mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
SweetKim: Well I can say this. If I was to take a girl out, and open d doors for her and treated her like she was special I guarantee she'd want another date! So I guess it depends....be sweet, polite, have another date or sit at home alone.... Another date, be alone..ummmm you pick while i'm out with your lady!
I don't want someone to *kiss my butt* but just show me a nice time and to be sweet. Show me he's interested in me. Who wants to go out with someome that doesn't pay attention to them or do nice gestures? I also want to show him a nice date as well. Thanking him for opening a door for me or taking me to a nice place to eat. He needs to be reassured that's his thoughtfullness is acknowledged. I as well want to leave him with a good impression so he'll want to take me out again as well ad me wanting to go out again.
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
SweetKim: I don't want someone to *kiss my butt* but just show me a nice time and to be sweet. Show me he's interested in me. Who wants to go out with someome that doesn't pay attention to them or do nice gestures? I also want to show him a nice date as well. Thanking him for opening a door for me or taking me to a nice place to eat. He needs to be reassured that's his thoughtfullness is acknowledged. I as well want to leave him with a good impression so he'll want to take me out again as well ad me wanting to go out again.
From what I have observed Kim, you will make a man very happy. I am sure you will find who you are looking for...and that guy will be very lucky indeed...
mbcasey: From what I have observed Kim, you will make a man very happy. I am sure you will find who you are looking for...and that guy will be very lucky indeed...
thank you very much! You are very sweet. I hope we all find qho we are looking for! *hugs ya*
rwantin: I'm probably a bit over-polite, although, let's face it, most guys won't come on here saying they are impolite.
I always open doors, hold elevators, etc. Around here at least, it is a shock when someone actually acknowledges with a thank you.
I do that too...whyyyyyyyy...cause it is the only nice and polite thing to doooooooo...gosh is it that hard???? Maybe it is and I hear a Robert about some people saying thank you...but I can sayyyyyyy at least here the majority do...but the also the majority of people who will just let the door slam in your face even when they know you're right behind them..is a fairly high percentage too.....
babymiloWollongong, New South Wales Australia64 posts
SweetKim: I don't want someone to *kiss my butt* but just show me a nice time and to be sweet. Show me he's interested in me. Who wants to go out with someome that doesn't pay attention to them or do nice gestures? I also want to show him a nice date as well. Thanking him for opening a door for me or taking me to a nice place to eat. He needs to be reassured that's his thoughtfullness is acknowledged. I as well want to leave him with a good impression so he'll want to take me out again as well ad me wanting to go out again.
Well said SweetKim.
In this modern world we treat each other the same and with respect. We aknowledge when the other has done right thing by us. When we bother to go that extra km and be polite and considerate. Leaving a good impression both ways.
A lot of guys do get turned off by this 'requirement' to adopt this old fashioned chivalry thing, always having to always open doors, moving the chair, get the coat, always paying 1st,.
Hugz_n_Kissez: I do that too...whyyyyyyyy...cause it is the only nice and polite thing to doooooooo...gosh is it that hard???? Maybe it is and I hear a Robert about some people saying thank you...but I can sayyyyyyy at least here the majority do...but the also the majority of people who will just let the door slam in your face even when they know you're right behind them..is a fairly high percentage too.....
Sometimes it pays to be polite. Anyone want to hear my apartment manager story?
I don't want someone to *kiss my butt* but just show me a nice time and to be sweet. Show me he's interested in me. Who wants to go out with someome that doesn't pay attention to them or do nice gestures? I also want to show him a nice date as well. Thanking him for opening a door for me or taking me to a nice place to eat. He needs to be reassured that's his thoughtfullness is acknowledged. I as well want to leave him with a good impression so he'll want to take me out again as well ad me wanting to go out again.[/quote
I have to agree with you. I always thank a man when he opens door for me, or seats me. I love a guy with manners and of course I reciprocate. Just a few months ago I was changing a tire on my car, and this man stopped to help me; eventhough I was quite capable of doing this myself. I accepted his help and thanked him. It's nice to know there are still some gentlemen out there; gives me hope.
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ok, but don't yell at me if I give you a nick....