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Jan 9, 2009 9:24 AM CST what's up with this
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Well, don't have much to say, just noticing that in the last few weeks that, I totally understand why many people on this site are single.....it seems that we have got an influx of stupid people. people that are in their 20's-50's posting threads and asking for anwsers to questions that any 7yr. old child could anwser or explain, alot of the people bring only drama and stupidity, nothing good to the table. Do these people seriously think that someone would want to date them. Don't they realize that we are judging their character and demeanor in their threads and posts???? and when they cry out for attention and want someone to feel sorry for them, that we are getting a taste of what they would be like to date?????

your thoughts.... cheers
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Jan 9, 2009 9:26 AM CST what's up with this
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Tater: Well, don't have much to say, just noticing that in the last few weeks that, I totally understand why many people on this site are single.....it seems that we have got an influx of stupid people. people that are in their 20's-50's posting threads and asking for anwsers to questions that any 7yr. old child could anwser or explain, alot of the people bring only drama and stupidity, nothing good to the table. Do these people seriously think that someone would want to date them. Don't they realize that we are judging their character and demeanor in their threads and posts???? and when they cry out for attention and want someone to feel sorry for them, that we are getting a taste of what they would be like to date?????

your thoughts....




Great post! And my sentiments exactly!cheers hug
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Jan 9, 2009 9:29 AM CST what's up with this
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"My thoughts exactly."

thumbs up thumbs up
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Jan 9, 2009 9:30 AM CST what's up with this
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
Tater, I am with you on that one. You right it is insane.
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Jan 9, 2009 9:32 AM CST what's up with this
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
My boyfriend slept with my neighbour's big cousin's uncle.

Should i leave him?

nerd
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Jan 9, 2009 9:36 AM CST what's up with this
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Tater: Well, don't have much to say, just noticing that in the last few weeks that, I totally understand why many people on this site are single.....it seems that we have got an influx of stupid people. people that are in their 20's-50's posting threads and asking for anwsers to questions that any 7yr. old child could anwser or explain, alot of the people bring only drama and stupidity, nothing good to the table. Do these people seriously think that someone would want to date them. Don't they realize that we are judging their character and demeanor in their threads and posts???? and when they cry out for attention and want someone to feel sorry for them, that we are getting a taste of what they would be like to date?????

your thoughts....


Possibly we are NOT qualified to judge others?????confused
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Jan 9, 2009 9:37 AM CST what's up with this
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
HJFinAZ: Possibly we are NOT qualified to judge others?????
handshake
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Jan 9, 2009 9:38 AM CST what's up with this
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
But then, I am sure so many here do have a PhD. devil
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Jan 9, 2009 9:39 AM CST what's up with this
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Do not take life to seriously, it ain't permanent!professor

grin
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Jan 9, 2009 9:39 AM CST what's up with this
hrt4lse
hrt4lsehrt4lseRedding, California USA13 Threads 1,233 Posts
Tater: Well, don't have much to say, just noticing that in the last few weeks that, I totally understand why many people on this site are single.....it seems that we have got an influx of stupid people. people that are in their 20's-50's posting threads and asking for anwsers to questions that any 7yr. old child could anwser or explain, alot of the people bring only drama and stupidity, nothing good to the table. Do these people seriously think that someone would want to date them. Don't they realize that we are judging their character and demeanor in their threads and posts???? and when they cry out for attention and want someone to feel sorry for them, that we are getting a taste of what they would be like to date?????

your thoughts....


Ya think?

If not actually judging them, then at least forming an opinion and deciding not to go that direction.
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Jan 9, 2009 9:43 AM CST what's up with this
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
HJFinAZ: Possibly we are NOT qualified to judge others?????


Thanks everyone for the replies, but HJ we all judge each other's character and demeanor, whether we admit it or not, How do you pick you friends and compainions........... By your own judgements, unless you let other dictate your life by their judgements?????????
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Jan 9, 2009 9:45 AM CST what's up with this
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
lusciousmile: My boyfriend slept with my neighbour's big cousin's uncle.

Should i leave him?



Well since it was your big cousin's uncle, I guess you can stay with him..laugh
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Jan 9, 2009 9:48 AM CST what's up with this
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Tater: Thanks everyone for the replies, but HJ we all judge each other's character and demeanor, whether we admit it or not, How do you pick you friends and compainions........... By your own judgements, unless you let other dictate your life by their judgements?????????


I don't... I allow them to pick me.

I realized long ago I only want those in my life that want to be there, and I only want to be in the lives of those that want me there..
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Jan 9, 2009 9:51 AM CST what's up with this
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
lusciousmile: My boyfriend slept with my neighbour's big cousin's uncle.

Should i leave him?


Dear Lush,

are you mad?!?!!

No - it means he might sleep with heart wings you too cheering

Some day smile



uh oh
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Jan 9, 2009 9:58 AM CST what's up with this
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
laura225: Dear Lush,

are you mad?!?!!

No - it means he might sleep with you too

Some day


Thanks, CS! I will call him and my neighbour's big cousin's uncle, at once.


We need to celebrate. applause
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Jan 9, 2009 9:59 AM CST what's up with this
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
HJFinAZ: I don't... I allow them to pick me.

Not even PhDed ones confused laugh

HJFinAZ: I realized long ago I only want those in my life that want to be there, and I only want to be in the lives of those that want me there..


thumbs up

wave
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Jan 9, 2009 10:05 AM CST what's up with this
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
lusciousmile: Thanks, CS! I will call him and my neighbour's big cousin's uncle, at once. We need to celebrate.




Tater, I am one of those. I do ocassinally ask for advice
about something. Too some it may seem very minor. At the
time I post it, I need other people's opionions. I do not
try to judge others but I do understand where this may
annoy some.(JMO)
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Jan 9, 2009 10:07 AM CST what's up with this
Tater, I am one of those. I do ocassinally ask for advice
about something. Too some it may seem very minor. At the
time I post it, I need other people's opionions. I do not
try to judge others but I do understand where this may
annoy some.(JMO)[/quote


You are a very lovely woman Sassy and this forum is open to all kinds of people and you are right I have never seen you judge others but be loving and kind towards others.

There are no perfect people on these forums or in person.
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Jan 9, 2009 10:09 AM CST what's up with this
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 1,792 Posts
lusciousmile: But ..but...you said i should forgive him? Shouldn't i also respect, his need to cheat?

Sorry for the confussion.

We all have this need and it must be respected.

Forget all these thumbs down society imposed notions, such as monogamy,... ermmm... ok, that's the only one I can come up with.

So forget it. Go on with your natural self heart beating laugh
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Jan 9, 2009 10:12 AM CST what's up with this
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
My boyfriend took off with all my money. He left a note saying he was fed up of me and my weight. I remember he called me a cow, too. He's now back after 15 years, saying he lost his memory, and our house number (that fateful day).


Should i take him back? He has scabies, as well.


Thanks in advance, CS!


bouquet
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