asha69: reading between the lines, it sounds like you have only been talking to him, why would anyone ask someone to marry them unless you have been together for a while
i think he would think you are desperate if i was a guy that would scare me off too.
sounds stalkerish to me sorry but jmo.
Agreed, I thought I was the only one who saw a desperate moo coming... a guy here even advised her to move on with her life!!! She should get help first!!!
Windydays: I asked someone I have been talking with if he would marry me. He replied well its kinda early and would like a longer courtship. So I said okay lets just continue but now he won't talk to me. He never did answer me about the proposal. What is he thinking. I can't read mines. You men are martians from mars so please help me to understand you.
Have you ever heard the saying 'marry in haste, repent at leisure'. Have you considered that if he believes you are that impetuous about such a major decision you may impetuous about other areas in your life. Certainly if somebody started talking about marriage without ever meeting me my first thought would be scammer and my second thought would be bunny boiler!
beautifulyou: To be honest, it's hard to believe this poll is serious lol, but, nonetheless...
With all due respect, he most certainly did answer you... twice. The first time he said he wanted a longer courtship and the second time he stopped speaking... I'd say that's a definite 'No' on the proposal.
What's he thinking? If you felt comfortable enough to propose to him it might be helpful to directly ask him? We have no clue what's in his head. However it seems his verbal and nonverbal communication says a lot.
It happens. I ask at least 10 women a week to marry me, all of which fall to the ground,clutching there stomachs,laughing violently. However, if nothing else,i am persistant,and i will continue my quest.
Windydays: I asked someone I have been talking with if he would marry me. He replied well its kinda early and would like a longer courtship. So I said okay lets just continue but now he won't talk to me. He never did answer me about the proposal. What is he thinking. I can't read mines. You men are martians from mars so please help me to understand you.
lol you have to be kidding. You asked someone you have been talking to to marry you? Flip am not surprised he ran.
Why you want to get married ???? Are you desperate????
Windydays: I asked someone I have been talking with if he would marry me. He replied well its kinda early and would like a longer courtship. So I said okay lets just continue but now he won't talk to me. He never did answer me about the proposal. What is he thinking. I can't read mines. You men are martians from mars so please help me to understand you.
Windydays: I asked someone I have been talking with if he would marry me. He replied well its kinda early and would like a longer courtship. So I said okay lets just continue but now he won't talk to me. He never did answer me about the proposal. What is he thinking. I can't read mines. You men are martians from mars so please help me to understand you.
Don’t you want to get to know your potential husband first? I mean meet him in person first.
No man or a woman for that matter will marry a stranger!
I just hope it's not a virtual (on line) proposal... BS !!!! wow !!! i can't believe some men are just pigs.. a marriage proposal not answered ... phew yuk ... run run run away !!!!!
santi83: Go get a hot guy and show him what he's missing
Whaddaya mean, like on webcam?
lovemedofr: I just hope it's not a virtual (on line) proposal... BS !!!! wow !!! i can't believe some men are just pigs.. a marriage proposal not answered ... phew yuk ... run run run away !!!!!
Hope you find Mr right soon !!!!
Yes, I think she proposed to him online, and yes, it BS, but I really don;t take the thread seriously. Yet, I fail to see how the man is a pig here, just because he didn't answer her ridiculous question.
I do however, see your mentality on men in general though, thanks for showing it to the world.
that is very big decision for man , and not all man brave and make comitmmen for merried , never ask him , before you sure he ready for that and want the same thing
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Key questions indeed. Before a year I'd run for the hills.