I tend to go for older an older woman. Was wondering who all would do that.was with a neighbor once, new years, who was around 16 years older. Good times.
Well.... a 20 years difference,lovy dovy or not,if he is 30 and she is 50 is a big difference,but when you are 50 and she is 70 years old,the difference is huge,and becomes bigger when you are 60 and she is 80.-
Bluefish22: Of course! Mutual love, respect and humour, age is no barrier. Well, I don't think it would, even if 20 years, if you love their soul ???
chris27292729: Well.... a 20 years difference,lovy dovy or not,if he is 30 and she is 50 is a big difference,but when you are 50 and she is 70 years old,the difference is huge,and becomes bigger when you are 60 and she is 80.-
The love of my life was 30 years my senior. We only had 5 years together but we shared a love of literature, theatre, music and travel. He was witty, charming, compassionate and we laughed until we cried. I wish we had longer, but exposure to asbestos took him early.
No-one in my family or my friends who saw us interact even noticed the age difference. He was trekking Peru two years before he died. He was fit, intelligent and challenged me in every way.
It is very rare...but for us it definitely worked!
Boban1: No women on earth would tolerate my insanity for more than 24 hours
Haha! is there no similiarly nutty woman where you could both enjoy each others normality? Isn't that what its about, finding your other half ? Be positive young man
hoolet: The people that I know who are 10 years older than me, couldn´t keep up with me!!!!!!!!!!!
My darling man could, at 30 years my senior. If anything he was much fitter than men I dated my own age (on ALL levels). And no...you don't have to resort to 'celibate companionship' with a man who is vigorous, full of life, mentally challenging and the wittiest, most clever man I have ever met. He was definitely a one-off for me and I miss him dreadfully.
For some of us....the right person is the right person, regardless of age!
rockchick123Manchester, Lancashire, England UK42 posts
It all depends on the man or woman .... You cant dictate who you are attracted to and who you have natural chemistry with. Ive dated more men younger than me than older than me. Not a conscious decision, I just get asked on dates a lot more by younger men.
chris27292729: Well.... a 20 years difference,lovy dovy or not,if he is 30 and she is 50 is a big difference,but when you are 50 and she is 70 years old,the difference is huge,and becomes bigger when you are 60 and she is 80.-
this is "assuming" that her health is not as good as his??? What if she is in great shape, and he isn't?
The older I become, the younger the guys are who are attracted to me. (20 years my junior) They appreciate my experience & knowledge, & realize they can have a deeper, more mature, intellectual relationship than hanging out with a silly young giggle-box.
Aug 22, 2012 3:38 AM CST would you be with someone 10+ years older/younger?
SaltWaterWineAdelaide, South Australia Australia23 Posts
SaltWaterWineAdelaide, South Australia Australia23 posts
I probably would draw my line at 10 maybe 12 years younger. Having common interests or at least appreciations for each others tastes in a variety of different things. Core values would have to be the same & it goes without saying, open communication and a deep desire to know, love and nurture one another in every area of each others lives, not just those that are held in common.
Older - definitely yes. But younger - never. Someone who was 10 years younger than me would be 9 or 10 years old.... And I'm interested in older men anyway. :D lol
sp512: Older - definitely yes. But younger - never. Someone who was 10 years younger than me would be 9 or 10 years old.... And I'm interested in older men anyway. :D lol
bobo83: I tend to go for older an older woman. Was wondering who all would do that.was with a neighbor once, new years, who was around 16 years older. Good times.
bobo83: I tend to go for older an older woman. Was wondering who all would do that.was with a neighbor once, new years, who was around 16 years older. Good times.
Love n attraction doesn't recognize the time barriers ! Be free n enjoy the time with u'r partner !
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