Politeness... turn on or off? ( Archived) (118)

Jan 1, 2009 8:40 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
dcj22: I jsut shaved down there, you have to do it, too.


ok, but don't yell at me if I give you a nick....grin
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Jan 1, 2009 8:41 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
SweetKim: Well I can say this. If I was to take a girl out, and open d doors for her and treated her like she was special I guarantee she'd want another date! So I guess it depends....be sweet, polite, have another date or sit at home alone.... Another date, be alone..ummmm you pick while i'm out with your lady!


<...another cold shower...
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Jan 1, 2009 8:43 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
SweetKim
SweetKimSweetKimneosho, Missouri USA5 Threads 64 Posts
dcj22: Having thoughts of my mini-me.
muah Dana! Call you in a bit! Ha ha ha!
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Jan 1, 2009 8:46 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
SweetKim
SweetKimSweetKimneosho, Missouri USA5 Threads 64 Posts
mbcasey: <...another cold shower...
ken you crack me up
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Jan 1, 2009 8:47 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
SweetKim: ken you crack me up


What's the saying...unlucky in love, funny in bed?confused dunno
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Jan 1, 2009 9:01 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
mbcasey: ok, but don't yell at me if I give you a nick....


Not a chance! laugh
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Jan 1, 2009 9:02 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
SweetKim: muah Dana! Call you in a bit! Ha ha ha!



I'm here for the night sweetie. wink
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Jan 1, 2009 9:14 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
SexyAttorney
SexyAttorneySexyAttorneyClearwater, Florida USA25 Threads 976 Posts
WhatUwish4: The end of the roll should come over the top, as opposed to from under the bottom.

Now you know!


I am a bottom person................we are still discussing tp right?dunno
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Jan 1, 2009 9:16 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
babymilo
babymilobabymiloWollongong, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 1 Polls 64 Posts
gypsykisses: a man can polite me to death...I love it. I think it's a terrific turn on...


laugh



Including use of e-mail and IM.
Just make sure you polite them back in response!!


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Jan 1, 2009 9:20 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
SweetKim
SweetKimSweetKimneosho, Missouri USA5 Threads 64 Posts
I don't want someone to *kiss my butt* but just show me a nice time and to be sweet. Show me he's interested in me. Who wants to go out with someome that doesn't pay attention to them or do nice gestures? I also want to show him a nice date as well. Thanking him for opening a door for me or taking me to a nice place to eat. He needs to be reassured that's his thoughtfullness is acknowledged. I as well want to leave him with a good impression so he'll want to take me out again as well ad me wanting to go out again.
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Jan 1, 2009 9:23 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
SweetKim: I don't want someone to *kiss my butt* but just show me a nice time and to be sweet. Show me he's interested in me. Who wants to go out with someome that doesn't pay attention to them or do nice gestures? I also want to show him a nice date as well. Thanking him for opening a door for me or taking me to a nice place to eat. He needs to be reassured that's his thoughtfullness is acknowledged. I as well want to leave him with a good impression so he'll want to take me out again as well ad me wanting to go out again.


From what I have observed Kim, you will make a man very happy. I am sure you will find who you are looking for...and that guy will be very lucky indeed...hug
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Jan 1, 2009 9:26 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
SweetKim
SweetKimSweetKimneosho, Missouri USA5 Threads 64 Posts
I'm just glad I learned something tonight.... Even if it is about tp!
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Jan 1, 2009 9:30 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
SweetKim
SweetKimSweetKimneosho, Missouri USA5 Threads 64 Posts
mbcasey: From what I have observed Kim, you will make a man very happy. I am sure you will find who you are looking for...and that guy will be very lucky indeed...
thank you very much! You are very sweet. I hope we all find qho we are looking for! *hugs ya*
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Jan 1, 2009 9:33 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
SweetKim
SweetKimSweetKimneosho, Missouri USA5 Threads 64 Posts
SweetKim: thank you very much! You are very sweet. I hope we all find qho we are looking for! *hugs ya*
qho is code for who
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Jan 1, 2009 9:46 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
SweetKim: I'm just glad I learned something tonight.... Even if it is about tp!



Learn this. Hit the quote button so we know who you are repsonding to!!


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Jan 1, 2009 9:50 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
I'm probably a bit over-polite, although, let's face it, most guys won't come on here saying they are impolite.

I always open doors, hold elevators, etc. Around here at least, it is a shock when someone actually acknowledges with a thank you. moping
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Jan 1, 2009 9:54 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
rwantin: I'm probably a bit over-polite, although, let's face it, most guys won't come on here saying they are impolite.

I always open doors, hold elevators, etc. Around here at least, it is a shock when someone actually acknowledges with a thank you.



I do that too...whyyyyyyyy...cause it is the only nice and polite thing to doooooooo...gosh is it that hard???? Maybe it is and I hear a Robert about some people saying thank you...but I can sayyyyyyy at least here the majority do...but the also the majority of people who will just let the door slam in your face even when they know you're right behind them..is a fairly high percentage too.....wave wink roll eyes doh grin hug
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Jan 1, 2009 10:10 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
babymilo
babymilobabymiloWollongong, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 1 Polls 64 Posts
SweetKim: I don't want someone to *kiss my butt* but just show me a nice time and to be sweet. Show me he's interested in me. Who wants to go out with someome that doesn't pay attention to them or do nice gestures? I also want to show him a nice date as well. Thanking him for opening a door for me or taking me to a nice place to eat. He needs to be reassured that's his thoughtfullness is acknowledged. I as well want to leave him with a good impression so he'll want to take me out again as well ad me wanting to go out again.


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Well said SweetKim.

In this modern world we treat each other the same and with respect. We aknowledge when the other has done right thing by us. When we bother to go that extra km and be polite and considerate. Leaving a good impression both ways.

A lot of guys do get turned off by this 'requirement' to adopt this old fashioned chivalry thing, always having to always open doors, moving the chair, get the coat, always paying 1st,.

Leave that stuff in the Jane Austen era!.
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Jan 1, 2009 10:11 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: I do that too...whyyyyyyyy...cause it is the only nice and polite thing to doooooooo...gosh is it that hard???? Maybe it is and I hear a Robert about some people saying thank you...but I can sayyyyyyy at least here the majority do...but the also the majority of people who will just let the door slam in your face even when they know you're right behind them..is a fairly high percentage too.....


Sometimes it pays to be polite. Anyone want to hear my apartment manager story? dancing
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Jan 1, 2009 10:18 PM CST Politeness... turn on or off?
navygirl1
navygirl1navygirl1Calgary, Alberta Canada6 Threads 1,586 Posts
I don't want someone to *kiss my butt* but just show me a nice time and to be sweet. Show me he's interested in me. Who wants to go out with someome that doesn't pay attention to them or do nice gestures? I also want to show him a nice date as well. Thanking him for opening a door for me or taking me to a nice place to eat. He needs to be reassured that's his thoughtfullness is acknowledged. I as well want to leave him with a good impression so he'll want to take me out again as well ad me wanting to go out again.[/quote

I have to agree with you. I always thank a man when he opens door for me, or seats me. I love a guy with manners and of course I reciprocate. Just a few months ago I was changing a tire on my car, and this man stopped to help me; eventhough I was quite capable of doing this myself. I accepted his help and thanked him. It's nice to know there are still some gentlemen out there; gives me hope.
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