Distance..... (26)
It doesn't help to be on another planet.
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It helps as people are aware of the distance and try to overcome it through several means
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I personally, prefer someone who lives less than 2 hours from me. It's just so much easier to see each other a little more often and just about every weekend or so.
I prefer them to live less than 100-110 miles from me. Even shorter is better.
The shorter the distance, the better off to a great start.
I prefer them to live less than 100-110 miles from me. Even shorter is better.
The shorter the distance, the better off to a great start.
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Interesting thread..
I was thinking about that too..
Who knows..love makes us do things that are out of the ordinary..
And overcoming distance might be one of them
I was thinking about that too..
Who knows..love makes us do things that are out of the ordinary..
And overcoming distance might be one of them
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Distance was always my enemy number one.....i lost every single time when trying to bow it down...
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Emanuellla: Distance was always my enemy number one.....i lost every single time when trying to bow it down...
Yes, me too. I had 2 long distance relationships in the past and both didn't last but 2 weeks long. And I was back on the bus, back to Arizona (that last one was a 2 day ride!! Yuck!!!).
I'm never doing that again...No Way!!!
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Ocee35: From time to time, we hear people lamenting the distance between themselves and others here,
but I can't help thinking that distance itself facilitates many of interactions
that are found so appealing.Your thoughts?
but I can't help thinking that distance itself facilitates many of interactions
that are found so appealing.Your thoughts?
I think the communication aspect is better....depending on the people of course and their willingness to communicate openly and honestly...you spend hours on-line doing nothing but talking where many of those conversations could take months to happen...if they even happen at all...If anything that's the one positive I see in distance....
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Hugz_n_Kissez: I think the communication aspect is better....depending on the people of course and their willingness to communicate openly and honestly...you spend hours on-line doing nothing but talking where many of those conversations could take months to happen...if they even happen at all...If anything that's the one positive I see in distance....
Very true..
How long will it take us in RL to share the personal stories we might share here on-line talking..
It's the internet magic
the guards we usually put in RL, we take them off here 
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kamelia: Very true..
How long will it take us in RL to share the personal stories we might share here on-line talking..
It's the internet magic the guards we usually put in RL, we take them off here
How long will it take us in RL to share the personal stories we might share here on-line talking..
It's the internet magic the guards we usually put in RL, we take them off here
Yes I think so too....
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Darkhorseman: It doesn't help to be on another planet.
I like the view from Venus, don't have to deal w/ Uranus!
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Leana76: Yes, me too. I had 2 long distance relationships in the past and both didn't last but 2 weeks long. And I was back on the bus, back to Arizona (that last one was a 2 day ride!! Yuck!!!).
I'm never doing that again...No Way!!!
I'm never doing that again...No Way!!!
Mine lasted for almost a year...geezzzz, how stupid i was
at least now we are smarter
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Hugz_n_Kissez: I think the communication aspect is better....depending on the people of course and their willingness to communicate openly and honestly...you spend hours on-line doing nothing but talking where many of those conversations could take months to happen...if they even happen at all...If anything that's the one positive I see in distance....
that's indeed the single positive aspect of distance..
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Hugz_n_Kissez: I think the communication aspect is better....depending on the people of course and their willingness to communicate openly and honestly...you spend hours on-line doing nothing but talking where many of those conversations could take months to happen...if they even happen at all...If anything that's the one positive I see in distance....
I have to agree. You take the time to really get to know the person. Whereas, when you're so close, you tend to take things for granted & IMO, don't take the time needed to really find things out about the other person.
And who knows... maybe one day, you can find a way to actually meet the person. And if it's meant to be, it'll happen.
Which brings up another question... do you believe in a predetermined destiny? Or do you believe you make your own destiny?
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sweetowen:
Which brings up another question... do you believe in a predetermined destiny? Or do you believe you make your own destiny?
Which brings up another question... do you believe in a predetermined destiny? Or do you believe you make your own destiny?
I believe that everything happens for a reason..
But we need to recognize it and act on it..
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kamelia: I believe that everything happens for a reason..
But we need to recognize it and act on it..
But we need to recognize it and act on it..
Me too...
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I can be friends long distance...but a more serious relationship would be difficult to maintain long distance. It's tough to go on dates that way, or just hang out together. And at this point I can't move...so, distance = friendship only for me.
That said, I'll also add that I've always been known to take a gamble and go against everything I ever thought I would if it feels right. I do trust and follow my heart and my gut...so, "never say never"...
That said, I'll also add that I've always been known to take a gamble and go against everything I ever thought I would if it feels right. I do trust and follow my heart and my gut...so, "never say never"...
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Ocee35: From time to time, we hear people lamenting the distance between themselves and others here,
but I can't help thinking that distance itself facilitates many of interactions
that are found so appealing.Your thoughts?
but I can't help thinking that distance itself facilitates many of interactions
that are found so appealing.Your thoughts?
well, not at first cos i took it all so seriously then but latterly, I find that I can have a good laugh with people from far flung places in all innocence because we dont have the encumbrances of potential bodily contact - its so much more fulfilling to make love with the mind..............
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but I can't help thinking that distance itself facilitates many of interactions
that are found so appealing.
Your thoughts?