I am absolutely on no ones side here ! I have read it that two manipulaters became friends , and the mutual love and appreciation flowed freely ! Love knew no bounds , respect was a given , the world was such a fabby place for the two " Fantastic Manipulators" , then all of a slap all hell broke loose , TBO, I am bored with it , it eats in2 my flirting time damn it !!

But seriuosly these two need to get a grip , CS is not about there stuff , but about all of us.
I do not see any victim here , both were adults , but now BOTH want to express the lunacy in public and look for sympathy , well they can jog on , I have rather a lot to do, so can't be arsed . Sick attracts sick!! Let them on !


:stooie is still 'Jogging On':
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Sep 29, 2008 10:45 AM CST If I were to say
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
stooie1971: :stooie is still 'Jogging On':
Ah Stooie laugh
shimmy shimmy flirty
Back to flirting banana banana banana
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Sep 29, 2008 10:48 AM CST If I were to say
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
stooie1971: I too have served in the Forces, I too am a Father..... what you have written is true if have seen some terrible things... I have lost comrades in the line of duty... i too have had nightmares like you..

I agree that there has been a lot of mud slinging here recently.... and respect for others has been but on the back burner whilst, they have been given the stage for the 'me, me, me show'

respect to you sir


but stu it is all about me me meroll eyes
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Sep 29, 2008 10:53 AM CST If I were to say
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
kissmedeeply: but stu it is all about me me me


I just saddened that what was a relatively happy site has gone pear shaped....it's not me, me, me either....

there are two people here that are unhappy, I suppose one wanted more than the other was prepared to give back or even offer.... it's gone bitter and it's being posted....

I'm simply stating that Jim and I have a lot in common, and I'm not singling out anyone for a public flogging!!

hug
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Sep 29, 2008 10:56 AM CST If I were to say
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
stooie1971: I just saddened that what was a relatively happy site has gone pear shaped....it's not me, me, me either....

there are two people here that are unhappy, I suppose one wanted more than the other was prepared to give back or even offer.... it's gone bitter and it's being posted....

I'm simply stating that Jim and I have a lot in common, and I'm not singling out anyone for a public flogging!!


Yes its not like it used to be at all..

But everyone..and i mean everyone has their flaws..

and most of everyone on here has heard about it from
time to time..

but its not nice at all for people to come in here and call them names..

We are not children...

Children to that...

We either need to stand with them..

Or stand behind and let them duke it out...

If the mods had problem with it then let them do somethng about it..

People complain and say to it in the email..not on the forums..

Who says..Who pointed them God...

If it was a problem then Mod will deal with it...

Each to thier own..

If they want to post it all out............

I say Go for it...

It helps them...

We are nobody to tell them what to do...

JMHO
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Sep 29, 2008 11:03 AM CST If I were to say
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
kissmedeeply: Yes its not like it used to be at all..

But everyone..and i mean everyone has their flaws..

and most of everyone on here has heard about it from
time to time..

but its not nice at all for people to come in here and call them names..

We are not children...

Children to that...

We either need to stand with them..

Or stand behind and let them duke it out...

If the mods had problem with it then let them do somethng about it..

People complain and say to it in the email..not on the forums..

Who says..Who pointed them God...

If it was a problem then Mod will deal with it...

Each to thier own..

If they want to post it all out............

I say Go for it...

It helps them...

We are nobody to tell them what to do...

JMHO


exactly....... but it sad that a friend is so down, yes I email my problems to my friends... and have learned a very valuable lesson... i don't post and name names or get into public arguments again on here.

I'll try not to have a personal go at anyone.... it doesn't work, especially on here

but like you say everyone is entitled to voice their opinion.... we may agree or disagree

thats human nature
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Sep 29, 2008 11:06 AM CST If I were to say
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
stooie1971: exactly....... but it sad that a friend is so down, yes I email my problems to my friends... and have learned a very valuable lesson... i don't post and name names or get into public arguments again on here.

I'll try not to have a personal go at anyone.... it doesn't work, especially on here

I just see it as if you dont like those people of that kind
of thread...then why go in it..

Find some other thread or make one of your own...

We all are entitled to post whatever by the rules...

I said things people didnt like.......SO WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Others posted things i didnt like either..

I either went in and gave my opinion..

Or I stayed away from them and that thread...

This is the World..we like some people and dont like some..

I SAY LOVE YOURSELF AND ALL WILL BE FINE

but like you say everyone is entitled to voice their opinion.... we may agree or disagree

thats human nature
hug
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Sep 29, 2008 11:08 AM CST If I were to say
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Sorry about all that...

It kind of got mixed in what you said

and what i said..

but you get the point stugrin
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Sep 29, 2008 11:09 AM CST If I were to say
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
kissmedeeply: hug


Love and Respect heart wings bowing
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Sep 29, 2008 11:10 AM CST If I were to say
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
you got it babe...

love understanding respect communicaton..

all that loving stuff..

Ur a great manhug
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