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May 19, 2012 11:53 AM CSTit's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
potarick
potarickpotarickAtlanta, Georgia, USA89 Threads 1 Polls 705 Posts

it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...(Vote Below)

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People we find interesting are gay
5
7%
People we find interesting are atheist
7
9%
People we find interesting are sick
6
8%
People we find interesting are racist
3
4%
People we find interesting are politically correct
3
4%
People we find interesting are happily married
25
34%
People we find interesting are not duly employed
1
1%
People we find interesting are criminals
2
3%
People we find interesting have too many kids
7
9%
People we find interesting are addicted to online
15
20%
Total Votes
74
Is there room to compromise
Should we just ignore the brain and obey the eyes?
professor
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May 19, 2012 12:05 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
It´s not any harder than it´s ever been
It just seems that way cos we´re in between
From youth to old age what we cannot find
We still hope will be there..........in the great online
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May 19, 2012 12:25 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
Going South seems to be the sensible thing.
laugh
;-}
grin
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May 19, 2012 8:59 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
in my case most likely my age

and also related to that my experience - I no longer jump in as readily with a time honoered tried and true red flag radar....

also my age because I now know what what I want, period. I feel in the past I have compromised enough

tho that is true - the attitude I have about that prolly makes me a little less likely to get involved & commit therefore prolonging my willingness to accept.....
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May 19, 2012 9:45 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
felixis99: in my case most likely my age

and also related to that my experience - I no longer jump in as readily with a time honoered tried and true red flag radar....

also my age because I now know what what I want, period. I feel in the past I have compromised enough

tho that is true - the attitude I have about that prolly makes me a little less likely to get involved & commit therefore prolonging my willingness to accept.....


me too my age and my strict requirements. no more compromises. only scammers and fakes seem to like my profile.
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May 19, 2012 10:43 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
potarick: Is there room to compromise
Should we just ignore the brain and obey the eyes?

What about the people we find interesting voted for obama?
moping
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May 19, 2012 10:46 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
anilag
anilaganilagStaten Island, New York USA12 Threads 412 Posts
galrads: What about the people we find interesting voted for obama?


How did Obama get inwolved into this ? confused
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May 19, 2012 10:48 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
simpledeed
simpledeedsimpledeedToronto, Ontario Canada97 Posts
Maybe its you....
purple heart
The purpose of defense mechanisms is to stop you from changing.
So that after the trauma or the break-up or the loss you are still you.
kiss
You are more:

sad
ashamed
impotent
enraged
depressed

yet all of this is fine as long as you're the same guy.

sound familiar?
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May 19, 2012 10:51 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
potarick: Is there room to compromise
Should we just ignore the brain and obey the eyes?


I can't obey my eyes if dudes have no picture dunno laugh
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May 19, 2012 10:53 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
anilag
anilaganilagStaten Island, New York USA12 Threads 412 Posts
2intrigued: I can't obey my eyes if dudes have no picture



thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
Unless he is looking for a blind woman :)
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May 19, 2012 10:59 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
anilag: How did Obama get inwolved into this ?

Are you serious? wave Obama's started a new chapter of the flat eart society! wow
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May 19, 2012 11:01 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
anilag: Unless he is looking for a blind woman :)

What does a blind woman have to do with this? confused
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May 19, 2012 11:03 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
anilag
anilaganilagStaten Island, New York USA12 Threads 412 Posts
galrads: Are you serious? Obama's started a new chapter of the flat eart society!


So what ?
Just because he made it legal it'a harder to find a lifepartner ?
Did you think if it was still illegas some lesbian would have relationship with a male ?
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May 19, 2012 11:03 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
Just understand that if I satisfy CS eyes I might be visiting plenty thighs
Coz I do have a harsh sense of humor but is convincingly nice

I must admit that you are a very sweet looking woman and very wise
Although you do have a questionable smile with searching blues eyes

Whenever I read your responses I have to ask my heart for advice
Should I start sending you emails without including lies?
professor

2intrigued: I can't obey my eyes if dudes have no picture
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May 19, 2012 11:05 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
simpledeed
simpledeedsimpledeedToronto, Ontario Canada97 Posts
okay
so its official
doh
it all Obama's fault!
'peace
the cause of
and solution to everything
wow
USA! USA! USA!
violin
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May 19, 2012 11:07 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
anilag: So what ?
Just because he made it legal it'a harder to find a lifepartner ?
Did you think if it was still illegas some lesbian would have relationship with a male ?
.

