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Dec 15, 2008 1:01 AM CST don't know what to do..
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 Posts
So I met this girl online and I have feelings for her. I talk to her on the phone and online and she makes me laugh and feel happy. I am attracted to her and I feel we have things in common. I want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid she will not feel the same about me. If I do decide to tell her I want to tell her on the phone how I feel because I know it will mean more to her. Maybe this sounds irresponsible since I haven't met her in person just talked to her online and on the phone. I'm just not sure if I should tell her on the phone or wait until I see her in person. The problem with meeting her in person is that she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York.
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Dec 15, 2008 1:03 AM CST don't know what to do..
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
RadioheadFan123: So I met this girl online and I have feelings for her. I talk to her on the phone and online and she makes me laugh and feel happy. I am attracted to her and I feel we have things in common. I want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid she will not feel the same about me. If I do decide to tell her I want to tell her on the phone how I feel because I know it will mean more to her. Maybe this sounds irresponsible since I haven't met her in person just talked to her online and on the phone. I'm just not sure if I should tell her on the phone or wait until I see her in person. The problem with meeting her in person is that she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York.


What is your gut telling you to do,

be guided by that,

wish you the very best,

surprised its not the girl from your class !!

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Dec 15, 2008 1:11 AM CST don't know what to do..
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 Posts
livinglarge: What is your gut telling you to do,

be guided by that,

wish you the very best,

surprised its not the girl from your class !!


No she already had a boyfriend. I asked the girl from my class on a "date" and it was an awkward moment when she said she already had a boyfriend.

Thank you. I have a feeling in my gut I should call her and tell her how I feel. It's just not going to be easy. I feel like when I call her I'm holding back something I want to say to her but I don't because I don't want it to ruin anything.
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Dec 15, 2008 1:57 AM CST don't know what to do..
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
RadioheadFan123: So I met this girl online and I have feelings for her. I talk to her on the phone and online and she makes me laugh and feel happy. I am attracted to her and I feel we have things in common. I want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid she will not feel the same about me. If I do decide to tell her I want to tell her on the phone how I feel because I know it will mean more to her. Maybe this sounds irresponsible since I haven't met her in person just talked to her online and on the phone. I'm just not sure if I should tell her on the phone or wait until I see her in person. The problem with meeting her in person is that she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York.




Chit...or get off the pot!!
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Dec 15, 2008 2:00 AM CST don't know what to do..
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
I have a better question....why do grown men ask for advice on what they should do about a woman??

Take the lead!

If it works out...I can see the whole senario!!


Her: Do you think we should buy a car??
Him: Let's do a poll on CS! I'm sure they will have the answer.




Her: do want me to be on top. tonight?
Him: I'm sure someone on CS will be able to help me decide


Get a grip!!
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Dec 15, 2008 2:09 AM CST don't know what to do..
PietroPaoloV
PietroPaoloVPietroPaoloVGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden57 Threads 3 Polls 722 Posts
Give the guy a break. He's 19
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Dec 15, 2008 2:24 AM CST don't know what to do..
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
pretzelman: I have a better question....why do grown men ask for advice on what they should do about a woman??

Take the lead!

If it works out...I can see the whole senario!!Her: Do you think we should buy a car??
Him: Let's do a poll on CS! I'm sure they will have the answer.

Her: do want me to be on top. tonight?
Him: I'm sure someone on CS will be able to help me decideGet a grip!!


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Dec 15, 2008 2:26 AM CST don't know what to do..
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
PietroPaoloV: Give the guy a break. He's 19



He has posted this same question about three times!! He doesn't want answers! he changes the composition but asks the same question.

I always say...if you don't want advice, don't ask fot it, again and again!!


Sorry
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Dec 15, 2008 2:28 AM CST don't know what to do..
simran2008
simran2008simran2008Chennai, Tamil Nadu India5 Threads 120 Posts
RadioheadFan123: So I met this girl online and I have feelings for her. I talk to her on the phone and online and she makes me laugh and feel happy. I am attracted to her and I feel we have things in common. I want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid she will not feel the same about me. If I do decide to tell her I want to tell her on the phone how I feel because I know it will mean more to her. Maybe this sounds irresponsible since I haven't met her in person just talked to her online and on the phone. I'm just not sure if I should tell her on the phone or wait until I see her in person. The problem with meeting her in person is that she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York.
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May be you should wait till meeting her in person. I would, for the simple reason I might feel differently in person, and it could be embarrassing to back out.
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Dec 15, 2008 2:29 AM CST don't know what to do..
CrosstownTraffic
CrosstownTrafficCrosstownTrafficMalaga, Andalusia Spain3 Threads 732 Posts
pretzelman: Chit...or get off the pot!!


