There are a lot of books and columns that say one thing or another about this topic. So lets be real what does it take??? What is it?? Yes I know it is different for everyone. So spill what would stop you???
Something playfully innocent, yet respectful, a touch of gusto and perhaps brushed with drive. Some common ground, some new ground... willingness to break it.
spiceygamble: Something playfully innocent, yet respectful, a touch of gusto and perhaps brushed with drive. Some common ground, some new ground... willingness to break it.
In some cases its chemistry.... on others it maybe there sense of humor or personality. Actually its a combination of all these things. Its a good feeling when you talk or see that person.... JMO
Justme4uok: In some cases its chemistry.... on others it maybe there sense of humor or personality. Actually its a combination of all these things. Its a good feeling when you talk or see that person.... JMO
Thanks You are so right. It is a very good feeling. Guess that is why we are on here looking for that ...... something that stops us.
yes all that, plus you seem to know that it's a good thing and follow your gut feeling. I believe that when you are destined to meet someone, it will happen when you least expect it, and you can't stop thinking about the other person
ooyster: yes all that, plus you seem to know that it's a good thing and follow your gut feeling. I believe that when you are destined to meet someone, it will happen when you least expect it, and you can't stop thinking about the other person
Another peice of the puzzle falls into place. Women need to trust their instincts more, which we don't. Men seem to just do that naturally.
When I started to "him indoors" on here, I was intrigued by him. There were time we were lost in translation which made for some very funny emails We met after a few weeks and there was just something about him that appealed to me.. hard to quantify at the time and just wanted to know about him
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