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How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality? ( Archived) (103)

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#0
Jul 18, 2011 3:20 PM CSTHow often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
hoping2meetu2
hoping2meetu2hoping2meetu2Bath Spa, Bristol, England, UK9 Threads 1 Polls 83 Posts
hoping2meetu2OPBath Spa, Bristol, England, UK83 posts

How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?(Vote Below)

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Age
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41%
Looks
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Emotional issue. Psychologically interesting.
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#1
Jul 18, 2011 3:22 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
Dreamyone
DreamyoneDreamyoneRaleigh, North Carolina USA4 Threads 1 Polls 913 Posts
DreamyoneRaleigh, North Carolina USA913 posts
hoping2meetu2: Emotional issue. Psychologically interesting.

I haven't been told either but have turned them down because they were too young.
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#2
Jul 18, 2011 3:23 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India7,447 posts
I have been rejected by my looks and eyesinnocent
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#3
Jul 18, 2011 3:50 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
hoping2meetu2: Emotional issue. Psychologically interesting.
We have all been rejected on those grounds and have all rejected based on those grounds.
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#4
Jul 18, 2011 4:03 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
scottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 posts
I get rejected because men cant seem to understand that the scottyburd cant be fooled and can beat them at their own game..snooty dancing boxing shock grin
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#5
Jul 18, 2011 11:14 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada10,499 posts
Maybe looks...personality,not sure..maybe career wise,people sometimes tend to judge you by what you do for as living more than what YOU ARE.

Funny,when I was doing bricks and working security for a short spurt at the same time,different people judge you,and you attract different crowds.

Silly...really.
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#6
Jul 18, 2011 11:29 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE
NAKEDMUDPEOPLENAKEDMUDPEOPLEunknown, Wisconsin USA27 Threads 7,370 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLEunknown, Wisconsin USA7,370 posts
Years ago I had a new client as I was introduced to her, she stated she wanted someone younger and I told her she deserved someone younger and walked away.
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#7
Jul 18, 2011 11:30 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
Ive beenn rejected for being too tall crying Just kidding its thier loss grin
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#8
Jul 18, 2011 11:34 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
Illini
IlliniIlliniEnid, Oklahoma USA4 Posts
IlliniEnid, Oklahoma USA4 posts
Compared to Shaq O'Neill, you're a shrimp.
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#9
Jul 18, 2011 11:36 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada10,499 posts
Nobody ever rejects you though,they're rejecting what they think YOU ARE,but not you...never.


If you choose to pick that up,you're responsible for your feelings of rejection.
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#10
Jul 18, 2011 11:36 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
JetsonRING
JetsonRINGJetsonRINGCoral Springs, Florida USA17 Posts
JetsonRINGCoral Springs, Florida USA17 posts
In response to your question: Yes, yes and yes. dancing
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#11
Jul 18, 2011 11:37 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras797 posts
I have been rejected because of looks never for my age so far banana wave
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#12
Jul 18, 2011 11:39 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
kidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada16,544 posts
hoping2meetu2: Emotional issue. Psychologically interesting.



Rejected...ummm, probably no, ignored on here on the other hand, very likely all of the above, and many more reasons I'm sure. laugh
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#13
Jul 18, 2011 11:42 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
EVERY rejection involves one of those three things (other than, say, rejecting someone for being handicapped).

Also, I'm not sure what you mean by rejection. Do you mean "rejected out of hand," as in a first meeting, or rejected at some other point in a relationship?

I wonder if people experience rejection as being more painful if it's due mostly to one thing as opposed to another. For example, would it hurt you more to be rejected for your looks or for your personality?

I would definitely prefer to be rejected for my personality. I figure that's a substantive reason for being rejected. I'd rather have someone think I'm attractive but not their personality type than vice versa.

I wonder what others think about that?
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#14
Jul 18, 2011 11:44 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
Mysticalli
MysticalliMysticalliTeresina, Piaui Brazil6 Threads 5 Polls 1,303 Posts
MysticalliTeresina, Piaui Brazil1,303 posts
venusenvy: Ive beenn rejected for being too tall Just kidding its thier loss


and me for wearing glasses nerd crying

their loss too snooty laugh
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#15
Jul 18, 2011 11:46 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
kidatheart: Rejected...ummm, probably no, ignored on here on the other hand, very likely all of the above, and many more reasons I'm sure.


Umm I did mention the taking a shower thing right? did you forget already?? tongue rolling on the floor laughing
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#16
Jul 18, 2011 11:51 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
Ambrose2007: EVERY rejection involves one of those three things (other than, say, rejecting someone for being handicapped).

Also, I'm not sure what you mean by rejection. Do you mean "rejected out of hand," as in a first meeting, or rejected at some other point in a relationship?

I wonder if people experience rejection as being more painful if it's due mostly to one thing as opposed to another. For example, would it hurt you more to be rejected for your looks or for your personality?

I would definitely prefer to be rejected for my personality. I figure that's a substantive reason for being rejected. I'd rather have someone think I'm attractive but not their personality type than vice versa.

I wonder what others think about that?


On second thought, I was wrong - there are other things you can be rejected for. Heck, you could be rejected for your voice or the way you smell or the way you laugh. Those subtle things that fall under "personal chemistry" and aren't just about clear-cut personality issues.

Something that I've learned to my surprise is how important women consider voices to be. My own experience is that women who find me attractive like my voice, and those who don't like my voice don't find me attractive.

