Guys, do you find women who stress the fact they are super independant a turn off? (77)
daytura: Guys, do you find women who
stress the fact they are super
independant a turn off?
stress the fact they are super
independant a turn off?
I find men who stress the fact they are super dependant a bIg turn off ....
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Not sure I would mind. It is good to be independent. And you can still be a good partner, I think none-needy partners have a easier time and puts less stress on the relationship. If independence means selfishness and egoism, then she can independ her way out the door 
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olaix: Not sure I would mind. It is good to be independent. And you can still be a good partner, I think none-needy partners have a easier time and puts less stress on the relationship. If independence means selfishness and egoism, then she can independ her way out the door
Lol
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daytura: Just curious how other men feel about this.
Independent in what way??? financially ,or they simply don`t give a damn about their partners opinion ???
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Boban1: Independent in what way??? financially ,or they simply don`t give a damn about their partners opinion ???
more so finacially, i mean some women ive met have said this and it makes me think, if your starving and can't feed your kids, you wont accept help.
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no not at all, i want one,,
everything within reason
independent forever, don't see how it would work,,
everything within reason
independent forever, don't see how it would work,,
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daytura: Just curious how other men feel about this.
No ..... because if she is interested in me it therefore must be for all the right reasons.
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daytura: more so finacially, i mean some women ive met have said this and it makes me think, if your starving and can't feed your kids, you wont accept help.
Who's kids ...... Yours or her's ???
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Nessa7: Who's kids ...... Yours or her's ???
her children, single mums and such, i understand her situation but all in all was just a question i put out there.
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daytura: her children, single mums and such, i understand her situation but all in all was just a question i put out there.
Well then being independent is being able to care for ones self/family ..... But having starving kids and not excepting help is a matter of pride ......
So I think its more an issue of pride than independence don't you think?
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RDM59: No ..... because if she is interested in me it therefore must be for all the right reasons.
yes two self sufficient people make a good partnership!
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I find men that are scared of independent women a big turn-off 
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Yes, yes yes and yes again
I have heard that a million times from my associated friends
It turns me off from beginning to end
That's why the relationships usually while navigating the bend!
I have heard that a million times from my associated friends
It turns me off from beginning to end
That's why the relationships usually while navigating the bend!
daytura: Just curious how other men feel about this.
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I thought we were all independent from July 4th
From the British monarchy and the Redcoat
Of course the shortest umbrella is a tote
But whenever I hear women cry INDEPENDENT i just clear my throat!
From the British monarchy and the Redcoat
Of course the shortest umbrella is a tote
But whenever I hear women cry INDEPENDENT i just clear my throat!
venusenvy: I find men that are scared of independent women a big turn-off
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venusenvy: I find men that are scared of independent women a big turn-off
yup
I do love my guy to make me feel safe and protected but at the same time respect my independent nature (in otherwords as a woman I want it all...)
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felixis99: yup
I do love my guy to make me feel safe and protected but at the same time respect my independent nature (in otherwords as a woman I want it all...)
I do love my guy to make me feel safe and protected but at the same time respect my independent nature (in otherwords as a woman I want it all...)
Not from Indjun
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daytura: Just curious how other men feel about this.
Independent to sum women is how two plug in magic computer and stay on it all day and nite and dont scrub house and talk about carrots one day and cakes the next .
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thanks for all the comments, seems preety even poll, however i dont mean independant as "a woman not controlling her own life", afterall it is the 21st century and that died a long time ago. just to clarify that. also im not refering to or talking about pride.
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lonerangerr: Independent to sum women is how two plug in magic computer and stay on it all day and nite and dont scrub house and talk about carrots one day and cakes the next .
What an amazingly articulate and intelligent reply
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daytura: Just curious how other men feel about this.
Yes total turn off,You never hear men saying their independent,it more or less saying they don't need men.------ This poll is Archived ------
modermen: Yes total turn off,You never hear men saying their independent, it more or less saying they don't need men.
To need a man to be able to have a certain way of life is to use him. Not a healthy reason, but some men like it that way because the women is less likely to leave them if the man acts like a jerk.
To be with a man out of choice, not necessity is a healthy reason. Some men feel threatened by this, because they know if they act like a jerk, there´s no reason for the woman to stay with him.
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EagleWoman: To need a man to be able to have a certain way of life is to use him. Not a healthy reason, but some men like it that way because the women is less likely to leave them if the man acts like a jerk.
To be with a man out of choice, not necessity is a healthy reason. Some men feel threatened by this, because they know if they act like a jerk, there´s no reason for the woman to stay with him.
True but what if as of now that men are now saying we are independent of women,would that be good for women for men to say were independent, I personaly think its stupid for women to say they are independent of men.To be with a man out of choice, not necessity is a healthy reason. Some men feel threatened by this, because they know if they act like a jerk, there´s no reason for the woman to stay with him.
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daytura: Just curious how other men feel about this.
When men start saying they are independent as much as women say so,women are in trouble.------ This poll is Archived ------
I like independent women...
They have a lot of common sense and mechanical aptitude...
They can deal with any minor difficulty in everyday life,
and don't need help opening a can of corn or mowing the grass...when needed.
But...
Not to the point where she's 'Independant' to the point of
expecting to 'Date-Around' while in a committed relationship.
Just common sense...
They have a lot of common sense and mechanical aptitude...
They can deal with any minor difficulty in everyday life,
and don't need help opening a can of corn or mowing the grass...when needed.
But...
Not to the point where she's 'Independant' to the point of
expecting to 'Date-Around' while in a committed relationship.
Just common sense...
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modermen: True but what if as of now that men are now saying we are independent of women,would that be good for women for men to say were independent, I personaly think its stupid for women to say they are independent of men.
Yes it would be good for women if men felt independent of them. It would mean that if they choose to be with a woman it´s not because he wants his dinner cooked, his house cleaned and someone in their bed at night, but because they truly appreciate the woman as a person.
We obviously have different opinions ...
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EagleWoman: Yes it would be good for women if men felt independent of them. It would mean that if they choose to be with a woman it´s not because he wants his dinner cooked, his house cleaned and someone in their bed at night, but because they truly appreciate the woman as a person.
We obviously have different opinions ...
Fair point ,until theres a child comes into the picture and there is roles to play both genders have to be dependent of each other.We obviously have different opinions ...
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modermen: Fair point ,until theres a child comes into the picture and there is roles to play both genders have to be dependent of each other.
Once the couple have come together because they appreciate one another as people without the slightest hint of "using" the other for anything, that would make them mature enough to work out how they´re gonna approach parenthood as a couple.
Many adults have gone way past parenthood age, but still only see the other gender within a "role" ...
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Kargyle227: I like independent women...
They have a lot of common sense and mechanical aptitude...
They can deal with any minor difficulty in everyday life,
and don't need help opening a can of corn or mowing the grass...when needed.
But...
Not to the point where she's 'Independant' to the point of
expecting to 'Date-Around' while in a committed relationship.
Just common sense...
They have a lot of common sense and mechanical aptitude...
They can deal with any minor difficulty in everyday life,
and don't need help opening a can of corn or mowing the grass...when needed.
But...
Not to the point where she's 'Independant' to the point of
expecting to 'Date-Around' while in a committed relationship.
Just common sense...
Since when does independant mean sleeping around?
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modermen: Yes total turn off,You never hear men saying their independent,it more or less saying they don't need men.
you make a valid point at the end there sir, something i have never considered.
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daytura: you make a valid point at the end there sir, something i have never considered.
Consider my replies (see above)
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