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Jun 7, 2012 7:51 AM CSTForever alone
anitadelcielo
anitadelcieloanitadelcieloBogor, West Java, Indonesia1 Threads 1 Polls 2 Posts

Forever alone(Vote Below)

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Fate?
36
43%
Choice?
48
57%
Total Votes
84
Is it problem to be single for that long?
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Jun 7, 2012 8:02 AM CST Forever alone
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
i don't see any problem about being singleconfused

it is our own choice to be alone,important is you're happy...


LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLESTwine
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Jun 7, 2012 8:05 AM CST Forever alone
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
anitadelcielo: Is it problem to be single for that long?


The is a difference between being alone and being lonely .....

I am alone which is my choice but I am never lonely wine
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Jun 7, 2012 8:16 AM CST Forever alone
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
anitadelcielo: Is it problem to be single for that long?


Forever?

A bit fatalistic!

Nobody knows what the future holds!! bouquet
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Jun 7, 2012 8:21 AM CST Forever alone
anitadelcielo
anitadelcieloanitadelcieloBogor, West Java Indonesia1 Threads 1 Polls 2 Posts
EagleWoman: Forever?

A bit fatalistic!

Nobody knows what the future holds!!



Thank you.
But apparently I've never been in relationship until now.
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Jun 7, 2012 8:33 AM CST Forever alone
someonesvoicejee
someonesvoicejeesomeonesvoicejeemumbai, Maharashtra India78 Threads 665 Posts
anitadelcielo: Is it problem to be single for that long?



i can not be for ever alone i need someone to smile with
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Jun 7, 2012 8:59 AM CST Forever alone
Jack68
Jack68Jack68faisalabad, Punjab Pakistan72 Threads 30 Polls 2,605 Posts
anitadelcielo: Thank you.
But apparently I've never been in relationship until now.
Come out and smile you will find manywave
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Jun 7, 2012 9:15 AM CST Forever alone
anitadelcielo
anitadelcieloanitadelcieloBogor, West Java Indonesia1 Threads 1 Polls 2 Posts
The result seems 50 - 50 at the moment...
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Jun 7, 2012 9:20 AM CST Forever alone
mistravel
mistravelmistravelbangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 78 Posts
no problem for that long if it was not so lonely

but i think u will not lonely from now
coz u r opening out !!!!

good luck dear !!wave cheering
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Jun 7, 2012 9:21 AM CST Forever alone
Jack68
Jack68Jack68faisalabad, Punjab Pakistan72 Threads 30 Polls 2,605 Posts
anitadelcielo: The result seems 50 - 50 at the moment...
Give a smile please results will turns ti 100 percentbouquet teddybear
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Jun 7, 2012 12:24 PM CST Forever alone
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Start sending invitations to CS males,of your preference age group.dunno confused
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Jun 7, 2012 12:29 PM CST Forever alone
JustJess77
JustJess77JustJess77Monroe, North Carolina USA5 Threads 248 Posts
Sweety you are only 25...don't be in such a hurry, wait for the right one. If you rush it you may end up with the wrong one.
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Jun 7, 2012 12:31 PM CST Forever alone
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
JustJess77: Sweety you are only 25...don't be in such a hurry, wait for the right one. If you rush it you may end up with the wrong one.
Experience talking?????confused
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Jun 7, 2012 12:33 PM CST Forever alone
JustJess77
JustJess77JustJess77Monroe, North Carolina USA5 Threads 248 Posts
chris27292729: Experience talking?????
Absolutely
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Jun 7, 2012 12:36 PM CST Forever alone
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
JustJess77: Absolutely
hey you.....

Sorry I was out...

the next time you peek in my window, drop a note under the door too

hug
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Jun 7, 2012 12:39 PM CST Forever alone
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Hope the experience made you wise,and you have adhered to the ancient Greek saying "Doing the same mistake twice,certainly you aren't wise."".Are you???cheers handshake laugh wave
JustJess77: Absolutely
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Jun 7, 2012 12:39 PM CST Forever alone
JustJess77
JustJess77JustJess77Monroe, North Carolina USA5 Threads 248 Posts
almera03: hey you.....

