felixis99: no not at all - my car doesn't make me feel less alone even tho it's tres cool
- physical attraction is an important part but not the only thing. and it's interesting - a very good looking man who is physically attractive but mean no longer is perceived as attractive
I have had that happen recently where an attractive man behaved like a total jerk the other day, and when I look at him now I no longer perceive him as attractive - just as kinda .... pathetic
so there is a lot of room for interpretation on what constitutes love and attraction
I was answering the OP regarding being alone...I prefer it to "settling" and that has been my stance for quite some time!
Ok, all that seems to make good sense to me. I guess I'm forever alone since last week when I got in the shower with a razor and it won, shaving my head completely....
galrads: Ok, all that seems to make good sense to me. I guess I'm forever alone since last week when I got in the shower with a razor and it won, shaving my head completely....
anitadelcielo: Is it problem to be single for that long?
Pretty much like everyone here said, being single is a choice. There are no absolutes in the whole universe and there are plenty of cases of people living completely happy by themselves.
You'll know when the time comes, love finds you so you shouldn't be trying to chase it. That path will only bring you pain.
A simple advice if I may, live to the fullest. Have no regrets and keep on going, always forward. Love yourself first, and then you can start concentrating on the upcoming events.
Lol, now I'm feeling like a wise man! Up & down, left to right.
Jeeepers: Being "forever alone" is for sure a personal choice. I have taken that path and have no problem with it for now. To each his own.
right - well I haven't chosen to be "forever alone" I just happen to be alone now. I would prefer to remain single and wait until I find something/someone I am happy about, feel good about, feel the love potential is very good rather than be with someone jsut to be able to say I have a partner. I think a lot of folks do that. I have done that before. It's a mistake. unless you are jsut looking for a companion.
JMo55: Pretty much like everyone here said, being single is a choice. There are no absolutes in the whole universe and there are plenty of cases of people living completely happy by themselves.
You'll know when the time comes, love finds you so you shouldn't be trying to chase it. That path will only bring you pain.
A simple advice if I may, live to the fullest. Have no regrets and keep on going, always forward. Love yourself first, and then you can start concentrating on the upcoming events.
Lol, now I'm feeling like a wise man! Up & down, left to right.
Most people that are habitually single are so by choice whether they consciously or subconsciously make that decision. As humans we are meant to be partnered up with another. We're bioligically made as such. To remain single for long durations of time is against nature and IMHO will make you miserable. I'm sure the eternally single crowd will get defensive when they hear the truth but it is what it is.
No problem to be single ... I had been single long time before I met my husband. In my mind in that time I don't think I will be relationship with any man. Your man still not come, Anitadelcielo
I have had long term, short term, Mid term, and spontaneous term, relationships, and I can tell you i have seen every side of life rags to riches, love to hate but through all that being single at my age is heaven, but a new love could change that all over again and being in a loving relationship is what i desire but it has to be two way loving and sharing a soul mate if you will
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- physical attraction is an important part but not the only thing. and it's interesting - a very good looking man who is physically attractive but mean no longer is perceived as attractive
I have had that happen recently where an attractive man behaved like a total jerk the other day, and when I look at him now I no longer perceive him as attractive - just as kinda .... pathetic
so there is a lot of room for interpretation on what constitutes love and attraction
I was answering the OP regarding being alone...I prefer it to "settling" and that has been my
stance for quite some time!
Ok, all that seems to make good sense to me. I guess I'm forever alone since last week when I got in the shower with a razor and it won, shaving my head completely....