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Feb 2, 2013 1:02 PM CSThow long does it take to fall INLOVE

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well folks could u love instantly, as in attraction and desire to the max leading being crazy about your lover,, well well well
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Feb 2, 2013 1:23 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
Anything from 1min (first glanceà or yrs..
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Feb 2, 2013 1:26 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
pedro27: well folks could u love instantly, as in attraction and desire to the max leading being crazy about your lover,, well well well


If attraction and desire arent there from the first glance them forget it IMO, love though thats a whole different story, takes time to get to know all about somebody and you cant be sure you love them till you do, warts and all.

I didnt vote, no time scale on poll long enough IMO
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Feb 2, 2013 1:35 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
Phoenix: Anything from 1min (first glanceà or yrs..




instant thumbs up
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Feb 2, 2013 1:38 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
Glatlol: If attraction and desire arent there from the first glance them forget it IMO, love though thats a whole different story, takes time to get to know all about somebody and you cant be sure you love them till you do, warts and all.

I didnt vote, no time scale on poll long enough IMO



did you ever hear of love at 1st sight, that means your destiny and fate are matching your stars in your partner excistence jmo
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Feb 2, 2013 1:42 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
pedro27: did you ever hear of love at 1st sight, that means your destiny and fate are matching your stars in your partner excistence jmo


I believe that is lust at first site not love.
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Feb 2, 2013 1:46 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
Lust-love both four lettered words starting with 'L'...
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Feb 2, 2013 1:46 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
Glatlol: I believe that is lust at first site not love.



how does love begin? it begins with all match cards, ive 4 ace's she has 4 ace's every thing is adding up
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Feb 2, 2013 1:49 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
our hearts yarn for love, sweet love
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Feb 2, 2013 1:50 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
This thing called love pedro isn't just about getting your leg over and humping like rabbits. It takes time, the initial feeling people have about starting a new 24/7 wears off after 18mths tops..Thats when this thing love makes or breaks couples (if its not there then you both will go your seperate ways)..
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Feb 2, 2013 1:52 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
pedro27: how does love begin? it begins with all match cards, ive 4 ace's she has 4 ace's every thing is adding up





confused
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Feb 2, 2013 1:56 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
love begins with something what is it?
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Feb 2, 2013 2:00 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
Green_Sleeves
Green_SleevesGreen_SleevesCarlow, Ireland174 Threads 37 Polls 4,812 Posts
pedro27: how does love begin? it begins with all match cards, ive 4 ace's she has 4 ace's every thing is adding up


Nice one! how many women are there in the world again? Few billion, right? dunno Do you believe in........luck? grin
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Feb 2, 2013 4:37 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
Attraction can be instant, love is a different thing altogether.

For me I could chat to someone for weeks or months but I will know more in the first 30 seconds of meeting them as to whether or not the attraction is actually there.

I havent been in love in a very long time. I have met those that I could have seen myself maybe falling in love with but they never got to that stage.
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Feb 2, 2013 4:39 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
in my experience for women it can take a few weeks..they fall head over heels like they have lost all sense or something..for men its a good year or a half to really feel somethinggrin
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Feb 3, 2013 1:46 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
facetowardsfront
facetowardsfrontfacetowardsfrontCork, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 2,921 Posts
pedro27: well folks could u love instantly, as in attraction and desire to the max leading being crazy about your lover,, well well well


Generally as soon as she sees an impressive bank balance or material signs she believes indicate the presence of substantial finances and assets.

For a man it depends on how stupid, desperate and frustrated you are. Love now, regret later and pay for the rest of your life.

That's all I really have to say.
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Feb 3, 2013 1:50 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
fifitrixibelle
fifitrixibellefifitrixibellegalway, Galway Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 4,629 Posts
ah ur such a romantic at heart face tongue
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Feb 3, 2013 2:00 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
facetowardsfront: Generally as soon as she sees an impressive bank balance or material signs she believes indicate the presence of substantial finances and assets.

For a man it depends on how stupid, desperate and frustrated you are. Love now, regret later and pay for the rest of your life.

That's all I really have to say.


I have to say for me a man with great wealth is actually a turn off rather than a turn on. I could not be in a relationship with such a imbalance. Tbh I would feel bought.

I shared a night with a man from Dubai 2 yrs ago (he was the friend of a friend) and for the next 18 months he wanted me to move there, to put me up in my own apartment until we had been together long enough for me to want to move in with him. He offered me holidays all over the world, for me to turn up at the airport with my passport and everything else, clothes, spending money, etc would be taken care of. My friends thought I was a fool to not go to Dubai at least once or to have gone with him to Venice after he was here for a conference last summer. But there was no way it would sit well with me at all. It'd be my idea of hell to feel so cheap that money would tempt me.
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Feb 3, 2013 2:43 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
facetowardsfront
facetowardsfrontfacetowardsfrontCork, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 2,921 Posts
Mariannette: I have to say for me a man with great wealth is actually a turn off rather than a turn on. I could not be in a relationship with such a imbalance. Tbh I would feel bought.

