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Dec 16, 2008 2:52 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA3 Threads 1,267 Posts
immanuelle: I have a performance tomorrow, not a biggie...but am accompanying a group of 5 to 11 year old munchkins on the piano for a Christmas concert. Although I have been playing for a long time, I still always feel physically sick when I have to perform in front of a group. I enjoy it, but get quite nervous still. How do you overcome stage fright? Do you do anything special to relax yourself? Would appreciate any input. Thanks.


A double scotch before stepping on stage does wonders!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Best of luck, darlin!!wave
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Dec 16, 2008 2:52 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
friendsfirst: ..And what did you learn from her?

Was it for your own good?
i learned that ''black bird'' being played on the piano, really suckedrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 16, 2008 3:05 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
immanuelle
immanuelleimmanuelleThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands63 Threads 1,962 Posts
woody636: A double scotch before stepping on stage does wonders!! Best of luck, darlin!!


Thanks....will save for afterwards. Last thing I need with my already unsettled stomach is to leave remnants of Glen Livet on any of the kids...lol
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Dec 16, 2008 3:09 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
immanuelle: Gosh...flashback to grade 7 music. The instrumental music teacher used to throw the baton at kids and knock over the sheet music stand when she got extremely angry. I remember being terrified of her. On the other hand the vocal music teacher would wear low cut blouses and bend over all the time in front of the boys. Needless to say, many boys chose vocal music that year....
rolling on the floor laughing if my music teacher had done that...all you would've seen ,is some saggy baggysrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ....she was scolding me in front of the class, one time...and she grabbed me by the arm and i jerked away from her....and when she came at me, she tripped over her brief case and hit her head on the corner of the disk and got a big ole' black eye.....i just walked out of classrolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 16, 2008 3:34 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
immanuelle
immanuelleimmanuelleThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands63 Threads 1,962 Posts
jlw45: if my music teacher had done that...all you would've seen ,is some saggy baggys ....she was scolding me in front of the class, one time...and she grabbed me by the arm and i jerked away from her....and when she came at me, she tripped over her brief case and hit her head on the corner of the disk and got a big ole' black eye.....i just walked out of class


Ouch!! But you are bringing back some funny memories for me...University lecture hall, writing a brutal quantity surveyor exam..Deathly silent but the sound of shuffling papers and sniffles and the professor (I think she went to sit on the edge of the desk), wipes out to the floor with a big clatter, and 200 students look up and crack right up. She picks herself up in the quick bouncy motions of a cartoon character. She later became my boss and said that she knew the moment the incident happened by every exam paper, because the answers became gibberish at some point on every students paper.
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Dec 16, 2008 3:47 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
friendsfirst: Do you have youtube?
If so take video/audio and post it here.

I remember my music teacher like yesterday.


I do also. I had several of them Elementary School: Mr. Duvall, Mr. Remus; Jr High: Mr Remus again, his brother in law Mr Romulus;, NOT KIDDING HS Mr. Rodnicki, (favorite), Miss Dillie my gf's older sister: all were Excellent.yay yay
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Dec 16, 2008 3:50 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
immanuelle
immanuelleimmanuelleThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands63 Threads 1,962 Posts
CjTenorSax: I do also. I had several of them Elementary School: Mr. Duvall, Mr. Remus; Jr High: Mr Remus again, his brother in law Mr Romulus;, NOT KIDDING HS Mr. Rodnicki, (favorite), Miss Dillie my gf's older sister: all were Excellent.
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Dec 16, 2008 3:51 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
immanuelle: I have a performance tomorrow, not a biggie...but am accompanying a group of 5 to 11 year old munchkins on the piano for a Christmas concert. Although I have been playing for a long time, I still always feel physically sick when I have to perform in front of a group. I enjoy it, but get quite nervous still. How do you overcome stage fright? Do you do anything special to relax yourself? Would appreciate any input. Thanks.


Sorry, I'm not much help with this considering I never did get over the stage fright! barf

hug
Merky
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Dec 16, 2008 4:08 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
immanuelle
immanuelleimmanuelleThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands63 Threads 1,962 Posts
hopefloats: Sorry, I'm not much help with this considering I never did get over the stage fright!


Merky


Thanks Merky...

Does anyone remember the poor Canadian girl from Montreal who butchered the American National Anthem at a 2005 hockey game between Canada and the States, forgetting the lyrics, retrying twice over and then falling on the ice, all on live TV....Now THAT is a lot worse than farting while in the limelight...and gives stage fright a whole new meaning...poor thing

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Dec 16, 2008 5:26 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
immanuelle: Thanks Merky...

Does anyone remember the poor Canadian girl from Montreal who butchered the American National Anthem at a 2005 hockey game between Canada and the States, forgetting the lyrics, retrying twice over and then falling on the ice, all on live TV....Now THAT is a lot worse than farting while in the limelight...and gives stage fright a whole new meaning...poor thing



rolling on the floor laughing wow
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Dec 16, 2008 5:31 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
southtc
southtcsouthtcBurnsville, Minnesota USA118 Posts
immanuelle: I have a performance tomorrow, not a biggie...but am accompanying a group of 5 to 11 year old munchkins on the piano for a Christmas concert. Although I have been playing for a long time, I still always feel physically sick when I have to perform in front of a group. I enjoy it, but get quite nervous still. How do you overcome stage fright? Do you do anything special to relax yourself? Would appreciate any input. Thanks.


A short walk, some fresh air and the thought of the satisfaction you'll have when the performance is done always worked for me.

Good luck!
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Dec 17, 2008 4:00 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
immanuelle
immanuelleimmanuelleThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands63 Threads 1,962 Posts
immanuelle: I have a performance tomorrow, not a biggie...but am accompanying a group of 5 to 11 year old munchkins on the piano for a Christmas concert. Although I have been playing for a long time, I still always feel physically sick when I have to perform in front of a group. I enjoy it, but get quite nervous still. How do you overcome stage fright? Do you do anything special to relax yourself? Would appreciate any input. Thanks.


Thank you all for your advise and encouragement. The concert was successful, but I feel like an idiot for ever having thought that this was in any way about me. One of my strapping 9 year old boys diagnosis autism and cognitive developmental delays cried throughout the entire performance. His father, armed with his camcorder walked away distraught. In that, I failed him. Sometimes hate what I do....too much sadness... Goodnight all.
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Dec 17, 2008 4:03 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
immanuelle: I have a performance tomorrow, not a biggie...but am accompanying a group of 5 to 11 year old munchkins on the piano for a Christmas concert. Although I have been playing for a long time, I still always feel physically sick when I have to perform in front of a group. I enjoy it, but get quite nervous still. How do you overcome stage fright? Do you do anything special to relax yourself? Would appreciate any input. Thanks.


I'd usually suggest imagining the audience naked...but that could get you arrested in this case.

Seriously, I'd suggest spending some time visualizing positive things happening when you perform - linking performance with positive feelings through self-hypnosis/meditation.
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Dec 18, 2008 2:01 PM CST For any musicians out there, please advise if you have the time
immanuelle: Thank you all for your advise and encouragement. The concert was successful, but I feel like an idiot for ever having thought that this was in any way about me. One of my strapping 9 year old boys diagnosis autism and cognitive developmental delays cried throughout the entire performance. His father, armed with his camcorder walked away distraught. In that, I failed him. Sometimes hate what I do....too much sadness... Goodnight all.


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