Sorry I was out...

the next time you peek in my window, drop a note under the door too

I've told you before I like perving from afar...I would appreciate if next time you left the curtains openbouquet
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Jun 7, 2012 12:42 PM CST Forever alone
JustJess77
JustJess77JustJess77Monroe, North Carolina USA5 Threads 248 Posts
chris27292729: Hope the experience made you wise,and you have adhered to the ancient Greek saying "Doing the same mistake twice,certainly you aren't wise."".Are you???
I tried being wise without much success so now I'm just gonna be single for awhile.
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Jun 7, 2012 12:48 PM CST Forever alone
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
If you can live with it,its fine,if you cannot don't leave for very long.confused dunno
JustJess77: I tried being wise without much success so now I'm just gonna be single for awhile.
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Jun 7, 2012 12:54 PM CST Forever alone
JustJess77
JustJess77JustJess77Monroe, North Carolina USA5 Threads 248 Posts
chris27292729: If you can live with it,its fine,if you cannot don't leave for very long.
Why, do I have a expiration date?dunno
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Jun 7, 2012 1:06 PM CST Forever alone
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
JustJess77: I've told you before I like perving from afar...I would appreciate if next time you left the curtains open
Just knock the door and I'll let you in while I'm taking a bath, you can do my back for me

bouquet
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Jun 7, 2012 1:14 PM CST Forever alone
JustJess77
JustJess77JustJess77Monroe, North Carolina USA5 Threads 248 Posts
almera03: Just knock the door and I'll let you in while I'm taking a bath, you can do my back for me
I tried knocking but I guess you were too busy soaping your front upgrin
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Jun 7, 2012 8:37 PM CST Forever alone
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
Alone or alone forever; while simply being alone can be by choice; alone forever hints at another concept, one not conducive to being happy in any way without necessarily meaning 'alone forever'.
Frankly, I would not recommend either for anyone.
As long as I have my cats, I won't be 'alone'. As for the latter, hey, nothing is better than daily being with someone that you'd rather not be around...we all get what and/or whom we deserve...even if it is no one.
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Jun 7, 2012 9:03 PM CST Forever alone
as has been alluded to, being alone is preferrable to settling

I'd rather be alone than settle for someone who is not totally in love with me & vice versa
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Jun 7, 2012 9:10 PM CST Forever alone
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
felixis99: as has been alluded to, being alone is preferrable to settling

I'd rather be alone than settle for someone who is not totally in love with me & vice versa

But isnt love the result of a life experience realized, something beyond physical attraction and fuzzy feelings? confused so, how long then does it take for you and someone else to know you each are totally in love with the other?
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Jun 7, 2012 9:13 PM CST Forever alone
galrads: But isnt love the result of a life experience realized, something beyond physical attraction and fuzzy feelings? so, how long then does it take for you and someone else to know you each are totally in love with the other?


I will know when I know

and in the meantime I would prefer not to be in a committed relationship - I am interpreting "alone" here to mean - being single and not living with a spouse or romantic partner

not necessarily meaning to exclude social contact
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Jun 7, 2012 9:14 PM CST Forever alone
felixis99: I will know when I know

and in the meantime I would prefer not to be in a committed relationship - I am interpreting "alone" here to mean - being single and not living with a spouse or romantic partner

not necessarily meaning to exclude social contact


and no, for me the physical attraction is very much a part of being in love, and no it does not require a shared lifetime
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Jun 7, 2012 9:22 PM CST Forever alone
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
felixis99: and no, for me the physical attraction is very much a part of being in love, and no it does not require a shared lifetime

Oh, ok. then it must be somewhat how i feel that i love my new BMW convertible when I just look at it.
laugh
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Jun 7, 2012 9:44 PM CST Forever alone
galrads: Oh, ok. then it must be somewhat how i feel that i love my new BMW convertible when I just look at it.


no not at all - my car doesn't make me feel less alone even tho it's tres cool

- physical attraction is an important part but not the only thing. and it's interesting - a very good looking man who is physically attractive but mean no longer is perceived as attractive

I have had that happen recently where an attractive man behaved like a total jerk the other day, and when I look at him now I no longer perceive him as attractive - just as kinda .... pathetic

so there is a lot of room for interpretation on what constitutes love and attraction

I was answering the OP regarding being alone...I prefer it to "settling" and that has been my stance for quite some time!hug
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Jun 7, 2012 9:48 PM CST Forever alone
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
felixis99: no not at all - my car doesn't make me feel less alone even tho it's tres cool

- physical attraction is an important part but not the only thing. and it's interesting - a very good looking man who is physically attractive but mean no longer is perceived as attractive

I have had that happen recently where an attractive man behaved like a total jerk the other day, and when I look at him now I no longer perceive him as attractive - just as kinda .... pathetic

so there is a lot of room for interpretation on what constitutes love and attraction

I was answering the OP regarding being alone...I prefer it to "settling" and that has been my stance for quite some time!


Being "forever alone" is for sure a personal choice. I have taken that path and have no problem with it for now.
To each his own.

dunno
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Jun 7, 2012 9:50 PM CST Forever alone
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
Jeeepers: Being "forever alone" is for sure a personal choice. I have taken that path and have no problem with it for now.
To each his own.
To each...."or her".... own.
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