very attractive singles are they really single or (114)
Hugz_n_Kissez: Guess what...I am single by choice because being alone doesn't mean being lonely and outweighs being in a relationship full of crap.....I was in a 10 year marriage...a 2 year relationship after that and then a 5 year relationship.....the culmination resulted in...me saying no more...until the right man comes along...so yeah...I learned to build a relationship with myself...which was the best thing I could have ever done...I know me now inside and out...and I am not about to or will not settle.....being single is not abnormal...society only says it is....it's actually an individual choice!!!!!!!!!!!No...how do you think we thread jacked????? We were discussing choice as something that should have been mentioned on the poll!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh and there is no other underlying reason for me being single...other than what I have said...the one thing I have learned is to be totally honest with myself and I have no problems or embarrassment in sharing my choices and why!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No you misread. Being single is not abnormal. Choosing to be single period IS. You stated your self you are waiting for the right one, therefore you are not being single by choice you are simply wait for the right one. I am single I am told because I am to picky, a flaw in me I guess. As I stated in my comment batcher/et hood is acceptable but they normally have partners. Choosing to be single is not normal, and if said person was happy being single why would they log on to a dating website? and don't say for the forums because that’s so been done to much.
yikes- dating sites would be scary places if attractive peope were not allowed!!
Shadow_lover: No you misread. Being single is not abnormal. Choosing to be single period IS. You stated your self you are waiting for the right one, therefore you are not being single by choice you are simply wait for the right one. I am single I am told because I am to picky, a flaw in me I guess. As I stated in my comment batcher/et hood is acceptable but they normally have partners. Choosing to be single is not normal, and if said person was happy being single why would they log on to a dating website? and don't say for the forums because that’s so been done to much.
Hmmmm....something to think about there...I never really looked at it that way 
jampet: yikes- dating sites would be scary places if attractive peope were not allowed!!
I agree
Shadow_lover: No you misread. Being single is not abnormal. Choosing to be single period IS. You stated your self you are waiting for the right one, therefore you are not being single by choice you are simply wait for the right one. I am single I am told because I am to picky, a flaw in me I guess. As I stated in my comment batcher/et hood is acceptable but they normally have partners. Choosing to be single is not normal, and if said person was happy being single why would they log on to a dating website? and don't say for the forums because that’s so been done to much.
Yes I am waiting for the right one...BUT the fact remains I am single and have been close to 7 years...If the right man doesn't come along then yes I am prepared to stay this way...
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yes...dating and being in a serious relationship...are 2 different things....
Thank you....
and thank you all for helping make this monday morning more enjoyable to wake up to.....
got to go....otherwise nothing will get done....
god it's hot again today, already feels like a furnace out there...
cu all....
kurzita: Thank you....
and thank you all for helping make this monday morning more enjoyable to wake up to.....
got to go....otherwise nothing will get done....god it's hot again today, already feels like a furnace out there...cu all....
and thank you all for helping make this monday morning more enjoyable to wake up to.....
got to go....otherwise nothing will get done....god it's hot again today, already feels like a furnace out there...cu all....
Me too...Off to bed for me...Have a great day!!!!!!!!!!
Nite nite to both of you then
Hugz_n_Kissez: Me too...Off to bed for me...Have a great day!!!!!!!!!!
Nighty nite, you two 
rasgumby: So tell us more detail since you fit the description!
Are you single? or-
Are you single? or-
This is me in my picture .. nope no children or husband so far
ermm .. if u still have a doubt u can confirm from someone who has seen me.
Thats proof enough ..
hmm besides i dont think i belong to the " very attractive singles " category .. my pictures are me .. no doubt .... but i have always maintained some of us take good pictures while some of us are photogenic .. both works at different times for me .. so i am just me simply ordinary.
All truth , no modesty here.
All truth , no modesty here.
Hugz_n_Kissez: Me too...Off to bed for me...Have a great day!!!!!!!!!!
Ciao both of you.
Everybody is attractive for somebody.
Barnagie: Everybody is attractive for somebody.
so true .
And before i get the next question why are u on a dating site and not looking .. as i have mentioned before i joined CS at a friends suggestion .. literally she wanted me to .. this is the first time i am on a forum and i loved it so i stay ..
So it was not " to find someone " perse.
So it was not " to find someone " perse.
Barnagie: Everybody is attractive for somebody.
I'll second that.
