Jealousy ( Archived) (153)

Nov 28, 2008 8:05 PM CST Jealousy
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
If we insist in projecting ourselves onto another,
we will be let down sooner or later.
Should this 'emago' exceed the expectations we hold for
ourselves, jealousy can manifest.
I guess its a sign of insecurity, and quite often a sign
that a complex is at work.
Either way, sometimes I'm glad I'm single.grin



dancing
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Nov 28, 2008 8:06 PM CST Jealousy
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
I think I have been told to shut up in this thread!!rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Nov 28, 2008 8:06 PM CST Jealousy
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
B_S1965: hello everyone...
Hello wave wine applause
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Nov 28, 2008 8:08 PM CST Jealousy
B_S1965
B_S1965B_S1965champlin, Minnesota USA9 Threads 308 Posts
mylifewithu: Hello
Hi Lela
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Nov 28, 2008 8:08 PM CST Jealousy
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
mylifewithu: Ok I am jealous my spammer only wrote me once. But he wrote Shelly twice , that's just not fair.
.....''but, i don't like spam....don't make a fuss dear, i'll have yours...i love it''...........''spam spam spam spam....spam, LOVLEY SPAM ,WONDERFUL SPAM''dancing ...............rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 28, 2008 8:09 PM CST Jealousy
MindyQ
MindyQMindyQPhiladelphia, Pennsylvania USA9 Threads 171 Posts
B_S1965: Hi, Mindy I found one also and reported it.


I went to report the girl but the report feature asked for evidence. I don't feel like going to the other website and waiting for that ad to pop back up just so I can write down the URL for proof and report her. So I didn't report her. I think if the CS people read the profile they will notice that the profile says one country but the girl says she is from one of those not-allowed-on-CS countries.

Am I supposed to report profiles even if I can't PROVE it. Even though it's pretty obvious?

To stay on topic with this post.......

I noticed this fake profile when she scooted ahead of me on the ratings list. I am jealous. ha ha ha
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Nov 28, 2008 8:12 PM CST Jealousy
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
MindyQ: I went to report the girl but the report feature asked for evidence. I don't feel like going to the other website and waiting for that ad to pop back up just so I can write down the URL for proof and report her. So I didn't report her. I think if the CS people read the profile they will notice that the profile says one country but the girl says she is from one of those not-allowed-on-CS countries.

Am I supposed to report profiles even if I can't PROVE it. Even though it's pretty obvious?

To stay on topic with this post.......

I noticed this fake profile when she scooted ahead of me on the ratings list. I am jealous. ha ha ha
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing That one gets me too.frustrated

We have one that says has blue eyes but picture is brown eyes. But I am not gonna fight it. Let someone interested in them discover that fake some day on their own, if they aren't smart enough to notice that, then they deserve it.rolling on the floor laughing professor doh
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Nov 28, 2008 8:13 PM CST Jealousy
B_S1965
B_S1965B_S1965champlin, Minnesota USA9 Threads 308 Posts
MindyQ: I went to report the girl but the report feature asked for evidence. I don't feel like going to the other website and waiting for that ad to pop back up just so I can write down the URL for proof and report her. So I didn't report her. I think if the CS people read the profile they will notice that the profile says one country but the girl says she is from one of those not-allowed-on-CS countries.

Am I supposed to report profiles even if I can't PROVE it. Even though it's pretty obvious?

To stay on topic with this post.......

I noticed this fake profile when she scooted ahead of me on the ratings list. I am jealous. ha ha ha
Yeah mine actually contacted me and gave me other pictures of her or the person she was supposed to be...rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 28, 2008 8:27 PM CST Jealousy
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
mylifewithu: Lie lie your pants on fire.



I had nothing to with thatrolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 28, 2008 8:58 PM CST Jealousy
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
LACali: It's kind of been resolved now.


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Nov 28, 2008 9:03 PM CST Jealousy
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
mylifewithu: That one gets me too.

We have one that says has blue eyes but picture is brown eyes. But I am not gonna fight it. Let someone interested in them discover that fake some day on their own, if they aren't smart enough to notice that, then they deserve it.


Yeah...I've gotten one of those! I've also seen them where they made changes in the profile that didn't blend in well, and were so obviously written by someone else that it was pathetic. The original owner of the profile was a very intelligent, well-spoken man with excellent grammar and spelling, and there were places that had the typical scammer pigkin English and misspellings, as did the email I received. I reported that one with a detailed description of the errors, and it was pulled.

laugh laugh laugh
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Nov 28, 2008 9:33 PM CST Jealousy
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
fireliter: I had nothing to with that
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I think you just mightwink laugh
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Nov 28, 2008 9:37 PM CST Jealousy
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
druidess6308: Yeah...I've gotten one of those! I've also seen them where they made changes in the profile that didn't blend in well, and were so obviously written by someone else that it was pathetic. The original owner of the profile was a very intelligent, well-spoken man with excellent grammar and spelling, and there were places that had the typical scammer pigkin English and misspellings, as did the email I received. I reported that one with a detailed description of the errors, and it was pulled.
Well I had thought about reporting but I figured there's not really enough on it to prove a lot so , I will just leave it alone.
Well that was good you got him on that. That's funny !
Do you remember when we had mouthy alex here awhile back, he had a profile that had been copied from some woman's profile.
And I guess he never read it and corrected it before using it for his self. So in his profile it mentions what sort of man he wanted. But he was looking for women.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 28, 2008 9:45 PM CST Jealousy
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
RobbieM: Some people basically are insane.

