A post to Victoria and to all those who dare to stand in the light of this forum.
I will never venture to make excuses for being human. I am flesh and blood, frail and child like as most humans are. We learn to play an "adult", game, yet beneath the facade, we remain innocent and in a constant state of learning. As children we learned not to put our hand on a hot stove. As "adults", we learn that matters of the heart can be as that hot stove. Do we learn? Not sure. So many here are looking for that balm that soothes our burning hands.
One is never too old nor wise to be seduced. I was seduced by another. I will not judge her. I am guilty of the same common passions.
Victoria, you scare the hell out of me for reasons that I cannot easily explain. There is a part of you that I "was", at a time in my life. My initial attraction to you (sans pics.) was that "me" in you. And, that "you"., in me. I recognized it instantly. I have always believed in Carl Jung and his reality. And I believe his reality was proved in our attraction to each other. There are aspects of your personality that I could question, but then likewise for you as well. I don't know who you are, but believe me, I feel you on a very deep level of my consciousness. I am human, mortal, and a child alone in the forest. I am also a warrior for soul survival, and in the end that is all that counts.
Now go for it posters, bash this posting if it fills some need within you. I'm sure it will. "Send Not To Know For Whom The Bell Tolls" John Donne. Look him up. Paws
My father,Paws used to write a daily article called,"For Whom The Bell Tolls"( Last name is Bell) so it really freaked me out when I saw that...hope your doing OK,peace be with you.
Anyone who bashes this thread wil die slowly, and painfully! Paws has spoken true, and from the heart, which is more than most of us can say.... I wish you the best Paws, have no fear...
Perhaps this is the perfect place - it will help others not travel the same avenues he did. Not one person can deny Leo's intentions have always been kind hearted and sincere.
Better to be seduced and not complain than to have the one you love seduce others and be dishonest about it....I don't know what's going on here....but I know that sometimes I think it would feel less painful to be "THE OTHER" instead of the faithful one, who loves unconditionaly. Sometimes I feel I would be better off being the mistress than the wife in todays world.
Ya I think you are right. You don't know what is going on here! faithful is always best. I may be young and I may green, but I am NOT as green as I am young and this I owe to the most honest and faithful woman I know. I love this woman as my mother even though she is only my God mother. She has always tought me to be Christ like and God fearing. So to have her exposed kinda puts me on the defence. Yesterday there was a defencive thread that got out of hand ,so I hear. I do not want that to happen here.
So please direct any coments to Paws and even though her name is on the thread leave her out of this mess.
i judge neither here...its easy to get caught up in emotions...specially when most here feel the pain of loneliness. we meet, we talk, we start to feel...something...hope? perhaps...
and when thats not realized for what we had hoped it to be...we grieve, moments, days, weeks...till we meet another that gives us that feeling again and fills some void.
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I will never venture to make excuses for being human. I am flesh and blood, frail and child like as most humans are. We learn to play an "adult", game, yet beneath the facade, we remain innocent and in a constant state of learning. As children we learned not to put our hand on a hot stove. As "adults", we learn that matters of the heart can be as that hot stove. Do we learn? Not sure. So many here are looking for that balm that soothes our burning hands.
One is never too old nor wise to be seduced. I was seduced by another. I will not judge her. I am guilty of the same common passions.
Victoria, you scare the hell out of me for reasons that I cannot easily explain. There is a part of you that I "was", at a time in my life. My initial attraction to you (sans pics.) was that "me" in you. And, that "you"., in me. I recognized it instantly. I have always believed in Carl Jung and his reality. And I believe his reality was proved in our attraction to each other. There are aspects of your personality that I could question, but then likewise for you as well. I don't know who you are, but believe me, I feel you on a very deep level of my consciousness. I am human, mortal, and a child alone in the forest. I am also a warrior for soul survival, and in the end that is all that counts.
Now go for it posters, bash this posting if it fills some need within you. I'm sure it will. "Send Not To Know For Whom The Bell Tolls" John Donne. Look him up. Paws