Are the people, who claim that they're here just for forums, here just for forums? ( Archived) (58)

Hey dude!! What's happening!!

At the beginning on here to find a man..found weasels instead , then decided only wanted to be on the forums... I came across "him indoors" on the forums, we got a chatting ..now full circle just on the forums for a natter to chill my brain out at the end of the day

I'm only for the forums. Reasons--

1) I need time and space to deal with my past baggages

2) I've been on the other side of the ocean where I believe there is no real chance to meet somebody

3) However, I find forums as an opportunity to get socially connected and have some good time (overall with pluses and minuses)

Actually, no. I haven't had any BAD experiences, though they haven't all been particularly great, either. Same as for most people, I think.....some good, some so-so, some you'd just as soon forget.
But I'm not searching profiles and trying actively to connect with someone here because of 3 things:
1. My location. Most CSers are far away from me and my job keeps me abroad. It's not just a matter of moving to another state for me if I found love; I would have to quit a job I love and which is offering me security in my life, which is very important to me after previous upheavals and struggles. I wouldn't take such a step lightly, and chances are great that I wouldn't even consider it. I would probably insist on a man making all the changes and adapting to MY life, traveling around the globe with me. Not too many men would choose to do that, and I can't blame them.

2. There are Greek men on this site, but the vast majority are a good deal younger than me. Greek men my age are not typically Internet active and I'm not going to date men half my age....most who contact me are between 23 and 28!!

3. Although I don't have a relationship (haven't met that special someone), I do enjoy a good social life. I do meet men and I date and so I am not feeling as great a need to search online as I did when I signed up here; I didn't know many people here then, but since that time I have met a fair amount of people and I get introduced to men now, so I'm content with the real-life situation. Having said that, I leave my profile active because one never knows.....

Yep.... just here for the Forums. Never received much interest really....
Still, I have now met someone (not on CS).
Mind you, still early days....

im here for the forums to be with all my friends!!!

Not only the forums. There is too the mail and the CS get togethers.

But I am really here because I have nowhere else to be ...

I am here because I am a hopeless romantic and have not given
up on somewhere out there in this vast cyber space is a guy
for me. But I also don't look near as often as I used
to and don't get many flowers or messages either. In the
meantime I really enjoy the forums and will be here as often
as possible.