I shared a night with a man from Dubai 2 yrs ago (he was the friend of a friend) and for the next 18 months he wanted me to move there, to put me up in my own apartment until we had been together long enough for me to want to move in with him. He offered me holidays all over the world, for me to turn up at the airport with my passport and everything else, clothes, spending money, etc would be taken care of. My friends thought I was a fool to not go to Dubai at least once or to have gone with him to Venice after he was here for a conference last summer. But there was no way it would sit well with me at all. It'd be my idea of hell to feel so cheap that money would tempt me.


Yes, I undstand, you would feel cheap and tacky. But as you say your friends all thought you were a fool not to be a hoe for the dough. Unfortunately that's female hypergamy and it is what drives most women. You are the exception that proves the rule.
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Feb 3, 2013 3:16 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
exception...i dunno i know a lot of women who would do the same..

so i hang with the exceptions then..not the rule..

jesus there is a lot of us exceptions..

same as maria..offered a home both here n in sydney..(here in case i didnt like it there) and the trappings that went along with not having to pay forever more.

thats not a relationship..thats being bought...so i ended it.
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Feb 3, 2013 3:17 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
pedro...

it takes everyone a diff time to fall in love...

to be in love forever takes a a miracle, but its possible..

i hope u get ur miracle wink
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Feb 3, 2013 3:26 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
fifitheminx: exception...i dunno i know a lot of women who would do the same..

so i hang with the exceptions then..not the rule..

jesus there is a lot of us exceptions..

same as maria..offered a home both here n in sydney..(here in case i didnt like it there) and the trappings that went along with not having to pay forever more.

thats not a relationship..thats being bought...so i ended it.


Has the meaning of that word changed, does it mean majority now? lol

I dont know of anyone who's main focus when they meet someone is money.

I have dated a guy with more money than he knew what to do with also, after only 5 weeks he was declaring he loved me and planning our lives together. I could have stayed with him, neither myself or the children would have wanted for anything again. But money alone isnt enough, once he started the nonsense of love after such a short time I finished with him.
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Feb 3, 2013 3:46 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
Glatlol: Has the meaning of that word changed, does it mean majority now? lol

I dont know of anyone who's main focus when they meet someone is money.

I have dated a guy with more money than he knew what to do with also, after only 5 weeks he was declaring he loved me and planning our lives together. I could have stayed with him, neither myself or the children would have wanted for anything again. But money alone isnt enough, once he started the nonsense of love after such a short time I finished with him.


exactly what i thought..

think most people i know would run a mile being offered that...takes a long time to trust people..especially emotionally.

if they are so flippant with their lives n bank balance and hearts...i imagine they would be the same with yours..makes u run lol.
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Feb 3, 2013 4:05 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
the_whistler
the_whistlerthe_whistlercastlebar, Mayo Ireland22 Threads 1 Polls 618 Posts
love is a dangerous word, living in harmony is so much nicer...sad times for my family , my aunt died yesterday , 59yrs with her husband , 56yys married ..where did commitment and contentment all go wrong for most of our generation ..
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Feb 3, 2013 4:15 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
Serenity4two
Serenity4twoSerenity4twoDonegal, Ireland22 Threads 4,645 Posts
the_whistler: love is a dangerous word, living in harmony is so much nicer...sad times for my family , my aunt died yesterday , 59yrs with her husband , 56yys married ..where did commitment and contentment all go wrong for most of our generation ..


My sympathies to you and your family B on your sad loss

F sad flower
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Feb 3, 2013 4:19 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
lostinspace
lostinspacelostinspaceDrogheda, Louth Ireland54 Threads 833 Posts
fifitheminx: pedro...

it takes everyone a diff time to fall in love...

to be in love forever takes a a miracle, but its possible..

i hope u get ur miracle
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Feb 3, 2013 4:23 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
the_whistler
the_whistlerthe_whistlercastlebar, Mayo Ireland22 Threads 1 Polls 618 Posts
thanks f , they really were a match made in heaven...hug
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Feb 3, 2013 4:25 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
lostinspace
lostinspacelostinspaceDrogheda, Louth Ireland54 Threads 833 Posts
If you have 50-50 percent of chemistry and can can make each other laugh and can discuss most things without feeling uneasy with each then that's a great start jmo.
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Feb 3, 2013 4:27 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
sorry for your loss whistler..a long n happy life by the sounds of it..

sad flower
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Feb 3, 2013 4:29 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
the_whistler
the_whistlerthe_whistlercastlebar, Mayo Ireland22 Threads 1 Polls 618 Posts
fifitheminx: sorry for your loss whistler..a long n happy life by the sounds of it..
yes and in another 2 lifetimes they would still be together , but sadly aint the way it works, thanks fi handshake
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Feb 3, 2013 4:34 PM CST how long does it take to fall INLOVE
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
its only sad cos its so beautiful...life.
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