how much control do you have over who you fall in love with. (34)
Now, I have total control over falling for love!
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I have heard that most great romances were love at first sight. Awhile back, when she was still living, Abigail Van Buren wrote about the quick marriages of WWII and how they seemed to flourish successfully, in spite of the way they all happened so spontaneously.
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There are different loves for different times in our lives.
In our youth we need to breed, later we need someone to depend on for the family and at the end of our lives, we want to lounge in our comfort and decay together.
Just my inexperienced humble opinion.
In our youth we need to breed, later we need someone to depend on for the family and at the end of our lives, we want to lounge in our comfort and decay together.
Just my inexperienced humble opinion.
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I certainly cant control who I love or not, it is something that simply flows or grows when I am in the process of knowing someone, I think it is better this way....If I could have absolute control on who to love and who not to love it wouldnt be romantic I guess
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LonelyMontse08: I certainly cant control who I love or not, it is something that simply flows or grows when I am in the process of knowing someone, I think it is better this way....If I could have absolute control on who to love and who not to love it wouldnt be romantic I guess
Love's kinda weird that way--just when we think we have it all under control, bam, it hits. That's where those old sayings come from about love not making sense, or referring to somebody in love as being in "la la land". .....ooooh, ooooh, love hurts, ......
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waterboy101: can we control who we love,do we pick who is a logical choice,or do we just go with our hearts.
Once we get bitten by the smitten bug, it's hard to control. Guess we have to make sure we keep our common sense intact enough to make wise decisions.
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rohaan: Love's kinda weird that way--just when we think we have it all under control, bam, it hits. That's where those old sayings come from about love not making sense, or referring to somebody in love as being in "la la land". .....ooooh, ooooh, love hurts, ......
yeap thats right 
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Love hurts, love scars
Love wounds, and marks
Any heart, not tough
Or strong enough
To take a lot of pain
To take a lot of pain
Love is like a cloud
Holds a lot of rain
Love hurts
Love hurts
I'm young, I know
But even so
I know a thing or two
I learned, from you
I really learned a lot
Really learned a lot
Love is like a flame
It burns you when it's hot
Love hurts
Love hurts
Some fools think of happiness
Blissfulness, togetherness
Some fools fool themselves, I guess
They're not foolin' me
I know it isn't true
I know it isn't true
Love is just a lie
Made to make you blue
Love hurts
Love hurts
Love hurts
I know it isn't true
I know it isn't true
Love is just a lie
Made to make you blue
Love hurts
Love hurts
Love hurts
Love wounds, and marks
Any heart, not tough
Or strong enough
To take a lot of pain
To take a lot of pain
Love is like a cloud
Holds a lot of rain
Love hurts
Love hurts
I'm young, I know
But even so
I know a thing or two
I learned, from you
I really learned a lot
Really learned a lot
Love is like a flame
It burns you when it's hot
Love hurts
Love hurts
Some fools think of happiness
Blissfulness, togetherness
Some fools fool themselves, I guess
They're not foolin' me
I know it isn't true
I know it isn't true
Love is just a lie
Made to make you blue
Love hurts
Love hurts
Love hurts
I know it isn't true
I know it isn't true
Love is just a lie
Made to make you blue
Love hurts
Love hurts
Love hurts
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I fell in love with a lady once that I knew would never work out,long story.so I tried to stop loving her but couldnt.I thought I could talk myself out of it 'logically' but no luck.I realized then I had little or no control.I asked this question to see if I was the only one lol.I see now im not.even though it hurt not to have her in my life I still think its better not to have total control over your feelings,life would be so boring wouldnt it.
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No, it's not boring, it's called contentment.
My feelings of comfort, security and safety come first.
My feelings of comfort, security and safety come first.
waterboy101: I fell in love with a lady once that I knew would never work out,long story.so I tried to stop loving her but couldnt.I thought I could talk myself out of it 'logically' but no luck.I realized then I had little or no control.I asked this question to see if I was the only one lol.I see now im not.even though it hurt not to have her in my life I still think its better not to have total control over your feelings,life would be so boring wouldnt it.
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If its true love then you have no control.
I thought this was @#*# but boy was i mistaken.
I thought this was @#*# but boy was i mistaken.
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At this stage of my life, total control.