Web sites are full of these people, the paranoid, the cranky bitter twisted people who cant communicate properly and in real life you would spot them via their body language and demeanour.

Online its different, and you don't have the benefit of seeing if the person you talk to is a twitching drooling maniac whos putting on a good act.

The problem with maniacs is they cant keep this up for long and then you find out your talking to a maniac.


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Nov 28, 2008 9:52 PM CST Jealousy
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
LACali: I wonder why some people are jealous? If it's really an excuse to just blow the person off which is what I think. I only talk to one person at a time on here and then if it finishes I've talked to the next one (except my female friends that I've made) but when I do talk to someone I'm accused of flirting with lots of guys on here based on nothing. I think its an excuse to throw the whole thing over.
Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.


I encountered this type couple of times too. Didn't look like an excuse to me, no.

Jealousy is a mixture of human emotions - it's natural. But what you described is more like possessiveness, trying to control you. It's ugly and no woman should deal with it. You were lucky they showed it right away, could be worse. Don't feel sorry.
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Nov 28, 2008 10:32 PM CST Jealousy
MindyQ
MindyQMindyQPhiladelphia, Pennsylvania USA9 Threads 171 Posts
The fake profile that I mention in this thread was removed within 30 minutes of me reporting her. Good job CS people.

To stay on the OP topic of jealously......

I noticed this fake profile after she scooted ahead of me on the rating list. I became jealous.
Let that be a lesson to you fake profile people. Don't butt ahead of me on the rating list or I'll alert the authorities.
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Nov 28, 2008 10:38 PM CST Jealousy
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
MindyQ: The fake profile that I mention in this thread was removed within 30 minutes of me reporting her. Good job CS people.

To stay on the OP topic of jealously......

I noticed this fake profile after she scooted ahead of me on the rating list. I became jealous.
Let that be a lesson to you fake profile people. Don't butt ahead of me on the rating list or I'll alert the authorities.
You are a real tiger girl. Good job.bowing thumbs up laugh
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Nov 29, 2008 1:14 PM CST Jealousy
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
kissmedeeply: people that arnt jealous dont know what they are talking...

I am jealous dont mean i am quilty of anything...

you just have to walk in our shoes to really know what
its all about


I gave two examples... 1. people who themselves have been unfaithful (think others are like that too)
2. Or those who have been betrayed (need to regain trust)

Jealousy is a pointless destructive emotion.. I would run a mile from someone who was displaying jealous tendancies... its one thing someone being pissed off with me for doing something.. but someone being pissed off with me for doing nothing would be more than I would be willing to put up with...

Everyone to their own though...
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Nov 29, 2008 1:17 PM CST Jealousy
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Aries01: I gave two examples... 1. people who themselves have been unfaithful (think others are like that too)
2. Or those who have been betrayed (need to regain trust)

Jealousy is a pointless destructive emotion.. I would run a mile from someone who was displaying jealous tendancies... its one thing someone being pissed off with me for doing something.. but someone being pissed off with me for doing nothing would be more than I would be willing to put up with...

Everyone to their own though...


How could anyone be pissed off with you?very happy


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Nov 29, 2008 4:41 PM CST Jealousy
TwilightStar
TwilightStarTwilightStarLos Angeles, California USA103 Posts
LACali: I wonder why some people are jealous? If it's really an excuse to just blow the person off which is what I think. I only talk to one person at a time on here and then if it finishes I've talked to the next one (except my female friends that I've made) but when I do talk to someone I'm accused of flirting with lots of guys on here based on nothing. I think its an excuse to throw the whole thing over.
Also when you log off the site shows you logged on for 45 minutes after you're gone. I've been accused of being online secretly flirting when I was in bed asleep.
The truth is that aside from joking around I've only even emailed back and forth with 3 guys on this site and talked on the phone with two of them.
I've never been a big flirt, it just isn't something I know how to do very well, and don't have the energy to talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm really tired of this.
it's practically human nature to be protective of things, even people, that we feel "belong" to us. i only use that word because of mutual exclusiveness.
some deep rooted nerve in our minds takes over when we feel threatened that we may lose someone. especially when they may be attractive and sought after. rationality and everything that makes sense sort of loses its sway when this happens. i.e the irrational accusations.
it's tough to deal with but trust is what's needed professor
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