hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
After I left here I went again to my mailbox. He had just opened it and right after came to IM me. I did not mention why I had been so upset and taken to wonder that it must have been the weight. As he had not phoned today the whole day. This has been the modus of operandi with several men, to disapear after a few emails, so I thought, here we go again.
I do now know the reason he could not phone and understand. We talked until 2.30 and only we stopped because there was a problem and we were cut off. Talking about my weight never came up as that was not a isue with him. I all came from my own head.
I am so happy because I feel so good about him and he about me. He is a psychologist found that out tonight and maybe because I like that subject so much, did we have some fantastic conversations.
Oh holland.....................I am delighted for you........................have a wonderous weekend...................you deserve all the happiness in the world.......................let it happen girl..............
Had a look at your photos and I do hope that you dont mind........I have to say you look wonderful........the very same as when you were a baby........
This man should have no problems with you.......if you dont mind me asking what age is he....
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
stefonline: Oh holland.....................I am delighted for you........................have a wonderous weekend...................you deserve all the happiness in the world.......................let it happen girl..............
Thank you Stef. I feel so stronly this man is a keeper. Just found a flower thanking me for a lovely evening. I has been mostly a pain full three years after my husband died. Having met others after but it did not work out.
hollandgirl: Thank you Stef. I feel so stronly this man is a keeper. Just found a flower thanking me for a lovely evening. I has been mostly a pain full three years after my husband died. Having met others after but it did not work out.
It sure feels good to feel good
Yes it dose........keep on feeling good.......there are a few good men out there.......
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
stefonline: Had a look at your photos and I do hope that you dont mind........I have to say you look wonderful........the very same as when you were a baby........This man should have no problems with you.......if you dont mind me asking what age is he....
Younger, but not by much. Well no one can expect me to look like a 50 year old. Some say I look ten years younger but the fact remains that I am 71 nothing can change that. I feel young...that is the main thing, am healthy so?....
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
somechick: holland I'm glad things between and this man went well. Good luck on your meeting this weekend.
Many happiness to you.
Thank you somechick. Guys just disappeared before we all have had that happen. Because I felt such a strong bond with this man I took it hard. Tried to figure our what could have been the reason for not contacting me all day I thought It had to be that weight gain. There seemed to be nothing else it could have been.
hollandgirl: Thank you somechick. Guys just disappeared before we all have had that happen. Because I felt such a strong bond with this man I took it hard. Tried to figure our what could have been the reason for not contacting me all day I thought It had to be that weight gain. There seemed to be nothing else it could have been.
Anyway all is well that ends well.
Hopefully when I'm ready to have another man in my life again I'll be just as happy as you sound in your post.
When love enters your life you grab ahold of it and hold on tight and never let go.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
somechick: Hopefully when I'm ready to have another man in my life again I'll be just as happy as you sound in your post.
When love enters your life you grab ahold of it and hold on tight and never let go.
We so very quicly could communicate so well. He has a great sense of humour too. Believes in all that I do. Yes I hope that you too will soon be able to move on and find love again
hollandgirl: What surely did not help the situation, last night I had only two hours sleep, not conductive for rational thinking for sure.
Sleep deprevation causes the nervous system to act irrationaly..........we will have no more of this....you hear......get to bed on time........he will wait for you.....
hollandgirl: After I left here I went again to my mailbox. He had just opened it and right after came to IM me. I did not mention why I had been so upset and taken to wonder that it must have been the weight. As he had not phoned today the whole day. This has been the modus of operandi with several men, to disapear after a few emails, so I thought, here we go again.
I do now know the reason he could not phone and understand. We talked until 2.30 and only we stopped because there was a problem and we were cut off. Talking about my weight never came up as that was not a isue with him. I all came from my own head.
I am so happy because I feel so good about him and he about me. He is a psychologist found that out tonight and maybe because I like that subject so much, did we have some fantastic conversations.
Will see me this weekend!
dzien dobry (good morning), Mama! I knew it had to be a misunderstanding. C'mon, seriously, what man would turn you away? Just one that belongs in a mental hospital!
hollandgirl: After I left here I went again to my mailbox. He had just opened it and right after came to IM me. I did not mention why I had been so upset and taken to wonder that it must have been the weight. As he had not phoned today the whole day. This has been the modus of operandi with several men, to disapear after a few emails, so I thought, here we go again.
I do now know the reason he could not phone and understand. We talked until 2.30 and only we stopped because there was a problem and we were cut off. Talking about my weight never came up as that was not a isue with him. I all came from my own head.
I am so happy because I feel so good about him and he about me. He is a psychologist found that out tonight and maybe because I like that subject so much, did we have some fantastic conversations.
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
hollandgirl: After I left here I went again to my mailbox. He had just opened it and right after came to IM me. I did not mention why I had been so upset and taken to wonder that it must have been the weight. As he had not phoned today the whole day. This has been the modus of operandi with several men, to disapear after a few emails, so I thought, here we go again.
I do now know the reason he could not phone and understand. We talked until 2.30 and only we stopped because there was a problem and we were cut off. Talking about my weight never came up as that was not a isue with him. I all came from my own head.
I am so happy because I feel so good about him and he about me. He is a psychologist found that out tonight and maybe because I like that subject so much, did we have some fantastic conversations.
Will see me this weekend!
Uhh I didn't know you were chating to some1 , good for you J, you are beautiful, hey geezer prepare ,to be smitten !!!
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
stefonline: Sleep deprevation causes the nervous system to act irrationaly..........we will have no more of this....you hear......get to bed on time........he will wait for you.....
It was the night before I had so little sleep, then not hearing from him until about 9 clock last night, trying to figure out why, yes it did not help. I need to get more sleep tonight but it will be the same he will call again late. lol Will do less figuring out from now on And, get more sleep.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
lanabyte: dzien dobry (good morning), Mama! I knew it had to be a misunderstanding. C'mon, seriously, what man would turn you away? Just one that belongs in a mental hospital!
You guys and girls are just great for my ego, just what the doctor ordered really. Dobry soounds vagely familiar. Chechosloviakia?
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I did not mention why I had been so upset and taken to wonder that it must have been the weight.
As he had not phoned today the whole day.
This has been the modus of operandi with several men, to disapear after a few emails, so I thought, here we go again.
I do now know the reason he could not phone and understand.
We talked until 2.30 and only we stopped because there was a problem and we were cut off.
Talking about my weight never came up as that was not a isue with him.
I all came from my own head.
I am so happy because I feel so good about him and he about me.
He is a psychologist found that out tonight and maybe because I like
that subject so much, did we have some fantastic conversations.
Will see me this weekend!