Hiya.... I think the question in itself and the Poll kinda answers the question.... good looking people often have a tough time finding someone cause people automatically judge them as being vacuous or full of themselves or they sometimes feel intimidated by them.... I have a few friends like this and in a way they have a worse time meeting guys... one common problem also, is that the guy (or girl) is so focused on the attraction that either they are not bothered to get to know the person or they have completely misjudged them.. one friend of mine (Kat)has been having a terrible time of it with men and she is stunning (legs worthy of an advert) and really intelligent and elegant..but at the same time she is a lovely sincere person.. yet she has been treated sooo badly.. mind boggles JMV
Aries01: Hiya.... I think the question in itself and the Poll kinda answers the question.... good looking people often have a tough time finding someone cause people automatically judge them as being vacuous or full of themselves or they sometimes feel intimidated by them.... I have a few friends like this and in a way they have a worse time meeting guys... one common problem also, is that the guy (or girl) is so focused on the attraction that either they are not bothered to get to know the person or they have completely misjudged them.. one friend of mine (Kat)has been having a terrible time of it with men and she is stunning (legs worthy of an advert) and really intelligent and elegant..but at the same time she is a lovely sincere person.. yet she has been treated sooo badly.. mind boggles JMV
yes ..
Aries01: Hiya.... I think the question in itself and the Poll kinda answers the question.... good looking people often have a tough time finding someone cause people automatically judge them as being vacuous or full of themselves or they sometimes feel intimidated by them.... I have a few friends like this and in a way they have a worse time meeting guys... one common problem also, is that the guy (or girl) is so focused on the attraction that either they are not bothered to get to know the person or they have completely misjudged them.. one friend of mine (Kat)has been having a terrible time of it with men and she is stunning (legs worthy of an advert) and really intelligent and elegant..but at the same time she is a lovely sincere person.. yet she has been treated sooo badly.. mind boggles JMV
Exactlysxc666: Why can't you be attactive and single
Ditto
gangel: Ditto
yup.
certainly not "very attractive sigle" here Just here for the ride!!
Yes unfortunatly some people do use their good looks to take advantage in a negative way but I don't think just because your good looking it means your a snob or any other negative aspect.
I know some people who are very good looking and single and its because they chose to be and are careful in what they are looking for in someone.
Just my humble opinion of course.
I know some people who are very good looking and single and its because they chose to be and are careful in what they are looking for in someone.
Just my humble opinion of course.
True....I have known some gorgeous women who seem to have miserable experiences in relationships....their beauty seems to somehow make their relationships so complicated... so yes, very good-looking people can be very unlucky in love....in many cases their looks actually are a curse...because men are continually after them for the wrong reasons....
Aries01: Hiya.... I think the question in itself and the Poll kinda answers the question.... good looking people often have a tough time finding someone cause people automatically judge them as being vacuous or full of themselves or they sometimes feel intimidated by them.... I have a few friends like this and in a way they have a worse time meeting guys... one common problem also, is that the guy (or girl) is so focused on the attraction that either they are not bothered to get to know the person or they have completely misjudged them.. one friend of mine (Kat)has been having a terrible time of it with men and she is stunning (legs worthy of an advert) and really intelligent and elegant..but at the same time she is a lovely sincere person.. yet she has been treated sooo badly.. mind boggles JMV
Aries01: Hiya.... I think the question in itself and the Poll kinda answers the question.... good looking people often have a tough time finding someone cause people automatically judge them as being vacuous or full of themselves or they sometimes feel intimidated by them.... I have a few friends like this and in a way they have a worse time meeting guys... one common problem also, is that the guy (or girl) is so focused on the attraction that either they are not bothered to get to know the person or they have completely misjudged them.. one friend of mine (Kat)has been having a terrible time of it with men and she is stunning (legs worthy of an advert) and really intelligent and elegant..but at the same time she is a lovely sincere person.. yet she has been treated sooo badly.. mind boggles JMV
Also people are attracted to them for the wrong reasons ... it's in fact difficult because often they attract very superficial people (who think they are god's gift to the other gender) and who are in lust with them and don't match the the intelligence/depth of character of the good looking person. A lot of men run a mile from a woman who is good looking, is intelligent AND had character because they feel they are no match or they don't want "competition". And they certainly won't be approached by people who have low self-esteem as they would be affraid "to lose her/him" ... 
Sorry Lago!!! Was writing my post while you posted yours!!!!That's ok!!!...we seem to be bumping into each other all over the place tonite....:-))
FlowerOfTheSun: Sorry Lago!!! Was writing my post while you posted yours!!!!
I agree with Lagoona and Flower .. to have a relationship just the " you are s beautiful " wont do .. theres got to be more ..
I'd really like to know though why such negative poll options where put up as an option, if your attractive and single.
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I'm not saying that will last forever but it's going to take someone special for me to change my mind. When and if that happens again it will be a choice I make.
Thread jacking I dont think so.
Simply saying that just because you're good looking doesn't mean you are a fake. It means you have made a choice to be single etc.