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list one thing you are willing to do/change in your behavior/attitude in the coming year
i predict this will remain an on topic touchy feely introspective thread for erm 46 posts out of the 1000 possible
but its from my heart so i posted it
i suggest we keep it simple-a year is a long time
i will effort to be gentler and listen better