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Dec 15, 2008 2:31 AM CST don't know what to do..
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
RadioheadFan123: So I met this girl online and I have feelings for her. I talk to her on the phone and online and she makes me laugh and feel happy. I am attracted to her and I feel we have things in common. I want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid she will not feel the same about me. If I do decide to tell her I want to tell her on the phone how I feel because I know it will mean more to her. Maybe this sounds irresponsible since I haven't met her in person just talked to her online and on the phone. I'm just not sure if I should tell her on the phone or wait until I see her in person. The problem with meeting her in person is that she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York.


if your feelings are that strong for her..you should tell her so...

if you are talking on the phone...I am sure that she has SOME kind of feelings for you...most don't give out phone numbers to man/woman unless they are interested in them...JMO
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Dec 15, 2008 2:34 AM CST don't know what to do..
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
pretzelman: He has posted this same question about three times!! He doesn't want answers! he changes the composition but asks the same question.

I always say...if you don't want advice, don't ask fot it, again and again!!Sorry





Love the hat Ship!!yay
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Dec 15, 2008 2:39 AM CST don't know what to do..
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
Da10th: Love the hat Ship!!
tip hat Thank you...LOL
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Dec 15, 2008 2:49 AM CST don't know what to do..
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Ok Shippy ...this beats Mindy's post for Post of the Week Award...


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pretzelman: I have a better question....why do grown men ask for advice on what they should do about a woman??

Take the lead!

If it works out...I can see the whole senario!!Her: Do you think we should buy a car??
Him: Let's do a poll on CS! I'm sure they will have the answer.

Her: do want me to be on top. tonight?
Him: I'm sure someone on CS will be able to help me decideGet a grip!!
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Dec 15, 2008 4:24 AM CST don't know what to do..
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
pretzelman: He has posted this same question about three times!! He doesn't want answers! he changes the composition but asks the same question.

I always say...if you don't want advice, don't ask fot it, again and again!!Sorry


Im inclined to agree, despite the sympathy I have for his situation, I also think that it is time he stepped out there, took the plunge and lived with the consequences.. there is no need to be afraid.. everyone (and I mean EVERYONE) has to go through this... from the age of 19 to 29 if he does not manage to get hurt a little he is officially a recluse.. its all part of the process...of life..
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Dec 15, 2008 9:32 PM CST don't know what to do..
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 Posts
All I'm doing is asking advice and I'm sorry you people think I'm saying the same thing over and over. Yeah I can be sarcastic too but I don't appreciate pretzelman's sarcasm.
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Dec 15, 2008 9:44 PM CST don't know what to do..
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 Posts
You are right on one thing that I'm afraid of being hurt.
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Dec 15, 2008 9:46 PM CST don't know what to do..
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
RadioheadFan123: All I'm doing is asking advice and I'm sorry you people think I'm saying the same thing over and over. Yeah I can be sarcastic too but I don't appreciate pretzelman's sarcasm.




Don't feel pregnant!! Most people agree with you!!handshake
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Dec 16, 2008 12:08 AM CST don't know what to do..
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA115 Threads 28 Polls 471 Posts
So I told her how I felt about her. She cried tears of joy and she said she "wished I was there to hug her."

Pretzelman I take back anything bad or offensive I said. You are right that sometimes you just have to go for it.

This is just one of the few times I have actually had success asking a girl out. Well.. she didn't say yes but the way she reacted gave me an indication she felt the same way about me.


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Dec 16, 2008 12:10 AM CST don't know what to do..
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
RadioheadFan123: So I told her how I felt about her. She cried tears of joy and she said she "wished I was there to hug her."

Pretzelman I take back anything bad or offensive I said. You are right that sometimes you just have to go for it.

This is just one of the few times I have actually had success asking a girl out. Well.. she didn't say yes but the way she reacted gave me an indication she felt the same way about me.




Life is good!! Happy Holidays!!handshake
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