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Dec 2, 2008 1:17 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
CrimsonWolf
CrimsonWolfCrimsonWolfCalgary, Alberta Canada1 Threads 56 Posts
There are a lot of books and columns that say one thing or another about this topic. So lets be real what does it take??? What is it?? Yes I know it is different for everyone. So spill what would stop you???
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Dec 2, 2008 1:20 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
It's not something I can put into words, Theres just something just there.
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Dec 2, 2008 1:20 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA36 Threads 3 Polls 4,493 Posts
Something playfully innocent, yet respectful, a touch of gusto and perhaps brushed with drive.
Some common ground, some new ground... willingness to break it.

...and tons of potential.
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Dec 2, 2008 1:21 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
CrimsonWolf
CrimsonWolfCrimsonWolfCalgary, Alberta Canada1 Threads 56 Posts
Dknew: It's not something I can put into words, Theres just something just there.

From a guy's perspective is it the way the lady looks that catches your eye or the vibe she is giving off?
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Dec 2, 2008 1:22 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
CrimsonWolf
CrimsonWolfCrimsonWolfCalgary, Alberta Canada1 Threads 56 Posts
spiceygamble: Something playfully innocent, yet respectful, a touch of gusto and perhaps brushed with drive.
Some common ground, some new ground... willingness to break it.

...and tons of potential.

Thank you beautifully put.
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Dec 2, 2008 1:22 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
JimNastics
JimNasticsJimNasticsKingston, New Jersey USA116 Threads 1 Polls 731 Posts
for most women a gun to the head will suffice. laugh
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Dec 2, 2008 1:24 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
ooyster
ooysterooysterSt. Julians, Majjistral Malta3 Posts
I think it all adds up to chemistry
wine
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Dec 2, 2008 1:26 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
CrimsonWolf: From a guy's perspective is it the way the lady looks that catches your eye or the vibe she is giving off?



A vibe I'd say.
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Dec 2, 2008 1:26 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
CrimsonWolf
CrimsonWolfCrimsonWolfCalgary, Alberta Canada1 Threads 56 Posts
JimNastics: for most women a gun to the head will suffice.

Wow funny can't put into words what would stop you? or are you that bitter against women?
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Dec 2, 2008 1:28 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
CrimsonWolf
CrimsonWolfCrimsonWolfCalgary, Alberta Canada1 Threads 56 Posts
ooyster: I think it all adds up to chemistry

Yes I would say that is a good part to the puzzle.
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Dec 2, 2008 1:29 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
Justme4uok
Justme4uokJustme4uokNorthern CA, California USA28 Threads 5,737 Posts
In some cases its chemistry.... on others it maybe there sense of humor or personality. Actually its a combination of all these things. Its a good feeling when you talk or see that person.... JMO
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Dec 2, 2008 1:32 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
CrimsonWolf
CrimsonWolfCrimsonWolfCalgary, Alberta Canada1 Threads 56 Posts
Justme4uok: In some cases its chemistry.... on others it maybe there sense of humor or personality. Actually its a combination of all these things. Its a good feeling when you talk or see that person.... JMO

Thankshug
You are so right. It is a very good feeling. Guess that is why we are on here looking for that ...... something that stops us.
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Dec 2, 2008 1:32 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
ooyster
ooysterooysterSt. Julians, Majjistral Malta3 Posts
yes all that, plus you seem to know that it's a good thing and follow your gut feeling. I believe that when you are destined to meet someone, it will happen when you least expect it, and you can't stop thinking about the other person
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Dec 2, 2008 1:35 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
JimNastics
JimNasticsJimNasticsKingston, New Jersey USA116 Threads 1 Polls 731 Posts
CrimsonWolf: Wow funny can't put into words what would stop you? or are you that bitter against women?


Nope. I just seek a rare gem, rather than just a common roll in the hay.
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Dec 2, 2008 1:35 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
Dknew: It's not something I can put into words, Theres just something just there.

Agreed. thumbs up
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Dec 2, 2008 1:37 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
a woman that farts...scold
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Dec 2, 2008 1:38 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
CrimsonWolf
CrimsonWolfCrimsonWolfCalgary, Alberta Canada1 Threads 56 Posts
ooyster: yes all that, plus you seem to know that it's a good thing and follow your gut feeling. I believe that when you are destined to meet someone, it will happen when you least expect it, and you can't stop thinking about the other person



Another peice of the puzzle falls into place.
Women need to trust their instincts more, which we don't. Men seem to just do that naturally.
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Dec 2, 2008 1:38 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
Justme4uok
Justme4uokJustme4uokNorthern CA, California USA28 Threads 5,737 Posts
cardsfan24: a woman that farts...


doh All women fart - we just don't always fart in front of you!!!!laugh
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Dec 2, 2008 1:38 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
When I started to "him indoors" on here, I was intrigued by him. There were time we were lost in translation laugh which made for some very funny emails
We met after a few weeks and there was just something about him that appealed to me.. hard to quantify at the time and just wanted to know about him kiss
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Dec 2, 2008 1:39 PM CST Seriously What makes you stop and say I want to meet/date/relationship with that person?
CrimsonWolf
CrimsonWolfCrimsonWolfCalgary, Alberta Canada1 Threads 56 Posts
JimNastics: Nope. I just seek a rare gem, rather than just a common roll in the hay.


Good man. Great answer.
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