Jealousy (153)
mehran_n: Jealousy from insecurity
shipoker58: Jealousy is a wasted emotion
jlw45: there is no explanation that will be good enough
Da10th: If they can't trust you, you're better off w/out them
...see a pattern?
Jealousy can be a little playful when one is young. It can be made into a display of loyalty... but as with all things, it also can be turned into a weapon of emotional destruction(sorry for the pun-like wording).
But look at it this way...
if someone really want to ruin a relationship(for whatever reason), they will find a way.
Sometimes in failure, it is the only way for a person to feel they have succeeded.
It is sad... but happens.
Best to let these people sort themselves out, rather than get pulled into the mix.
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kissmedeeply: I have to admit i am..
That is one thing i remember eric saying..
he wouldnt get involve with a woman being jealous
That is one thing i remember eric saying..
he wouldnt get involve with a woman being jealous
It appears he's changed his mind.
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Ambrose2007: Sounds like you're calling in the pigs or conducting an auction or something...?
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somechick: Sounds to me like they have a Trust issue to work out first before they begin a relationship with anyone.
Cause if I felt a man couldn't trust me I wouldn't want him in my life anymore.
Cause without trust in a relationship whether it's just a begining one etc then it wasn't really much of a relationship to begin with.
JMO
Cause if I felt a man couldn't trust me I wouldn't want him in my life anymore.
Cause without trust in a relationship whether it's just a begining one etc then it wasn't really much of a relationship to begin with.
JMO
Okay, Anna...that's not exactly fair.
Because if you were in a man's life, it would be the easiest thing in the world to trust you. The same can't be said for everyone.
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fireliter: there are some good fruits that can come from jealousy.
there is good and bad jealousy. bad is the most wide spread and known.
jealousy if used properly can bring focus and a drive to improve on ones self.
the bad jealousy is when its used to blame others for their own insecurity.
Jealousy when displayed without bitterness or blame can enhance a relationship.
jealousy is an emotion that only the ones with strong self esteem can handle properly.
there is good and bad jealousy. bad is the most wide spread and known.
jealousy if used properly can bring focus and a drive to improve on ones self.
the bad jealousy is when its used to blame others for their own insecurity.
Jealousy when displayed without bitterness or blame can enhance a relationship.
jealousy is an emotion that only the ones with strong self esteem can handle properly.
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LACali: I don't flirt, I'm not good at it that's why it's upsetting. I don't like it either which is another reason I'd never do it to someone. For those who do that's fine but I don't like being accused when I haven't done it.
That part I totally understand. I've been accused of many things I haven't done, and I detest that, g/f. ------ This thread is Archived ------
LACali: Just what I put in my original post being accused of flirting because I've already logged off and still shown as online and not posting in the forums. That's it.
Seriously - that's it? That's virtually nothing!
As Ship would say: "NEXT!"
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druidess6308: That part I totally understand. I've been accused of many things I haven't done, and I detest that, g/f.
alot of the times....when someone is going on about something like that, out of the blue....it could mean that they have something to hide themselves
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iLLL STOP THE WORLD AND MELT= WITH STEW...
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mylifewithu: I had something similiar happen only it was I had asked my guy why he was posting on some get together thread. He took it as jealousy from me.
When All I did was ask cause he had never told me about him wanting to go there. Oh well.
And it was going to be fairly close to my area and I was hoping that maybe I could have a chance to see him again.
\When All I did was ask cause he had never told me about him wanting to go there. Oh well.
And it was going to be fairly close to my area and I was hoping that maybe I could have a chance to see him again.
Relax, Lela. It was NO loss whatsoever on your part. You are entitled to ask reasonable questions. A person with half a brain and some minimally fractional compassion would have no problem with such questions.
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Some of you are saying that jealously is a wasted emotion and that people shouldn't get jealous. Do people really choose to get jealous? Most emotions aren't really chosen are they? You feel love, happiness, sadness, anger, jealously, etc because you just do. Not because you choose to.
You can control your emotions and you can control how you respond to feeling certain emotions but can you really choose NOT to feel emotions? If people could choose not to feel emotions then why would any of us ever feel pain (emotional pain I mean)?
