Should your partner be your best friend? (37)

Aug 18, 2013 12:22 AM CST Should your partner be your best friend?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
shubhrank: yeah some men thinks like me ...
lolz


It's better to be safe, than sorry.thumbs up
Aug 18, 2013 12:16 PM CST Should your partner be your best friend?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
I want to share my life with someone and that incl. thoughts and being able to talk to my partner about everything that is of importance to me.

However, I don't think I want my partner to be my "everything", having friends, family and my own life is important to me - and him having his.
Aug 18, 2013 11:25 PM CST Should your partner be your best friend?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
KNenagh: I want to share my life with someone and that incl. thoughts and being able to talk to my partner about everything that is of importance to me.

However, I don't think I want my partner to be my "everything", having friends, family and my own life is important to me - and him having his.


Yes, it's important to have "me" time and I don't want someone to be attached at the hips with me.

giggle
Aug 18, 2013 11:59 PM CST Should your partner be your best friend?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
KNenagh: I want to share my life with someone and that incl. thoughts and being able to talk to my partner about everything that is of importance to me.

However, I don't think I want my partner to be my "everything", having friends, family and my own life is important to me - and him having his.


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Aug 19, 2013 2:36 AM CST Should your partner be your best friend?
After reading most comments on here...has helped me.....to decide...how to shape my life....blues .....first I must find a woman...who works for a marridge.quidence.....make her my best friend....sit down each day and talk about our problems...that has not happened......how can we go wrong....???????grin
Aug 19, 2013 9:01 AM CST Should your partner be your best friend?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
lalasierra: Or should it be someone outside the relationship?

OR

Does it matter?
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Aug 19, 2013 9:57 AM CST Should your partner be your best friend?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
I find that the greatest of lovers cannot be the best of friends. The tranquility of friendship clashes with the volatility of passionate love. A real lover never is nor can be a friend. While you agree, you are lovers; and when it is over, anything but friends ~ Lord Byron

Of course, this ultimately depends on what you define a partner to be - a companion or a love.
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