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Aug 6, 2012 3:29 PM CSTare you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????

are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????(Vote Below)

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yes they broke my heart
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17%
no like water of a ducks back
13
17%
i was badly hurt
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11%
thats why i'm here
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5%
i'm bitter now
1
1%
they thought me a lesson
22
29%
i tryed
1
1%
nightmare relationship
7
9%
i can move now because......
7
9%
Total Votes
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so have you any emotional baggage from the past?
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Aug 6, 2012 3:34 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
our pasts only serve to bring us to where we are today.
Its up to us now what we do with today.........and tomorrow.
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Aug 6, 2012 3:35 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
MermaidDreams
MermaidDreamsMermaidDreamsOffaly, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 800 Posts
pedro27: so have you any emotional baggage from the past?


Put it this way: I need more suitcases grin

Ah no in all honesty, I'd be lying to ye and fooling myself if I said I'd no baggage from my past relationship. 'Course I have, who hasn't? But, I look upon my past relationship from the perspective that I can take with me what was good and stay clear of what wasn't, so I feel better able to make a better choice, for me, next time round.
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Aug 6, 2012 3:39 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
Mariannette: our pasts only serve to bring us to where we are today.
Its up to us now what we do with today.........and tomorrow.



thats positive and true, the glass is half full rather than half empty,, sounds optimistic
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Aug 6, 2012 3:43 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
MermaidDreams: Put it this way: I need more suitcases

Ah no in all honesty, I'd be lying to ye and fooling myself if I said I'd no baggage from my past relationship. 'Course I have, who hasn't? But, I look upon my past relationship from the perspective that I can take with me what was good and stay clear of what wasn't, so I feel better able to make a better choice, for me, next time round.



i could write a best seller book on my ex's , i was thought a lesson on love
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Aug 6, 2012 3:43 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
MermaidDreams: Put it this way: I need more suitcases

Ah no in all honesty, I'd be lying to ye and fooling myself if I said I'd no baggage from my past relationship. 'Course I have, who hasn't? But, I look upon my past relationship from the perspective that I can take with me what was good and stay clear of what wasn't, so I feel better able to make a better choice, for me, next time round.



i could write a best seller book on my ex's , i was thought a lesson on love
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Aug 6, 2012 3:44 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
pedro27: i could write a best seller book on my ex's , i was thought a lesson on love
Something tells me they could write a best seller on you Pedro, ya mad huair ya.
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Aug 6, 2012 3:45 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
pedro27: so have you any emotional baggage from the past?

For me it's the past and I would never go back. I wouldn't start dating etc. if I wasn't over it completely. dunno
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Aug 6, 2012 3:45 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
pedro27: thats positive and true, the glass is half full rather than half empty,, sounds optimistic


Gotta be optimistic.

And I know more of what I want and dont want and what I will put up with and what I wont.
And what I dont want is drama.
Some things people might think are drama arent to me....i can be rather easy going.....but there are just some things I can live without.
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Aug 6, 2012 3:48 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
MADDOG69: Something tells me they could write a best seller on you Pedro, ya mad huair ya.


yep i am part of the bookthumbs up
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Aug 6, 2012 3:50 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
Water of a ducks back.
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Aug 6, 2012 3:51 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
KNenagh: For me it's the past and I would never go back. I wouldn't start dating etc. if I wasn't over it completely.



are we really over a past relationship? like i still have a tiny feeling for one ex, and i believe we ''all'' have a tiny feeling for some ex in the past...jmo
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Aug 6, 2012 3:52 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
pedro27: so have you any emotional baggage from the past?
dunno if id call it baggage to be honest its more experience for future relationships. i learnt what i do and dont want from a relationship from my previous ones and also learnt i wont just settle for the first fella that pays me attention anymore. that said i wont be jumping into another relationship till im sure im ready to conversing
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Aug 6, 2012 3:54 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
Mariannette: Gotta be optimistic.

And I know more of what I want and dont want and what I will put up with and what I wont.
And what I dont want is drama.
Some things people might think are drama arent to me....i can be rather easy going.....but there are just some things I can live without.



i agreethumbs up
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Aug 6, 2012 3:54 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
pedro27: are we really over a past relationship? like i still have a tiny feeling for one ex, and i believe we ''all'' have a tiny feeling for some ex in the past...jmo


Don't include me..It's over it's over. No feelings.
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Aug 6, 2012 3:56 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
Phoenix: Don't include me..It's over it's over. No feelings.