I have no idea of what you are talking about? wow
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May 19, 2012 11:08 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
Yes, Obama committed the ultimate sin
As the CEO he has clipped off some of his shareholders' fin

As humans we must be flexible when necessary to balance the swing
So I am going to vote him out the same way I voted him in!
professor

galrads: Are you serious? Obama's started a new chapter of the flat eart society!
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May 19, 2012 11:12 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
potarick: Just understand that if I satisfy CS eyes I might be visiting plenty thighs
Coz I do have a harsh sense of humor but is convincingly nice

I must admit that you are a very sweet looking woman and very wise
Although you do have a questionable smile with searching blues eyes

Whenever I read your responses I have to ask my heart for advice
Should I start sending you emails without including lies?


Hmm, you got me there, I'm rendered speechless blushing grin
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May 19, 2012 11:16 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
A blind woman would be nice
No more rolling of casino dice

Oh yes, a blind woman would be nice
No more traveling to my shrink to seek relationship advice

Yes, yes, yes a blind woman would be nice
I would finally have a longterm relationship to last more than 40days and 40nights!
professor

anilag: Unless he is looking for a blind woman :)
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May 19, 2012 11:27 PM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
potarick: A blind woman would be nice
No more rolling of casino dice

Oh yes, a blind woman would be nice
No more traveling to my shrink to seek relationship advice

Yes, yes, yes a blind woman would be nice
I would finally have a longterm relationship to last more than 40days and 40nights!

Isn't that pretty insensitive or politically incorrect to be talking about handicapped people?
It's more fun to talk about the idiot in the white house and how his ideological nonsense is turning every one off..... In my humble opinion.
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May 25, 2012 11:02 AM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
potarick: Is there room to compromise
Should we just ignore the brain and obey the eyes?



The older I get, the less willing I am to compromise.
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May 25, 2012 11:06 AM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
Jillll: The older I get, the less willing I am to compromise.
I came to post.....

as we get older the things we are willing to compromise on become less

cheers
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May 25, 2012 11:10 AM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
leo1shay
leo1shayleo1shayToronto, Ontario Canada2 Threads 161 Posts
Jillll: The older I get, the less willing I am to compromise.
thumbs up yay
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May 25, 2012 11:11 AM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Maybe because your putting waaaaay to much pressure on yourself and the peeps you meet. Why look for a "lifemate"? Why not just meet with an open mind and no expectations and let it happen organically? No pressure....just fun wine
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May 25, 2012 11:14 AM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Jillll: The older I get, the less willing I am to compromise.
Then "friends with benefits" is the answear,and who knowes with friends,might lead somewhere.
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May 25, 2012 11:17 AM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
venusenvy: Maybe because your putting waaaaay to much pressure on yourself and the peeps you meet. Why look for a "lifemate"? Why not just meet with an open mind and no expectations and let it happen organically? No pressure....just fun



I think you are right. At this stage in my life, I just want a companion.
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May 25, 2012 11:18 AM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
leo1shay
leo1shayleo1shayToronto, Ontario Canada2 Threads 161 Posts
venusenvy: Maybe because your putting waaaaay to much pressure on yourself and the peeps you meet. Why look for a "lifemate"? Why not just meet with an open mind and no expectations and let it happen organically? No pressure....just fun


Yes I totally agree... waaaaaaay to much pressure....
not only that starting off with honey, sweet thing, damsel, princess, beautiful OMG what a turn off.... what is it with these nicknames?
Why not be yourself and get to know me first!
meet with an open mind and no expectations and YES let it happen organically !!!!!doh
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May 25, 2012 11:23 AM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
leo1shay: Yes I totally agree... waaaaaaay to much pressure....
not only that starting off with honey, sweet thing, damsel, princess, beautiful OMG what a turn off.... what is it with these nicknames?
Why not be yourself and get to know me first!
meet with an open mind and no expectations and YES let it happen organically !!!!!


Exactly Leo! That way I always have fun, my date does too and if it develops into something more than it happens naturally. Too many peeps try to force the issue, out of desperation then are surprised when it doesnt work. Keep it light and have fun peace
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May 25, 2012 11:25 AM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
Jillll: I think you are right. At this stage in my life, I just want a companion.
you think but not surelaugh wave
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May 25, 2012 11:26 AM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
leo1shay
leo1shayleo1shayToronto, Ontario Canada2 Threads 161 Posts
venusenvy: Exactly Leo! That way I always have fun, my date does too and if it develops into something more than it happens naturally. Too many peeps try to force the issue, out of desperation then are surprised when it doesnt work. Keep it light and have fun


you said it ...... OUT OF DESPERATION ..... jaw drop and they are so shocked... suprised... when it doesnt work out.....
doh
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May 25, 2012 11:26 AM CST it's getting harder to find a lifemate because...
Jillll: I think you are right. At this stage in my life, I just want a companion.
you think but not surelaugh wave
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