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serene56: I think the advent of internet dating promoted an expectation in single people that it's the answer?
Basically, nothing's really changed as far as the difficulty in meeting people once we're past the picket fence/smoke coming out of the chimney/raising babies part of our lives.
Except the (possibly unrealistic) expectation that internet dating sites promote.
Basically, nothing's really changed as far as the difficulty in meeting people once we're past the picket fence/smoke coming out of the chimney/raising babies part of our lives.
Except the (possibly unrealistic) expectation that internet dating sites promote.
I Agree, you automatic assume you will meet someone because you know it is based on others wanting the same thing (apparently). You don't always go out socially to meet someone, it usually just happens that way but that is the primary objective of getting on a dating site.
kizzy27: Scratching the itch is a lot cheaper for many...
Internet dating sites "The smorgeousboard of lovers" Its a shame most keep checking out whats on the buffet before truly enjoying whats on the plate in front of them.
Internet dating sites "The smorgeousboard of lovers" Its a shame most keep checking out whats on the buffet before truly enjoying whats on the plate in front of them.
Hit the nail on the head there, Kiz.
PrOwLeR_: Cruising the dating sites in search of a fair maiden ... I took at LooK at the fishy site and had a good LooK around the Oasis ...
seems same ole same ole everywhere ... Where does one go these days in search of another ?? ...
seems same ole same ole everywhere ... Where does one go these days in search of another ?? ...
I got banned from the fishy site! Apparently I say too many naughty words? Actually I get banned a lot! Some people just cant take a joke!
Have you tried the supermarket? I get women walking into me from the other side of the shop? Its like playing dodgems without the cars only trolleys, and they bloody hurt!
Merriweather: Gosh... thank you for you kind words Prowler,
I have had rejection by this fella who chooses to be alone and I figured out that clearly I was all too much for him... meaning, I dont sit still too much, and I have lots of interests.. etc.. and tele watching was not my thing... so for now... I am getting over it...
I have had rejection by this fella who chooses to be alone and I figured out that clearly I was all too much for him... meaning, I dont sit still too much, and I have lots of interests.. etc.. and tele watching was not my thing... so for now... I am getting over it...
Sorry to hear that Merri. From what I have read about you, you are a very vibrant person with a love for your garden and your family, and life in general. Why else would you go to the overseas Meet a couple of years ago and be planning another overseas trip soon. Go girl, enjoy your life, tv has nothing on going to experience things.
You have said how much dancing has been a major part of your life but that you have left your devotion to it behind, just want to enjoy watching it (and maybe doing a little bit as well).
If you are still interested in the guy, maybe Lookin and I could arrange to have a little chat to the guy to make him understand what a great person he is missing out on. Might take a bit of knee-capping and ruin his chances of dancing....................
ps. Another desert trip is in the planning for 2014, some very remote and usually red sandy areas if you are interested. No Atomic Bomb Sites on the itinerary (yet)
Merriweather: Gosh... thank you for you kind words Prowler,
I have had rejection by this fella who chooses to be alone and I figured out that clearly I was all too much for him... meaning, I dont sit still too much, and I have lots of interests.. etc.. and tele watching was not my thing... so for now... I am getting over it...
I have had rejection by this fella who chooses to be alone and I figured out that clearly I was all too much for him... meaning, I dont sit still too much, and I have lots of interests.. etc.. and tele watching was not my thing... so for now... I am getting over it...
hey Merri ... better to love and loose than just sit home and rot ..
I'm sorry you may be hurting its an awful lonely feeling ..
who wants to sit in front of a tele anyway's .. that's just couch potato stuff ...
I hope your Spirit lifts soon and you realise it was nothing you did and find some one whom wants you for being you ...
I am on the Gold Coast if this helps in any way ..... lol ..........
kizzy27: Scratching the itch is a lot cheaper for many...
Internet dating sites "The smorgeousboard of lovers" Its a shame most keep checking out whats on the buffet before truly enjoying whats on the plate in front of them.
Internet dating sites "The smorgeousboard of lovers" Its a shame most keep checking out whats on the buffet before truly enjoying whats on the plate in front of them.
Agreed. Our societies teach us to always look for the bigger, better, brighter, never be happy with what we had/got.
For me, I just wanted someone who would actually commit and want to be in a relationship and who doesn't believe in the "throw away society" of today. Bored with that one, throw it out and get another model.
I didn't have a lot of picky expectations. Looks - not important. Compatibility - comes and goes as we fluctuate in our bio-rythms. Commitment - the glue that holds our decision to love someone in its place.
Many deem love to be a feeling. Love is a decision that we make, that decision can be influenced by pheromones, lust, infatuation, money, all sorts of things. But ultimately, we choose to love someone or we choose not to.
I'm happy with my choice, and she is beautiful and gets more beautiful every day. Why, because every day I learn something new about her, every day we give something of ourselves to each other - even when we don't always want to. Everyday we overlook our partner's faults and not-so-nice things that come out from time to time. Everyday we accept each other for who we are, and everyday we are content with our choice.
Blizzard14u: I got banned from the fishy site! Apparently I say too many naughty words? Actually I get banned a lot! Some people just cant take a joke!
Have you tried the supermarket? I get women walking into me from the other side of the shop? Its like playing dodgems without the cars only trolleys, and they bloody hurt!
Have you tried the supermarket? I get women walking into me from the other side of the shop? Its like playing dodgems without the cars only trolleys, and they bloody hurt!
Obviously they have realised who you are and remember you for what you have said that got you banned from other sites....
You are a chick magnet..... a chick with a vendetta and a trolley....
Maybe consider changing your jokes....
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and I too am happy with who I am ... where I am and I don't mind at all if I go from now to my grave alone in the years to come .... Kind of sad though ... from this man's point of view there are quality woman out there like you Merri ... and so many of us men and woman for all that we know still end up alone ....... and Freo I think it was whom said or was it Newlife .. .... you are so right about the plate in front of us yet our eyes are fixated on the smorgasbord ... Bloody HuMaN nature !! .........
Gosh... thank you for you kind words Prowler,
I have had rejection by this fella who chooses to be alone and I figured out that clearly I was all too much for him... meaning, I dont sit still too much, and I have lots of interests.. etc.. and tele watching was not my thing... so for now... I am getting over it...