druidess6308: Because she wants to make sure of the relationship first, not just dive into bed?
When I'm ready to think yes, I say yes...not all women always say no. If they did, the human race wouldn't exist!
Let me say: - can't we dive first into bed, sometimes it is really urgent, and later keep a conference? - but she is saying famous NO even when we are already horizontal. - not all, I agree. Almost all.
This is just to badger women to believe they don't have a right to say No. I will continue to say no until I have feelings for a man and we have a relationship.
mylifewithu: This is just to badger women to believe they don't have a right to say No. I will continue to say no until I have feelings for a man and we have a relationship.
shipoker58: That is a total misconception, as I stated in an above thread. men are often pressured. if he comes home from an exhausting day and is just too tired, the woman calls him all sorts of names because he is just not "up" to it!!
I'm sorry for your bad experience, and any other man who has had such an experience. I couldn't do that to a man. Sorry, Ship. Then you, and a handful of other men, can understand the concept. However, it's rare...normally it's the other way around.
This is To yourlifewithme and Druide: But why everything changes with marriage. Why than you don't use veto? Why than you' re always prepared like Delta force. Does it goes for this bloody paper? Can't believe that it is a release for you. Or it is? You don't have to think: what would be IF ....what could be IF... what would people think IF...?????? and only than I can have a real you. Your right to say NO is out of discussion. Can't be even discussable. Not even in theory such possibility don't exist. Like mine right. But , for Christ sake, say it when you really mean it. Can't always decode what you think.
This is To yourlifewithme and Druide: But why everything changes with marriage. Why than you don't use veto? Why than you' re always prepared like Delta force. Does it goes for this bloody paper? Can't believe that it is a release for you. Or it is? You don't have to think: what would be IF ....what could be IF... what would people think IF...?????? and only than I can have a real you. Your right to say NO is out of discussion. Can't be even discussable. Not even in theory such possibility don't exist. Like mine right. But , for Christ sake, say it when you really mean it. Can't always decode what you think.
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