Is the thrill of the chase better than the catch itself?...and be honest..I'm not saying you don't want to keep what you "catch" but does that person lose some of her appeal once you've "caught" her...
That all depends, sometimes a person can pretend to be something they are not, but usually they can't keep it up for very long. Once "caught" a skunk will eventually release its stink, and the appeal is lost. Unless you are some kinda weirdo that's into that kind of funky stuff.
If I Could Start All Over Again I would Have Pick You First!,Because your Educated and Ask Questions that I Jump at .......In my mind........how ever,if i cot a woman i'd keep her but i need too ask lots of threads too get there,sorry paws,but i'm real,if i ask question that r boring its because that person isn't ready too hear it............I am no move lonely NIghts Paul McCathney said......that life for me and you????????
I agree with diogenes. That is exactly what happened to me. Now I really regret it. She was not at all what she showed me. It was an act. that is dishonest. I don't mind a little chase, but at the end of the day I want something stable and not a continuous chase.
I think being single is under rated. I have friends that jump around from serious relationship to serious relationship and I don't understand why they need to attach themselves to someone all of the time. Personally, I the like quest... the potential to meet the perfect match is where the thrill is. So for me, its all about the chase... So far
when it comes to the women I chase, I'm more finicky than a cat. The case can be fun as long as it doesn't last forever.
For me though the catch is totally better. After all she's the prize.
I can't understand why with lots of men the woman would lose her appeal. To me thats like playing poker all night long and winning the biggest pot of the night....then giving the money back to guys at the table!
Let me tell you ladies my momma didn't raise no FOOL! I'm keeping the money and the girl!
I'm not even into the chase at all. To me that whole mentality is Neanderthal. Also, men who thrive on the thrill of the chase are most likely going to continue to chase other women after the fact.
Romance for me begins after the relationship has been establish. Unfortunately women do seem to prefer the shallower approach of the Neanderthal type men.
I believe the chase should work both ways. Never ending. One day at a time. Doing something together at the spur of the moment. Who knows what will happen next. It always turns out to be a wonderful ride.
DarkhorsemanGladstonia ... it's a strange, Queensland Australia1,304 posts
"Having is not always as pleasurable as wanting. It is not logical but it is often true." Spock ... The Star Fleet Commander not the Child Psychologist.
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