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waterboy101: I fell in love with a lady once that I knew would never work out,long story.so I tried to stop loving her but couldnt.I thought I could talk myself out of it 'logically' but no luck.I realized then I had little or no control.I asked this question to see if I was the only one lol.I see now im not.even though it hurt not to have her in my life I still think its better not to have total control over your feelings,life would be so boring wouldnt it.
I think most of us have experienced something similar at least once in our lives. I think the more often it happens, the more guarded we are as to who we let into our hearts.
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waterboy101: can we control who we love,do we pick who is a logical choice,or do we just go with our hearts.
Why does everything haveto be about control and power?? It's so much happier and real if no one controls no one and just...be and be the best we can with each other :) I RARELY hear or experience the term "unconditional" anymore, it's the best part of a great relationship!!!
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2Whitedoves: Why does everything haveto be about control and power?? It's so much happier and real if no one controls no one and just...be and be the best we can with each other :) I RARELY hear or experience the term "unconditional" anymore, it's the best part of a great relationship!!!
The only unconditional love in this world is the love you get from a child, IMO.
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I think we don't just fall inlove blindly ... There were qualities, beauty, charm, respect, honesty etc. that makes us fall inlove with that particular person ... So it will be hard to just stop loving someone with a switch of a button ... When its "true love" you feel, its like a loss in death, it takes time to get over the emotions but will never remove the memories
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waterboy101: can we control who we love,do we pick who is a logical choice,or do we just go with our hearts.
Whether or not a person controls with whom they bond (aka love) is entirely within their control, if they have an IQ north of two digits.
To claim to be unable to control the process is the sign of someone of below-average intelligence, who has little education, no common sense and little to no impulse control. They are little better than a mongrel dog mating on the street.
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uh ya like THAT's gonna happen
2intrigued: Once we get bitten by the smitten bug, it's hard to control. Guess we have to make sure we keep our common sense intact enough to make wise decisions.
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When you're inexperienced and green you it's easy to just fall in love at the drop of a hat. When you're wise and learned then you finally become empowered by realizing you have control and a say over who you will give your heart and life to.
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lemme sort out controlling myself first 
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felixis99: uh ya
like THAT's gonna happen
like THAT's gonna happen
I know eh?
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2intrigued: I know eh?
yupbut I do think we learn as time goes on
first the differences between lust and love
and then the value if placing true love first when we find it because it happens so rarely
I think it's falling lust where we need to be careful - whereas we cannot always predict who we will fall in love with, we can control our lust lives
(Disclaimer: That last comment does include Boban1)
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felixis99: yup
but I do think we learn as time goes on
first the differences between lust and love
and then the value if placing true love first when we find it because it happens so rarely
I think it's falling lust where we need to be careful - whereas we cannot always predict who we will fall in love with, we can control our lust lives (Disclaimer: That last comment does include Boban1)
but I do think we learn as time goes on
first the differences between lust and love
and then the value if placing true love first when we find it because it happens so rarely
I think it's falling lust where we need to be careful - whereas we cannot always predict who we will fall in love with, we can control our lust lives (Disclaimer: That last comment does include Boban1)
At this point in my life, lust sounds just about right for me.
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2intrigued: At this point in my life, lust sounds just about right for me.
yes I can understand that! men are a lot of work to have around all the time - hogging the remote & drinking all the lager and leaving smelly socks laying about!
keep them around for one purpose and then send them home, I say
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felixis99: yes I can understand that! men are a lot of work to have around all the time - hogging the remote & drinking all the lager and leaving smelly socks laying about!
keep them around for one purpose and then send them home, I say
keep them around for one purpose and then send them home, I say
I like this quote...
“Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then.”
~Katharine Hepburn~
Think she's onto something there.
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2intrigued: I like this quote...
“Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then.”
~Katharine Hepburn~
Think she's onto something there.
“Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then.”
~Katharine Hepburn~
Think she's onto something there.
Me thinks she was a very wise woman. BTW the house next to me is up for sale.
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kennn: Me thinks she was a very wise woman. BTW the house next to me is up for sale.
Alberta is too darn cold Kenny...let's go buy adjoining houses in Hawaii
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2intrigued: Alberta is too darn cold Kenny...let's go buy adjoining houses in Hawaii
Lol, I plan to win the lotto this week-end. If that happens, we will do just that. My treat!!
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kennn: Lol, I plan to win the lotto this week-end. If that happens, we will do just that. My treat!!
I'll hold ya to that.
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Created: Jul 2012
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