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Aug 19, 2012 11:51 AM CSTdouble standards.....
deelucious
deeluciousdeeluciousJohannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa1 Threads 1 Polls 3 Posts

double standards.....(Vote Below)

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he is muslim and inlove with a christean
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7%
ashamed of showing off his christean gf
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86%
married musliting a christean women
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8%
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he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!
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Aug 19, 2012 11:55 AM CST double standards.....
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!


I don't think being a cheater has anything to do with religion, as much as it has to do with religion that she accomodates cheating and is not better than him.
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Aug 19, 2012 11:59 AM CST double standards.....
kennn
kennnkennnMedicine Hat, Alberta Canada25 Threads 5,299 Posts
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!


Obviously time to say goodbye, this is morally wrong and doesn't really matter about religions. JMO
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Aug 19, 2012 12:05 PM CST double standards.....
Boy67
Boy67Boy67Cyprus, Limassol Cyprus379 Posts
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!
Why did she go with a married man in the first place? He is allowed to have more than one but she is not allowed to have a married man if we follow religion.
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Aug 19, 2012 12:11 PM CST double standards.....
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!



It takes two to tango. I understood that a muslim may have up to 4 wives, as long as he can treat each and every one equally, so he´s not sinning according to his religion. The christian woman may take a different view point, but she should have been aware of this from the outset. The only reason you could call him a liar is if he did not tell her he was married.
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Aug 19, 2012 12:15 PM CST double standards.....
butterfly0123
butterfly0123butterfly0123Prague, Czech Republic3 Threads 447 Posts
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!


I'd say the woman was the fool for getting involved with a married man. Him being muslim has nothing to do with it. Eid is a family thing for many, so of course he'll spend it with his family, not his bit on the side of a girlfriend.
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Aug 19, 2012 12:16 PM CST double standards.....
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Stone them both!!!!! Bloody heathens!devil

laugh
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Aug 19, 2012 12:16 PM CST double standards.....
deelucious
deeluciousdeeluciousJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1 Threads 1 Polls 3 Posts
true! I think she should tell his wife, and then walk away! apparently he plans on marrying his Christean women, AFTER Eid! I'm having a problem that he keeps it secret with HIS wife. He SHOULD treat them equal, that's my understanding! But, clearly that's NOT the case, so that makes me think he is a liar!
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Aug 19, 2012 12:19 PM CST double standards.....
Entusiasmo
EntusiasmoEntusiasmoSomewhere, Murcia Spain100 Posts
deelucious: true! I think she should tell his wife, and then walk away! apparently he plans on marrying his Christean women, AFTER Eid! I'm having a problem that he keeps it secret with HIS wife. He SHOULD treat them equal, that's my understanding! But, clearly that's NOT the case, so that makes me think he is a liar!


The woman scorned creeping in here.
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Aug 19, 2012 12:19 PM CST double standards.....
butterfly0123
butterfly0123butterfly0123Prague, Czech Republic3 Threads 447 Posts
deelucious: true! I think she should tell his wife, and then walk away! apparently he plans on marrying his Christean women, AFTER Eid! I'm having a problem that he keeps it secret with HIS wife. He SHOULD treat them equal, that's my understanding! But, clearly that's NOT the case, so that makes me think he is a liar!


He can't marry a christian woman, unless she converts to islam.
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Aug 19, 2012 12:20 PM CST double standards.....
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!
Muslims on Site celebrate and share greetings wth All other Cs Community ,Tomorrow is Eid (Like Christmas) and it is Biggest Fiest in Islamic world,No one is Saying a Word about even Nobody Posted in my Eid thread i Posted about half an hours Ago ,Isnt it Double standard ? dunno
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Aug 19, 2012 12:21 PM CST double standards.....
butterfly0123: He can't marry a christian woman, unless she converts to islam.
Excuse me ,he can Marry a christian or jew wthout Convert wine
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Aug 19, 2012 12:22 PM CST double standards.....
butterfly0123
butterfly0123butterfly0123Prague, Czech Republic3 Threads 447 Posts
kidatheart: Stone them both!!!!! Bloody heathens!


laugh
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Aug 19, 2012 12:23 PM CST double standards.....
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
So, where are the double standards???
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Aug 19, 2012 12:31 PM CST double standards.....
Susanne1
Susanne1Susanne1Kreuzberg, Berlin Germany7 Threads 2 Polls 437 Posts
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!


OP, do you consider it a very christian deed to date a married man and then to destroy his family?

And as someone said before - this has NOTHING to do with religion. doh
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Aug 19, 2012 12:32 PM CST double standards.....
butterfly0123
butterfly0123butterfly0123Prague, Czech Republic3 Threads 447 Posts
Susanne1: OP, do you consider it a very christian deed to date a married man and then to destroy his family?

And as someone said before - this has NOTHING to do with religion.



thumbs up
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Aug 19, 2012 12:56 PM CST double standards.....
butterfly0123
butterfly0123butterfly0123Prague, Czech Republic3 Threads 447 Posts
butterfly0123: He can't marry a christian woman, unless she converts to islam.