If you had absolutely no feelings for a person when its over..you weren't really in love with them in the first placeconversing
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Aug 6, 2012 3:56 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
pedro27: are we really over a past relationship? like i still have a tiny feeling for one ex, and i believe we ''all'' have a tiny feeling for some ex in the past...jmo
i care for all my exs as for the most part we ended on good terms bar one but it wouldnt get in the way of a new relationship
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Aug 6, 2012 3:56 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
pedro27: are we really over a past relationship? like i still have a tiny feeling for one ex, and i believe we ''all'' have a tiny feeling for some ex in the past...jmo

No, he managed to kill that completely dunno

It did show me something about meeting the right person, it was right for a long time and I would only start something again if it feels "right" with someone again.

But there's no going back for me as he became a different person and I refuse to live in the past anyway.

There's only one way for me and that's forward. wine
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Aug 6, 2012 3:57 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
Phoenix: Water of a ducks back.


never been hurt no?
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Aug 6, 2012 3:59 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
pedro27: never been hurt no?


Doesn't mean I carry the 'baggage' into another relationship.
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Aug 6, 2012 4:01 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
salanky: dunno if id call it baggage to be honest its more experience for future relationships. i learnt what i do and dont want from a relationship from my previous ones and also learnt i wont just settle for the first fella that pays me attention anymore. that said i wont be jumping into another relationship till im sure im ready to



jmo we carry some kinda baggage its part and parcel of entering a relationship , especial when we give it all of our effort
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Aug 6, 2012 4:04 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
royallee
royalleeroyalleeMeath, Ireland46 Threads 5 Polls 865 Posts
Phoenix: Don't include me..It's over it's over. No feelings.


When you fall out of of love with someone, there is no going back, it`s over !





Who can tell when summer turns to autumn
And who can point the moment love grows cold
Softly without pain the joy is over
Though why it's gone we neither of us know sad flower
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Aug 6, 2012 4:07 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
royallee: When you fall out of of love with someone, there is no going back, it`s over !




I'm not saying there is no going back..Everything is possible.
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Aug 6, 2012 4:07 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
pedro27: jmo we carry some kinda baggage its part and parcel of entering a relationship , especial when we give it all of our effort
i just think baggage is the wrong word for it is all, it makes it sound like something wrong thats gonna cause problems in future relationships which isnt always the case dunno
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Aug 6, 2012 4:07 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
pedro27: jmo we carry some kinda baggage its part and parcel of entering a relationship , especial when we give it all of our effort


Yes, I think it is natural to carry some baggage, especially the older you get. We learn something from every relationship we have and that can be good or bad. If you don't think you are carrying baggage you are only fooling yourself. jmo
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Aug 6, 2012 4:07 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
KNenagh: No, he managed to kill that completely

It did show me something about meeting the right person, it was right for a long time and I would only start something again if it feels "right" with someone again.

But there's no going back for me as he became a different person and I refuse to live in the past anyway.

There's only one way for me and that's forward.


that is possible, i did say ex's so i meant eglist one in the past, not particlaly the last one
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Aug 6, 2012 4:09 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
martini100
martini100martini100wexford, Wexford Ireland19 Threads 2,158 Posts
I get on very well with my ex, and his new partner, so no baggage for me laugh
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Aug 6, 2012 4:11 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
royallee: Its the habits, patterns and things you did together as a couple that is hard to let go of when love dies................ adjusting to being alone again is the hard part.


How come you aren't watching the HIT FACTORY on ITV?
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Aug 6, 2012 4:11 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
salanky: i just think baggage is the wrong word for it is all, it makes it sound like something wrong thats gonna cause problems in future relationships which isnt always the case



once biten twice shy kinda thing,, i think that means once hurt twice coutious, meaning your not the same as b4..jmo
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Aug 6, 2012 4:12 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
LadyBlackAdder: Yes, I think it is natural to carry some baggage, especially the older you get. We learn something from every relationship we have and that can be good or bad. If you don't think you are carrying baggage you are only fooling yourself. jmo

I agree, it's just up to us how we deal with it, I wouldn't do it to myself and someone else to start dating if I'm not ready, it just would end up in a mess and I wouldn't want to to this to someone. But that's just me. dunno

@ Pedro: Yes, we learn from all of our relationships, the last one is just the one that had the biggest impact on me.
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Aug 6, 2012 4:12 PM CST are you carry some emotional baggage from your past Ex's.....>>>>><<<<?????
royallee
royalleeroyalleeMeath, Ireland46 Threads 5 Polls 865 Posts
Phoenix: I'm not saying there is no going back..Everything is possible.


So do you believe it is possible to fall out of love,part............ meet and fall in love again...... conversing
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