So I met this girl online and I have feelings for her. I talk to her on the phone and online and she makes me laugh and feel happy. I am attracted to her and I feel we have things in common. I want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid she will not feel the same about me. If I do decide to tell her I want to tell her on the phone how I feel because I know it will mean more to her. Maybe this sounds irresponsible since I haven't met her in person just talked to her online and on the phone. I'm just not sure if I should tell her on the phone or wait until I see her in person. The problem with meeting her in person is that she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York.
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RadioheadFan123: So I met this girl online and I have feelings for her. I talk to her on the phone and online and she makes me laugh and feel happy. I am attracted to her and I feel we have things in common. I want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid she will not feel the same about me. If I do decide to tell her I want to tell her on the phone how I feel because I know it will mean more to her. Maybe this sounds irresponsible since I haven't met her in person just talked to her online and on the phone. I'm just not sure if I should tell her on the phone or wait until I see her in person. The problem with meeting her in person is that she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York.
No she already had a boyfriend. I asked the girl from my class on a "date" and it was an awkward moment when she said she already had a boyfriend.
Thank you. I have a feeling in my gut I should call her and tell her how I feel. It's just not going to be easy. I feel like when I call her I'm holding back something I want to say to her but I don't because I don't want it to ruin anything.
RadioheadFan123: So I met this girl online and I have feelings for her. I talk to her on the phone and online and she makes me laugh and feel happy. I am attracted to her and I feel we have things in common. I want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid she will not feel the same about me. If I do decide to tell her I want to tell her on the phone how I feel because I know it will mean more to her. Maybe this sounds irresponsible since I haven't met her in person just talked to her online and on the phone. I'm just not sure if I should tell her on the phone or wait until I see her in person. The problem with meeting her in person is that she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York.
RadioheadFan123: So I met this girl online and I have feelings for her. I talk to her on the phone and online and she makes me laugh and feel happy. I am attracted to her and I feel we have things in common. I want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid she will not feel the same about me. If I do decide to tell her I want to tell her on the phone how I feel because I know it will mean more to her. Maybe this sounds irresponsible since I haven't met her in person just talked to her online and on the phone. I'm just not sure if I should tell her on the phone or wait until I see her in person. The problem with meeting her in person is that she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York.
May be you should wait till meeting her in person. I would, for the simple reason I might feel differently in person, and it could be embarrassing to back out. good luck
RadioheadFan123: So I met this girl online and I have feelings for her. I talk to her on the phone and online and she makes me laugh and feel happy. I am attracted to her and I feel we have things in common. I want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid she will not feel the same about me. If I do decide to tell her I want to tell her on the phone how I feel because I know it will mean more to her. Maybe this sounds irresponsible since I haven't met her in person just talked to her online and on the phone. I'm just not sure if I should tell her on the phone or wait until I see her in person. The problem with meeting her in person is that she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York.
if your feelings are that strong for her..you should tell her so...
if you are talking on the phone...I am sure that she has SOME kind of feelings for you...most don't give out phone numbers to man/woman unless they are interested in them...JMO
pretzelman: He has posted this same question about three times!! He doesn't want answers! he changes the composition but asks the same question.
I always say...if you don't want advice, don't ask fot it, again and again!!Sorry
Im inclined to agree, despite the sympathy I have for his situation, I also think that it is time he stepped out there, took the plunge and lived with the consequences.. there is no need to be afraid.. everyone (and I mean EVERYONE) has to go through this... from the age of 19 to 29 if he does not manage to get hurt a little he is officially a recluse.. its all part of the process...of life..
All I'm doing is asking advice and I'm sorry you people think I'm saying the same thing over and over. Yeah I can be sarcastic too but I don't appreciate pretzelman's sarcasm.
RadioheadFan123: All I'm doing is asking advice and I'm sorry you people think I'm saying the same thing over and over. Yeah I can be sarcastic too but I don't appreciate pretzelman's sarcasm.
Don't feel pregnant!! Most people agree with you!!
So I told her how I felt about her. She cried tears of joy and she said she "wished I was there to hug her."
Pretzelman I take back anything bad or offensive I said. You are right that sometimes you just have to go for it.
This is just one of the few times I have actually had success asking a girl out. Well.. she didn't say yes but the way she reacted gave me an indication she felt the same way about me.
RadioheadFan123: So I told her how I felt about her. She cried tears of joy and she said she "wished I was there to hug her."
Pretzelman I take back anything bad or offensive I said. You are right that sometimes you just have to go for it.
This is just one of the few times I have actually had success asking a girl out. Well.. she didn't say yes but the way she reacted gave me an indication she felt the same way about me.
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