Correction, he can marry a christian woman, but she would have to be chaste. Sleeping with a married man isn't what I'd call chaste, so I guess there'll be no marriage.
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Aug 19, 2012 1:45 PM CST double standards.....
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Well, how STUPID do you have to be to get involved with a married man??? Get some self respect for crap sake. And then complaining when the dude spends time with his family on a holiday??? Am I missing something?? confused
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Aug 19, 2012 1:50 PM CST double standards.....
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
venusenvy: Well, how STUPID do you have to be to get involved with a married man??? Get some self respect for crap sake. And then complaining when the dude spends time with his family on a holiday??? Am I missing something??


Yeah, a rock. laugh

We don't have a "stone" emote, so chuck this instead. coffee

One for him too, so there's no double standard.coffee

doh


bouquet
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Aug 19, 2012 1:51 PM CST double standards.....
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
kidatheart: Yeah, a rock.

We don't have a "stone" emote, so chuck this instead.

One for him too, so there's no double standard.



FFS eh roll eyes
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Aug 19, 2012 2:00 PM CST double standards.....
notforyou
notforyounotforyouDublin, Ireland7 Posts
She should just walk away and i would think teice anout confessing her affair to his wife.... simetimes these things can cause more trouble than they are worth better to make a clean break and learn from your mistakes...
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Aug 19, 2012 4:15 PM CST double standards.....
tigerlilly62
tigerlilly62tigerlilly62adelaide, South Australia Australia7 Posts
deelucious: true! I think she should tell his wife, and then walk away! apparently he plans on marrying his Christean women, AFTER Eid! I'm having a problem that he keeps it secret with HIS wife. He SHOULD treat them equal, that's my understanding! But, clearly that's NOT the case, so that makes me think he is a liar!



why would she want to share in the 1st place??? dont walk away.... RUN...
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Aug 19, 2012 11:24 PM CST double standards.....
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
Excuse me... Islam prefers monogamy.... married 4 wives is an exceptional condition... But if a moslem man wanna marry more than one wife, then the 2nd and the next marriage should be done with his former wife/wives permission... In this case, a married moslem man who get involved in 8 months relationship (not marriage) with another woman- regardless of her beliefs- is absolutely cheated both of his wife and his religion !!! It is forbidden !!!
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Aug 30, 2012 6:51 AM CST double standards.....
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!


a story as old as both religions - and again support the idea that men are dawgs and the woman needs to question her own self worth - this is a tragedy waiting to erupt.
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Aug 30, 2012 7:17 AM CST double standards.....
ali110: Muslims on Site celebrate and share greetings wth All other Cs Community ,Tomorrow is Eid (Like Christmas) and it is Biggest Fiest in Islamic world,No one is Saying a Word about even Nobody Posted in my Eid thread i Posted about half an hours Ago ,Isnt it Double standard ?


balloons many celebrations for the Eid festival - do we need an Eid emoticon! Moderator!
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Aug 31, 2012 2:52 AM CST double standards.....
Etlal
EtlalEtlalNRW, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany1 Threads 273 Posts
KNenagh Good explanation thumbs up

What on earth cheating has to do with religion? That could happen to anyone regardless with his religion but I think you answered that very clearly by saying the following “This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars”

Thanks for sharing your thoughts anyway.
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Aug 31, 2012 3:01 AM CST double standards.....
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Etlal: KNenagh Good explanation

What on earth cheating has to do with religion? That could happen to anyone regardless with his religion but I think you answered that very clearly by saying the following “This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars”
Thanks for sharing your thoughts anyway.


You seem to have a funny way of comprehending the written word, I didn't see where she wrote that quote. confused

KNenagh: I don't think being a cheater has anything to do with religion, as much as it has to do with religion that she accomodates cheating and is not better than him.


Maybe you should be stoned as well, as a heretic. grin
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Aug 31, 2012 3:11 AM CST double standards.....
Etlal
EtlalEtlalNRW, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany1 Threads 273 Posts
kidatheart

You misunderstand my comment. Only the good explanation for KNenagh and I admire her comment.
The quote for deelucious the one who create the thread.

Try to be easy and wash your mouth before you speak and ask for explanation before you reply
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Aug 31, 2012 3:32 AM CST double standards.....
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
Has anyone watched the reality show on TLC its about an American family, the husband Kody Brown, his four wives --and their 17 children!

And they are not "Muslims"





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Aug 31, 2012 3:39 AM CST double standards.....
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Etlal: kidatheart

You misunderstand my comment. Only the good explanation for KNenagh and I admire her comment.
The quote for deelucious the one who create the thread.

Try to be easy and wash your mouth before you speak and ask for explanation before you reply


I see that I did misunderstand your comment, from your explantion, and I do apologise for that. tip hat
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Aug 31, 2012 3:47 AM CST double standards.....
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Etlal: kidatheart

You misunderstand my comment. Only the good explanation for KNenagh and I admire her comment.
The quote for deelucious the one who create the thread.

Try to be easy and wash your mouth before you speak and ask for explanation before you reply


I was surprised myself about your reply to my quote. It's ok to correct yourself with a post to kitatheart comment but I think the way you did it is over the top. If you want a polite reply, reply correct and politely yourself.
tip hat
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