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Oct 15, 2008 9:38 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
justhere47
justhere47justhere47louisville, Kentucky USA2 Threads 20 Posts
Is it me are do some lady's over 50 want there grandkids in there pictures.
I date a lady for them not there grandkids......

Maybe I'm just a WC fields..........
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Oct 15, 2008 9:40 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
justhere47: Is it me are do some lady's over 50 want there grandkids in there pictures.
I date a lady for them not there grandkids......

Maybe I'm just a WC fields..........


I post pics of only me, not my family. That's because I wouldn't post pics of them without their permission. Also for their safety. But it seems to me you want the woman, but not what comes along with her. JMO... wine
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Oct 15, 2008 9:43 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
justhere47: Is it me are do some lady's over 50 want there grandkids in there pictures.
I date a lady for them not there grandkids......

Maybe I'm just a WC fields..........


Ive posted pics of mine before today - we are proud of them and like to show that even though we dont have the commitment of children, that we do place our grandchildren in a place of importance in our lives - we come as a package and yep, all this could be stated verbally but it just feels good to show the love laugh
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Oct 15, 2008 9:50 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
I know your post applies to grandchildren but.....If I posted pics of my children and a man like you complained he wouldn't be worth my time.

Cause my children come along with the package deal.
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Oct 15, 2008 9:50 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
justhere47: Is it me are do some lady's over 50 want there grandkids in there pictures.
I date a lady for them not there grandkids......

Maybe I'm just a WC fields..........


What's with men who use pics they obviously cut a woman by their side out of? Same thing!

We all have families. Most of us are proud of them. When you date a woman over 50, she is not an island. She has family and obviously loves them and you integrate into her family, just as you do with younger woman's families when you have a relationship with them.

I have my grandson in my second pic because at the time, I didn't have another one of me on my own, and that one was taken at a nephew's christening. I'm proud to have lived long enough to have grandchildren. I make no apologies for that.

It's part of who I am and what I care about.wine
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Oct 15, 2008 9:51 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
ModestlyAwesome
ModestlyAwesomeModestlyAwesomePhoenix, Arizona USA3 Threads 2 Polls 322 Posts
Sounds like you're interested in just her, but you have to understand when you get serious with someone that their entire life becomes part of yours. Their grandkids, kids, siblings, parents, friends, etc. will all be in your life. That's why if you like the girl but you and her parents don't get along you may want to think about bridging the gap or getting out because you'll be stuck with them for a long time.
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Oct 15, 2008 10:19 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
LACali
LACaliLACaliSouthern California, California USA3 Threads 936 Posts
justhere47: Is it me are do some lady's over 50 want there grandkids in there pictures.
I date a lady for them not there grandkids......

Maybe I'm just a WC fields..........


You're completely entitled to your preferences. I agree that I don't like to see anything but the person (and his pets) in his pics. I don't want to see pics of other people, motorcycles etc. That's me and what I like and prefer. Luckily different things appeal to different folks. I always cringe when I see young women post pics of themselves with their small or young children there are men out there who like kids and would target them for that.
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Oct 15, 2008 10:23 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
A picture is worth a thousand words....

A woman surrounded by her loved ones in a picture is telling you what is important in her life...and you are getting a look at EXACTLY the type of woman you are going to date....

One who places family in high priority...one who is inviting you to be part of that...one who is proud of the legacy she will leave behind...

I repeat...a picture is worth a thousand words...wine
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Oct 15, 2008 10:26 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
LACali: You're completely entitled to your preferences. I agree that I don't like to see anything but the person (and his pets) in his pics. I don't want to see pics of other people, motorcycles etc. That's me and what I like and prefer. Luckily different things appeal to different folks. I always cringe when I see young women post pics of themselves with their small or young children there are men out there who like kids and would target them for that.


That's exactly why I don't post pics of my grandsons. I'm VERY proud of my little boys & to me, they're absolutely gorgeous! But I don't need a predator seeing them on the internet. If anything happened to those angels, I'd go crazy!
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Oct 15, 2008 11:02 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
justhere47
justhere47justhere47louisville, Kentucky USA2 Threads 20 Posts
Very Good......
I was just wondering.........
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Oct 15, 2008 11:03 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
justhere47
justhere47justhere47louisville, Kentucky USA2 Threads 20 Posts
I agree........
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Oct 15, 2008 11:09 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
justhere47
justhere47justhere47louisville, Kentucky USA2 Threads 20 Posts
Note,,

I had 2 frist dates that brought there grandkids, ........for real....

One of them had that rubber thing in his or her mouth........
And they ate big time.....$$$$

Never the less I won't be a next time if that happens.......
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Oct 15, 2008 11:31 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
dad11months
dad11monthsdad11monthsLas Vegas, Nevada USA28 Threads 213 Posts
I love kids very much and if a lady has a pitchure of one in her photo then that just tells me that she does to so I would enjoy to get to no her. It would not madder to me.
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Oct 15, 2008 11:33 AM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
justhere47: Note,,

I had 2 frist dates that brought there grandkids, ........for real....

One of them had that rubber thing in his or her mouth........
And they ate big time.....$$$$

Never the less I won't be a next time if that happens.......


You are truly one in a million. rolling on the floor laughing
That was royally brilliant of your date to bring the kids (for real).
Wish I'd thought of that a few times. laugh
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Oct 15, 2008 12:38 PM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
justhere47
justhere47justhere47louisville, Kentucky USA2 Threads 20 Posts
Soooo, you thing I'm a big old WC Fields........
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Oct 15, 2008 12:40 PM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
justhere47
justhere47justhere47louisville, Kentucky USA2 Threads 20 Posts
Soooo you think..........
I'm over reacting in my profile
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Oct 15, 2008 12:50 PM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
justhere47: Soooo you think..........
I'm over reacting in my profile


If you want to know what I honestly think... I think you're a bit shallow, if you think you can have a woman & not her family. That's one big FAT reason I've been single all these years!! very mad
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Oct 15, 2008 1:38 PM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
justhere47: Is it me are do some lady's over 50 want there grandkids in there pictures.
I date a lady for them not there grandkids......

Maybe I'm just a WC fields..........


Grandkids are cute and we love them... as we do kids, nieces, nephews etc... we do not do it for you guys we do it cause we love 'em and are proud of them so tough tongue
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Oct 15, 2008 2:05 PM CST Whats with the grandkids in pictures
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
I wouldn't post pics of kids no matter what for their safety. But I tend to be the overprotective type when it comes to children, whether they are mine or not. dunno
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