he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!
I don't think being a cheater has anything to do with religion, as much as it has to do with religion that she accomodates cheating and is not better than him.
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!
Obviously time to say goodbye, this is morally wrong and doesn't really matter about religions. JMO
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!
Why did she go with a married man in the first place? He is allowed to have more than one but she is not allowed to have a married man if we follow religion.
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!
It takes two to tango. I understood that a muslim may have up to 4 wives, as long as he can treat each and every one equally, so he´s not sinning according to his religion. The christian woman may take a different view point, but she should have been aware of this from the outset. The only reason you could call him a liar is if he did not tell her he was married.
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!
I'd say the woman was the fool for getting involved with a married man. Him being muslim has nothing to do with it. Eid is a family thing for many, so of course he'll spend it with his family, not his bit on the side of a girlfriend.
deeluciousOPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3 posts
true! I think she should tell his wife, and then walk away! apparently he plans on marrying his Christean women, AFTER Eid! I'm having a problem that he keeps it secret with HIS wife. He SHOULD treat them equal, that's my understanding! But, clearly that's NOT the case, so that makes me think he is a liar!
deelucious: true! I think she should tell his wife, and then walk away! apparently he plans on marrying his Christean women, AFTER Eid! I'm having a problem that he keeps it secret with HIS wife. He SHOULD treat them equal, that's my understanding! But, clearly that's NOT the case, so that makes me think he is a liar!
deelucious: true! I think she should tell his wife, and then walk away! apparently he plans on marrying his Christean women, AFTER Eid! I'm having a problem that he keeps it secret with HIS wife. He SHOULD treat them equal, that's my understanding! But, clearly that's NOT the case, so that makes me think he is a liar!
He can't marry a christian woman, unless she converts to islam.
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!
Muslims on Site celebrate and share greetings wth All other Cs Community ,Tomorrow is Eid (Like Christmas) and it is Biggest Fiest in Islamic world,No one is Saying a Word about even Nobody Posted in my Eid thread i Posted about half an hours Ago ,Isnt it Double standard ?
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!
OP, do you consider it a very christian deed to date a married man and then to destroy his family?
And as someone said before - this has NOTHING to do with religion.
butterfly0123: He can't marry a christian woman, unless she converts to islam.
Correction, he can marry a christian woman, but she would have to be chaste. Sleeping with a married man isn't what I'd call chaste, so I guess there'll be no marriage.
Well, how STUPID do you have to be to get involved with a married man??? Get some self respect for crap sake. And then complaining when the dude spends time with his family on a holiday??? Am I missing something??
venusenvy: Well, how STUPID do you have to be to get involved with a married man??? Get some self respect for crap sake. And then complaining when the dude spends time with his family on a holiday??? Am I missing something??
Yeah, a rock.
We don't have a "stone" emote, so chuck this instead.
She should just walk away and i would think teice anout confessing her affair to his wife.... simetimes these things can cause more trouble than they are worth better to make a clean break and learn from your mistakes...
tigerlilly62adelaide, South Australia Australia7 Posts
tigerlilly62adelaide, South Australia Australia7 posts
deelucious: true! I think she should tell his wife, and then walk away! apparently he plans on marrying his Christean women, AFTER Eid! I'm having a problem that he keeps it secret with HIS wife. He SHOULD treat them equal, that's my understanding! But, clearly that's NOT the case, so that makes me think he is a liar!
why would she want to share in the 1st place??? dont walk away.... RUN...
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
Excuse me... Islam prefers monogamy.... married 4 wives is an exceptional condition... But if a moslem man wanna marry more than one wife, then the 2nd and the next marriage should be done with his former wife/wives permission... In this case, a married moslem man who get involved in 8 months relationship (not marriage) with another woman- regardless of her beliefs- is absolutely cheated both of his wife and his religion !!! It is forbidden !!!
deelucious: he is married and Muslim, dating a christian women for 8 months. On Eid, he buys her an outfit, wishes her a Happy Eid, and doesn't see her for Eid lunch, instead spending time with his family. What should the Christean women do? Dump him after she tells his wife? This is making a fool of the religion and worse himself and the girlfriend. This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars! Any thoughts....I'm sure, out there!
a story as old as both religions - and again support the idea that men are dawgs and the woman needs to question her own self worth - this is a tragedy waiting to erupt.
ali110: Muslims on Site celebrate and share greetings wth All other Cs Community ,Tomorrow is Eid (Like Christmas) and it is Biggest Fiest in Islamic world,No one is Saying a Word about even Nobody Posted in my Eid thread i Posted about half an hours Ago ,Isnt it Double standard ?
many celebrations for the Eid festival - do we need an Eid emoticon! Moderator!
What on earth cheating has to do with religion? That could happen to anyone regardless with his religion but I think you answered that very clearly by saying the following “This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars”
What on earth cheating has to do with religion? That could happen to anyone regardless with his religion but I think you answered that very clearly by saying the following “This is where we as Christean say Muslims are big liars” Thanks for sharing your thoughts anyway.
You seem to have a funny way of comprehending the written word, I didn't see where she wrote that quote.
KNenagh: I don't think being a cheater has anything to do with religion, as much as it has to do with religion that she accomodates cheating and is not better than him.
You misunderstand my comment. Only the good explanation for KNenagh and I admire her comment. The quote for deelucious the one who create the thread.
Try to be easy and wash your mouth before you speak and ask for explanation before you reply
I was surprised myself about your reply to my quote. It's ok to correct yourself with a post to kitatheart comment but I think the way you did it is over the top. If you want a polite reply, reply correct and politely yourself.
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