pedro27: so have you any emotional baggage from the past?
Put it this way: I need more suitcases
Ah no in all honesty, I'd be lying to ye and fooling myself if I said I'd no baggage from my past relationship. 'Course I have, who hasn't? But, I look upon my past relationship from the perspective that I can take with me what was good and stay clear of what wasn't, so I feel better able to make a better choice, for me, next time round.
MermaidDreams: Put it this way: I need more suitcases
Ah no in all honesty, I'd be lying to ye and fooling myself if I said I'd no baggage from my past relationship. 'Course I have, who hasn't? But, I look upon my past relationship from the perspective that I can take with me what was good and stay clear of what wasn't, so I feel better able to make a better choice, for me, next time round.
i could write a best seller book on my ex's , i was thought a lesson on love
MermaidDreams: Put it this way: I need more suitcases
Ah no in all honesty, I'd be lying to ye and fooling myself if I said I'd no baggage from my past relationship. 'Course I have, who hasn't? But, I look upon my past relationship from the perspective that I can take with me what was good and stay clear of what wasn't, so I feel better able to make a better choice, for me, next time round.
i could write a best seller book on my ex's , i was thought a lesson on love
pedro27: thats positive and true, the glass is half full rather than half empty,, sounds optimistic
Gotta be optimistic.
And I know more of what I want and dont want and what I will put up with and what I wont. And what I dont want is drama. Some things people might think are drama arent to me....i can be rather easy going.....but there are just some things I can live without.
KNenagh: For me it's the past and I would never go back. I wouldn't start dating etc. if I wasn't over it completely.
are we really over a past relationship? like i still have a tiny feeling for one ex, and i believe we ''all'' have a tiny feeling for some ex in the past...jmo
pedro27: so have you any emotional baggage from the past?
dunno if id call it baggage to be honest its more experience for future relationships. i learnt what i do and dont want from a relationship from my previous ones and also learnt i wont just settle for the first fella that pays me attention anymore. that said i wont be jumping into another relationship till im sure im ready to
And I know more of what I want and dont want and what I will put up with and what I wont. And what I dont want is drama. Some things people might think are drama arent to me....i can be rather easy going.....but there are just some things I can live without.
pedro27: are we really over a past relationship? like i still have a tiny feeling for one ex, and i believe we ''all'' have a tiny feeling for some ex in the past...jmo
Don't include me..It's over it's over. No feelings.
pedro27: are we really over a past relationship? like i still have a tiny feeling for one ex, and i believe we ''all'' have a tiny feeling for some ex in the past...jmo
i care for all my exs as for the most part we ended on good terms bar one but it wouldnt get in the way of a new relationship
pedro27: are we really over a past relationship? like i still have a tiny feeling for one ex, and i believe we ''all'' have a tiny feeling for some ex in the past...jmo
No, he managed to kill that completely
It did show me something about meeting the right person, it was right for a long time and I would only start something again if it feels "right" with someone again.
But there's no going back for me as he became a different person and I refuse to live in the past anyway.
salanky: dunno if id call it baggage to be honest its more experience for future relationships. i learnt what i do and dont want from a relationship from my previous ones and also learnt i wont just settle for the first fella that pays me attention anymore. that said i wont be jumping into another relationship till im sure im ready to
jmo we carry some kinda baggage its part and parcel of entering a relationship , especial when we give it all of our effort
Phoenix: Don't include me..It's over it's over. No feelings.
When you fall out of of love with someone, there is no going back, it`s over !
Who can tell when summer turns to autumn And who can point the moment love grows cold Softly without pain the joy is over Though why it's gone we neither of us know
pedro27: jmo we carry some kinda baggage its part and parcel of entering a relationship , especial when we give it all of our effort
i just think baggage is the wrong word for it is all, it makes it sound like something wrong thats gonna cause problems in future relationships which isnt always the case
pedro27: jmo we carry some kinda baggage its part and parcel of entering a relationship , especial when we give it all of our effort
Yes, I think it is natural to carry some baggage, especially the older you get. We learn something from every relationship we have and that can be good or bad. If you don't think you are carrying baggage you are only fooling yourself. jmo
It did show me something about meeting the right person, it was right for a long time and I would only start something again if it feels "right" with someone again.
But there's no going back for me as he became a different person and I refuse to live in the past anyway.
There's only one way for me and that's forward.
that is possible, i did say ex's so i meant eglist one in the past, not particlaly the last one
royallee: Its the habits, patterns and things you did together as a couple that is hard to let go of when love dies................ adjusting to being alone again is the hard part.
How come you aren't watching the HIT FACTORY on ITV?
salanky: i just think baggage is the wrong word for it is all, it makes it sound like something wrong thats gonna cause problems in future relationships which isnt always the case
once biten twice shy kinda thing,, i think that means once hurt twice coutious, meaning your not the same as b4..jmo
LadyBlackAdder: Yes, I think it is natural to carry some baggage, especially the older you get. We learn something from every relationship we have and that can be good or bad. If you don't think you are carrying baggage you are only fooling yourself. jmo
I agree, it's just up to us how we deal with it, I wouldn't do it to myself and someone else to start dating if I'm not ready, it just would end up in a mess and I wouldn't want to to this to someone. But that's just me.
@ Pedro: Yes, we learn from all of our relationships, the last one is just the one that had the biggest impact on me.
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