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Are you generally able to forgive and forget? ( Archived) (72)

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#0
May 14, 2012 10:50 PM CSTAre you generally able to forgive and forget?
LifeThirst
LifeThirstLifeThirstKolkata, West Bengal, India64 Threads 63 Polls 318 Posts
LifeThirstOPKolkata, West Bengal, India318 posts

Are you generally able to forgive and forget?(Vote Below)

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Yes.
20
17%
No.
14
12%
It really depends on the circumstances.
41
34%
I can forgive, but I never forget.
45
38%
Total Votes
120
sad flower


wine handshake
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#1
May 15, 2012 1:34 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
someonesvoicejee
someonesvoicejeesomeonesvoicejeemumbai, Maharashtra India78 Threads 665 Posts
someonesvoicejeemumbai, Maharashtra India665 posts
It really depends on the circumstances as for talking about

forgetting omg me forgets what r v talking about here
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#2
May 15, 2012 1:46 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
fishitfun
fishitfunfishitfunMiddle East, Al Asimah Kuwait31 Threads 646 Posts
fishitfunMiddle East, Al Asimah Kuwait646 posts
Forgive yes but I will never forget
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#3
May 15, 2012 1:47 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
MADDOG69
MADDOG69MADDOG69Dublin, Ireland21 Threads 7,583 Posts
MADDOG69Dublin, Ireland7,583 posts
No way.
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#4
May 15, 2012 1:56 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
fishitfun
fishitfunfishitfunMiddle East, Al Asimah Kuwait31 Threads 646 Posts
fishitfunMiddle East, Al Asimah Kuwait646 posts
MADDOG69: No way.
why?
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#5
May 15, 2012 2:20 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland1,934 posts
I forgive easily ....


...... And try my best too forget as well .....


But also try to remember the lesson I have learnt ....

I think if we don't forgive and forget .....

We will never be able to move on in a healthy manner .....


Plus who wants to spend time holding grudges ......


Not me wine
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#6
May 15, 2012 2:30 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
If it were a minor thing.....yes......but betray my trust.....they are history........simple as that...............scold
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#7
May 15, 2012 4:25 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
bubbles2012
bubbles2012bubbles2012Southern Brisbane, Queensland Australia22 Threads 1 Polls 784 Posts
bubbles2012Southern Brisbane, Queensland Australia784 posts
I can forgive and forget if the situation/circumstances are justified, but when it's not... No I cannot... but over time, and the memory fades... maybe...
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#8
May 15, 2012 4:32 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
ziggy67
ziggy67ziggy67WATTON, Norfolk, England UK5 Threads 172 Posts
ziggy67WATTON, Norfolk, England UK172 posts
If a person is genuinely sorry for what they have done then yes.
If it is only words with no meaning then no, it's easy to say sorry , but to mean it is a different matter.
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#9
May 15, 2012 4:33 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK3,913 posts
I would guess the out come for forgetting would be pretty low judging by the bitterness shown on this site from many members

forgiving is to help you as an individual, not to admonish the other persons guilt, so yes I can forgive.
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#10
May 15, 2012 4:50 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland1,934 posts
ziggy67: If a person is genuinely sorry for what they have done then yes.
If it is only words with no meaning then no, it's easy to say sorry , but to mean it is a different matter.



I don't think one needs to hear the words sorry from other in order to forgive .....


Forgiveness comes from within ....
People do and say things out of stupidity, anger, ignorance or the mear fact of being a new soul.

We need to be the bigger person ...

Not forgiving someone means we hold a grudge/anger within us ... Its not worth it most of the time ... As that other person could be pretty happy with their lives ....

So releasing that burden helps a lot ... And makes one feel lighter ... You can fill that space with happy stuff like love ...... wine
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#11
May 15, 2012 6:20 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
ziggy67
ziggy67ziggy67WATTON, Norfolk, England UK5 Threads 172 Posts
ziggy67WATTON, Norfolk, England UK172 posts
Nessa7: I don't think one needs to hear the words sorry from other in order to forgive .....Forgiveness comes from within ....
People do and say things out of stupidity, anger, ignorance or the mear fact of being a new soul.

We need to be the bigger person ...

Not forgiving someone means we hold a grudge/anger within us ... Its not worth it most of the time ... As that other person could be pretty happy with their lives ....

So releasing that burden helps a lot ... And makes one feel lighter ... You can fill that space with happy stuff like love ......
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wine I will drink to the way you feel Nessa, perhaps we all could learn by what you say.hug
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#12
May 15, 2012 6:26 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1,486 posts
MADDOG69: No way.




thumbs up


they will just get used to do mistakes,if you will always forgive...
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#13
May 15, 2012 6:31 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1,486 posts
Nessa7: I forgive easily .... ...... And try my best too forget as well ..... But also try to remember the lesson I have learnt ....

I think if we don't forgive and forget .....

