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And today, over my morning coffee, I thought about this.
Why do we try to understand people? Why do I so often hear?
'He/she does not understand me!'
Well, I want to ask, 'Why do we have to?'
People do not have to understand each other.
Would it not be simpler if at times, when things are becoming, a little tense, between anyone, it could be your lover, child, parents, friend, we said 'Look darling, I do not understand you, at all, but I am listening to you, so carry on, get it out of your system and I may not understand you, but I will listen'
Would that not solve alot of problems.
Why do people become so upset when a person does not understand them?
Why?