Friends and telling the truth (90)
But yes, it was a nice balance in exchange...she deserved it for what she said.
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druidess6308: But yes, it was a nice balance in exchange...she deserved it for what she said.
Thanks sweetie
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cristina: When my friend told me to go to NYC where i can be single and rich i told her to go to that TV program where they help people to improve their "taste" in dressing
Do you think there was a nice balance in this exchage of words?
Have you ever lost friends by telling them what you think about them? What can't we say? If it's to improve their behaviour, to whom should we tell the harsh truth?
Do you think there was a nice balance in this exchage of words?
Have you ever lost friends by telling them what you think about them? What can't we say? If it's to improve their behaviour, to whom should we tell the harsh truth?
That was great!
Why didn't she suggest Helsinki?
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Honestly, I try not to engage in these sort of things...but, my buttons have been pushed before. I lost my best friend of 25 years over something she said, and my response to it. It was harsher...she had judged me without knowing the facts...but I lost a dear friendship, nonetheless.
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When i worked in the Uk a man told me to go to LA to make money ..
best advice i ever got
THE " LONDON AREA" IS VERY AFFLUENT .......
I thought she could of said that to you about the clothes... as you look very scruffy tonight
Yes i know Cheeky B**tard
best advice i ever got
THE " LONDON AREA" IS VERY AFFLUENT .......
I thought she could of said that to you about the clothes... as you look very scruffy tonight
Yes i know Cheeky B**tard
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lusciousmile: That was great!
Why didn't she suggest Helsinki?
Why didn't she suggest Helsinki?
If she did, i'd cut with her forever because it would mean she'd want me to kill myself or so
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omurchu22: When i worked in the Uk a man told me to go to LA to make money ..
best advice i ever got
THE " LONDON AREA" IS VERY AFFLUENT .......
I thought she could of said that to you about the clothes... as you look very scruffy tonight
Yes i know Cheeky B**tard
best advice i ever got
THE " LONDON AREA" IS VERY AFFLUENT .......
I thought she could of said that to you about the clothes... as you look very scruffy tonight
Yes i know Cheeky B**tard
Hahaaaaa
, you silly boy 
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cristina: If she did, i'd cut with her forever because it would mean she'd want me to kill myself or so
You're nasty!
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cristina:
Have you ever lost friends by telling them what you think about them? What can't we say? If it's to improve their behaviour, to whom should we tell the harsh truth?
Have you ever lost friends by telling them what you think about them? What can't we say? If it's to improve their behaviour, to whom should we tell the harsh truth?
No....never lost a friend in that way.
In general, I let my friends be. Their behavior that I think is uncool really does not motivate me to tell them how they should be. One friend of mine talks forever about BS, but I listen and try and see where he is coming from or tell him I know where he is going with the story, but he keeps talking and it annoys me a little. But I don't have a man to man toak with him and tell him he should be this or do that.
Only if they ask, and if they do ask, I try to be as diplomatic and understanding as possible.
Personal attacks on friends is uncool.
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StressFree: No....never lost a friend in that way.
In general, I let my friends be. Their behavior that I think is uncool really does not motivate me to tell them how they should be. One friend of mine talks forever about BS, but I listen and try and see where he is coming from or tell him I know where he is going with the story, but he keeps talking and it annoys me a little. But I don't have a man to man toak with him and tell him he should be this or do that.
Only if they ask, and if they do ask, I try to be as diplomatic and understanding as possible.
Personal attacks on friends is uncool.
In general, I let my friends be. Their behavior that I think is uncool really does not motivate me to tell them how they should be. One friend of mine talks forever about BS, but I listen and try and see where he is coming from or tell him I know where he is going with the story, but he keeps talking and it annoys me a little. But I don't have a man to man toak with him and tell him he should be this or do that.
Only if they ask, and if they do ask, I try to be as diplomatic and understanding as possible.
Personal attacks on friends is uncool.
Yes SF, personal attacks on friends are uncool. I don't think i lost her, really! If she gets mad, i'll apologise very much!
Love you SF
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cristina: When my friend told me to go to NYC where i can be single and rich i told her to go to that TV program where they help people to improve their "taste" in dressing
Do you think there was a nice balance in this exchage of words?
Have you ever lost friends by telling them what you think about them? What can't we say? If it's to improve their behaviour, to whom should we tell the harsh truth?
Do you think there was a nice balance in this exchage of words?
Have you ever lost friends by telling them what you think about them? What can't we say? If it's to improve their behaviour, to whom should we tell the harsh truth?
We should always tell the absolute truth...but do it in kindness.
Kindness...a wors lost to the English language.
BTW...always telling the truth does not apply to one's wife!!
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shipoker58: We should always tell the absolute truth...but do it in kindness.
Kindness...a wors lost to the English language.
BTW...always telling the truth does not apply to one's wife!!
Kindness...a wors lost to the English language.
BTW...always telling the truth does not apply to one's wife!!
I was already laughing when i saw you've posted
, what ship? Really, you seem in love to me dude
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cristina:
Love you SF
Love you SF
Love me two times, baby
Love me twice today
Love me two times, girl
Im goin away
Love me two times, girl
One for tomorrow
One just for today
Love me two times
Im goin away - JM
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StressFree: Love me two times, baby
Love me twice today
Love me two times, girl
Im goin away
Love me two times, girl
One for tomorrow
One just for today
Love me two times
Im goin away - JM
Love me twice today
Love me two times, girl
Im goin away
Love me two times, girl
One for tomorrow
One just for today
Love me two times
Im goin away - JM
Lovely!
Who is JM sweetie? Joan Mitchell? I don't know the song.
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Well I try not to tell my friends the "harsh" truth..What's the point anyways? They will continue to live their life the way they think it's right and who am I to judge them on their choices. Live and let live is my motto..
And if my friends try to "fix" me I just smile and don't hold a grunge against them..It's always easier to "fix" someone else so if that makes them feel better, I will let them have their moment 
at least I will let them think so (being such a nice friend 
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And if my friends try to "fix" me
I just smile and don't hold a grunge against them..It's always easier to "fix" someone else so if that makes them feel better, I will let them have their moment at least I will let them think so (being such a nice friend )------ This thread is Archived ------
kamelia: Well I try not to tell my friends the "harsh" truth..What's the point anyways? They will continue to live their life the way they think it's right and who am I to judge them on their choices. Live and let live is my motto..
And if my friends try to "fix" me I just smile and don't hold a grunge against them..It's always easier to "fix" someone else so if that makes them feel better, I will let them have their moment at least I will let them think so (being such a nice friend )
And if my friends try to "fix" me I just smile and don't hold a grunge against them..It's always easier to "fix" someone else so if that makes them feel better, I will let them have their moment at least I will let them think so (being such a nice friend )
whah?
Some friends need your help...even if it hurts, if they are intelligent and recognise how important your role is in their lives, they will come back to you after you've told them the harsh truth
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I had a friend who slept with a man i was seeing. We fell out, but i later decided to let it go. We are now friends again.
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lusciousmile: I had a friend who slept with a man i was seeing. We fell out, but i later decided to let it go. We are now friends again.
I don't have any sort of friendship, or contact with the guy though.
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lusciousmile: I don't have any sort of friendship, or contact with the guy though.
in your view, she is probably worth your friendship than he did, not because it's a principle you have right? I mean, not everyone that sleeps with a guy you're seeing will always end up gaining your friendship right? Just be sure
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Do you think there was a nice balance in this exchage of words?
Have you ever lost friends by telling them what you think about them? What can't we say? If it's to improve their behaviour, to whom should we tell the harsh truth?