We will never be able to move on in a healthy manner .....Plus who wants to spend time holding grudges ...... Not me



time heals the pain...just move on and don't mind those people who've done wrong...speaking for myself experience
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#14
May 15, 2012 6:38 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
JustJess77
JustJess77JustJess77Monroe, North Carolina USA5 Threads 248 Posts
JustJess77Monroe, North Carolina USA248 posts
Yes I can forgive or else I would be a bitter person but forgetting is not really an option. Memories fade and become less but can never really be forgotten. Now if we are talking cheating...I could never forgive, once you've broke that trust there is no going back..period end of discussion.
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#15
May 15, 2012 6:43 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland1,934 posts
leni0822: time heals the pain...just move on and don't mind those people who've done wrong...speaking for myself experience



Time is a beautiful thing .... It heals the pain but keeps the memories .... I prefer to cherish the good and learn from the bad but discard the bad emotions ..... handshake
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#16
May 15, 2012 6:45 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland1,934 posts
ziggy67: .
I will drink to the way you feel Nessa, perhaps we all could learn by what you say.


wine hug
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#17
May 15, 2012 6:47 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1,486 posts
Nessa7: Time is a beautiful thing .... It heals the pain but keeps the memories .... I prefer to cherish the good and learn from the bad but discard the bad emotions .....



when pain healed...all bad emotions will fade toowave
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#18
May 15, 2012 6:50 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland1,934 posts
JustJess77: Yes I can forgive or else I would be a bitter person but forgetting is not really an option. Memories fade and become less but can never really be forgotten. Now if we are talking cheating...I could never forgive, once you've broke that trust there is no going back..period end of discussion.


If someone cheats on you ..... You will be a fool to stay in the relationship ..... Forgiving someone doesn't mean you have to take them back .... You forgive them for what they have done to you ..... Learn your lesson and move on ..... Less baggage to carry into the next relationship ....
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#19
May 15, 2012 9:06 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
JustJess77
JustJess77JustJess77Monroe, North Carolina USA5 Threads 248 Posts
JustJess77Monroe, North Carolina USA248 posts
Very well spoken Nessa and I agree. I've never been cheated on but I would like to think I could forgive but that's one thing I don't know if I could. Hopefully I will never have to find out.
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#20
May 15, 2012 9:10 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
minnie50
minnie50minnie50puerto plata, Puerto Plata Dominican Republic3 Threads 2 Polls 710 Posts
minnie50puerto plata, Puerto Plata Dominican Republic710 posts
Forgive...forget...and continue the best way possible..bouquet
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#21
May 15, 2012 9:13 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
galradsDublin, Ohio USA36,283 posts
Heck, I generally have so many senior-moments anymore that I usually forget what there is to forgive...... dunno confused
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#22
May 15, 2012 9:50 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
shay28
shay28shay28Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia468 Posts
shay28Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia468 posts
I easily do forgive but it takes time for me to forget, and this depends on the severity of the circumstances.
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#23
May 15, 2012 10:02 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia18,789 posts
No one asked for my forgiveness yet...guess Im not a very important person
laugh
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#24
May 15, 2012 10:06 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland1,934 posts
JustJess77: Very well spoken Nessa and I agree. I've never been cheated on but I would like to think I could forgive but that's one thing I don't know if I could. Hopefully I will never have to find out.



Well I hope you never have to find out either ..... wine
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#25
May 15, 2012 10:09 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland1,934 posts
Boban1: No one asked for my forgiveness yet...guess Im not a very important person



Oh will you please forgive me for stalking you OH IMPORTANT ONE bowing
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#26
May 15, 2012 10:12 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1,486 posts
Boban1: No one asked for my forgiveness yet...guess Im not a very important person



pls forgive me for viewing your profilegrin
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#27
May 15, 2012 10:13 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
EagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain4,719 posts
almera03: I would guess the out come for forgetting would be pretty low judging by the bitterness shown on this site from many members

forgiving is to help you as an individual, not to admonish the other persons guilt, so yes I can forgive.


thumbs up

Genuine forgiveness (not just paying lip service to it) has one result: no matter how many times you re-run the "event" again in your mind after forgiveness has taken place, ALL of the feelings that were attached to THAT event or other similar ones, DISAPPEAR, they don´t exist anymore, there´s no more churning, no more uneasiness, no more hurt, no more anger, no more outrage ... It doesn´t have the power to destroy your internal peace anymore!!!

bouquet
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#28
May 15, 2012 10:15 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
EagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain4,719 posts
EagleWoman: Genuine forgiveness (not just paying lip service to it) has one result: no matter how many times you re-run the "event" again in your mind after forgiveness has taken place, ALL of the feelings that were attached to THAT event or other similar ones, DISAPPEAR, they don´t exist anymore, there´s no more churning, no more uneasiness, no more hurt, no more anger, no more outrage ... It doesn´t have the power to destroy your internal peace anymore!!!


I meant to add ...

after genuine forgiveness, it´s not necessary to forget ... for the reasons I explain in my above post.
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#29
May 15, 2012 10:38 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland1,934 posts
Boban1: I have notified the police..



So NO forgiveness ??? blues
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#30
May 15, 2012 11:13 AM CST Are you generally able to forgive and forget?
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
It depends on what each persons idea of forgivness is. In my idea it means putting that person out of your mind and not allowing them to take up even one second of your thoughts.
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