I think we all feel all those "bad" emotions. It's how we handle the feelings that makes us who we are.
You can control your emotions and you can control how you respond to feeling certain emotions but can you really choose NOT to feel emotions? If people could choose not to feel emotions then why would any of us ever feel pain (emotional pain I mean)?
I think we all feel all those "bad" emotions. It's how we handle the feelings that makes us who we are.
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MindyQ: Some of you are saying that jealously is a wasted emotion and that people shouldn't get jealous. Do people really choose to get jealous? Most emotions aren't really chosen are they? You feel love, happiness, sadness, anger, jealously, etc because you just do. Not because you choose to.
You can control your emotions and you can control how you respond to feeling certain emotions but can you really choose NOT to feel emotions? If people could choose not to feel emotions then why would any of us ever feel pain (emotional pain I mean)?
I think we all feel all those "bad" emotions. It's how we handle the feelings that makes us who we are.
You can control your emotions and you can control how you respond to feeling certain emotions but can you really choose NOT to feel emotions? If people could choose not to feel emotions then why would any of us ever feel pain (emotional pain I mean)?
I think we all feel all those "bad" emotions. It's how we handle the feelings that makes us who we are.
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jlw45: alot of the times....when someone is going on about something like that, out of the blue....it could mean that they have something to hide themselves
That's very true cause they're afraid you're doing the same things they are....been there done that one...only it wasn't me who was cheating...but my ex-husband who was doing the accusing.....
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jlw45: alot of the times....when someone is going on about something like that, out of the blue....it could mean that they have something to hide themselves
Absolutely. I had a boyfriend once who had accused me of cheating, with no basis whatsoever for his accusations, only to find out that he was projecting his behavior onto me.
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Ambrose2007:
Relax, Lela. It was NO loss whatsoever on your part. You are entitled to ask reasonable questions. A person with half a brain and some minimally fractional compassion would have no problem with such questions.
Thankyou AmbroseRelax, Lela. It was NO loss whatsoever on your part. You are entitled to ask reasonable questions. A person with half a brain and some minimally fractional compassion would have no problem with such questions.
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MindyQ: Some of you are saying that jealously is a wasted emotion and that people shouldn't get jealous. Do people really choose to get jealous? Most emotions aren't really chosen are they? You feel love, happiness, sadness, anger, jealously, etc because you just do. Not because you choose to.
You can control your emotions and you can control how you respond to feeling certain emotions but can you really choose NOT to feel emotions? If people could choose not to feel emotions then why would any of us ever feel pain (emotional pain I mean)?
I think we all feel all those "bad" emotions. It's how we handle the feelings that makes us who we are.
Everything you do is a choice...love is a choice...and jealousy is a choice...so anger is a choice...u have the decision to react to a situation or say the hell with it...So, yes they are choices.....You can control your emotions and you can control how you respond to feeling certain emotions but can you really choose NOT to feel emotions? If people could choose not to feel emotions then why would any of us ever feel pain (emotional pain I mean)?
I think we all feel all those "bad" emotions. It's how we handle the feelings that makes us who we are.
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Ambrose2007: Okay, Anna...that's not exactly fair.
Because if you were in a man's life, it would be the easiest thing in the world to trust you. The same can't be said for everyone.
Because if you were in a man's life, it would be the easiest thing in the world to trust you. The same can't be said for everyone.
Until I saw your laugh and hug I thought uhoh Ambrose's mad at me.
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cardsfan24: Everything you do is a choice...love is a choice...and jealousy is a choice...so anger is a choice...u have the decision to react to a situation or say the hell with it...So, yes they are choices.....
have to disagree
I dont chose to be jealous..
I cant help that i am..
I just am..if i can change it i would..
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kissmedeeply: have to disagree
I dont chose to be jealous..
I cant help that i am..
I just am..if i can change it i would..
you choose to get angry when eric talks to another woman? correct?? in turns u to jealousy? That's the world we live in? choices...like we choose to disagree?I dont chose to be jealous..
I cant help that i am..
I just am..if i can change it i would..
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Sounds like you're calling in the pigs or conducting an auction or something...?