Man, to be rejected because of your voice...that would feel weird, I think.wow confused wave
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#17
Jul 18, 2011 11:52 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada10,499 posts
Ambrose2007: EVERY rejection involves one of those three things (other than, say, rejecting someone for being handicapped).

Also, I'm not sure what you mean by rejection. Do you mean "rejected out of hand," as in a first meeting, or rejected at some other point in a relationship?

I wonder if people experience rejection as being more painful if it's due mostly to one thing as opposed to another. For example, would it hurt you more to be rejected for your looks or for your personality?

I would definitely prefer to be rejected for my personality. I figure that's a substantive reason for being rejected. I'd rather have someone think I'm attractive but not their personality type than vice versa.

I wonder what others think about that?



Sure,I'll give you my opinion,because you can work on yourself,and can change your personality,but you can't change your looks.


Agree with you there,but in my opinion,its so much easier to accept others if you take the time to see them as THEY ARE...and not as YOU ARE,and if you do,you might find yourself a littler more understanding of them,and a little less prejudice.
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#18
Jul 18, 2011 11:54 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada10,499 posts
thewall2: Sure,I'll give you my opinion,because you can work on yourself,and can change your personality,but you can't change your looks.Agree with you there,but in my opinion,its so much easier to accept others if you take the time to see them as THEY ARE...and not as YOU ARE,and if you do,you might find yourself a littler more understanding of them,and a little less prejudice.



You can't even change your personality really,that's changing the behviour,but not really CHANGING YOU.

Transformation,,,,CHANGE... only comes through Awareness...
My opinion...

And if nothing changes...
nothing changes.
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#19
Jul 18, 2011 11:54 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA8,881 posts
thewall2: Sure,I'll give you my opinion,because you can work on yourself,and can change your personality,but you can't change your looks.Agree with you there,but in my opinion,its so much easier to accept others if you take the time to see them as THEY ARE...and not as YOU ARE,and if you do,you might find yourself a littler more understanding of them,and a little less prejudice.


Well, you can change your appearance by working out to a degree, and if you're really desperate plastic surgery.

In my experience, women tend to find physical strength appealing, but that and having a good body aren't the most important things.

It's hard sometimes to see past your own preconceptions, that's true. head banger
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#20
Jul 18, 2011 11:56 PM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada10,499 posts
thewall2: Sure,I'll give you my opinion,because you can work on yourself,and can change your personality,but you can't change your looks.Agree with you there,but in my opinion,its so much easier to accept others if you take the time to see them as THEY ARE...and not as YOU ARE,and if you do,you might find yourself a littler more understanding of them,and a little less prejudice.




Maybe...


Live and let live.
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#21
Jul 19, 2011 12:00 AM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
g33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia1,995 posts
mostly get rejected on the grounds of distance. wave
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#22
Jul 19, 2011 12:05 AM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
kidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada16,544 posts
venusenvy: Umm I did mention the taking a shower thing right? did you forget already??


Shower? confused

Were we supposed to do this together, or am I missing something.dunno

I'm finishing up the details on a new shower right now, so whenever you wanna, please feel free to come break it in with me. grin

hug bouquet
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#23
Jul 19, 2011 12:08 AM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
kidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada16,544 posts
g33kgurl: mostly get rejected on the grounds of distance.



That's been the one big determining factor in going any further than friendship for me, and for many others, I'm sure. sigh

Hell, I was tempted to let you feed me to your crocodile, if you weren't so far away. blushing

laugh bouquet
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#24
Jul 19, 2011 12:08 AM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
chococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia5,647 posts
never, cause of my age or my looks,wave
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#25
Jul 19, 2011 12:10 AM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
Ambrose2007: Yeah, I never even considered that until a few years ago. And I never would've thought it mattered much what a woman's voice sounded like. But I must admit that some woman's voices do add or subtract from their appeal a bit.

Like you, I don't think that would be a deciding factor.

I'm guessing you like a deep male voice, Ven?


Oooo boy do I ever smitten
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#26
Jul 19, 2011 12:11 AM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
kidatheart: Shower?

Were we supposed to do this together, or am I missing something.

I'm finishing up the details on a new shower right now, so whenever you wanna, please feel free to come break it in with me.


Well gosh! thats the best offer Ive had in a looong time (you wouldnt happen to have a BIG bathtub would you?) grin devil
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#27
Jul 19, 2011 12:25 AM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
kidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada16,544 posts
venusenvy: Well gosh! thats the best offer Ive had in a looong time (you wouldnt happen to have a BIG bathtub would you?)



Average tub size, but I'm skinny, so it should be just fine.grin laugh
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#28
Jul 19, 2011 12:27 AM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
kidatheart: Average tub size, but I'm skinny, so it should be just fine.


Sounds good teddybear rolling on the floor laughing
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#29
Jul 19, 2011 12:31 AM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia6,801 posts
hoping2meetu2: Emotional issue. Psychologically interesting.


I've been rejected 2 times it's happens very long time ago when i senior high cause of my age wine
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#30
Jul 19, 2011 4:25 AM CST How often have you been rejected on the grounds of age, looks, or personality?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
g33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia1,995 posts
kidatheart: That's been the one big determining factor in going any further than friendship for me, and for many others, I'm sure.

Hell, I was tempted to let you feed me to your crocodile, if you weren't so far away.
''

and i was offering you the more nobler way of the big white..!wine
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