radiogaga123456: Friends with benefits, like to know your views
This thread brings up a recent reality. My last Girlfriend had friends with benefits, she thought is was totally the norm. She was 55 at the time, and travelled the world constantly. As a male, you have to have a high tolerance and understanding or you would not be able to cope. Being humble really helps.
pedalguy59: This thread brings up a recent reality. My last Girlfriend had friends with benefits, she thought is was totally the norm. She was 55 at the time, and travelled the world constantly. As a male, you have to have a high tolerance and understanding or you would not be able to cope. Being humble really helps.
Normaly men or women only have (a) friend(s) with benefits when they are single. This situation is new to me..
I had this problem when I met my current partner, she had this "special friend" who never I have met him, she did keep mentioning him, until one day I fed up of this, and I asked her to split up.. ..she said it was only a good friend and that's it..but nowadays I don't know what to think, sometimes I think they still keep in touch.. in other way or another..
freemind63: But this is not about sharing realy.... This is about singles who have a friend that is just a bit more than just a normal friend.
Maybe I misunderstood ............if it's that type of "friendship" I don't have the emotional make-up to have "a little more than a normal friend" without caring or loving. So again; to each their own.
mikemo68: I had this problem when I met my current partner, she had this "special friend" who never I have met him, she did keep mentioning him, until one day I fed up of this, and I asked her to split up.. ..she said it was only a good friend and that's it..but nowadays I don't know what to think, sometimes I think they still keep in touch.. in other way or another..
Yeah... some of these 'friends' tend to be snakes in the grass. So when she has a row with you, she'll run to him for consolation. Then he'll make his move. Never did like them type of snakes... and never liked them women who collected these Mangina friends either.
LoriJames20: Maybe I misunderstood ............if it's that type of "friendship" I don't have the emotional make-up to have "a little more than a normal friend" without caring or loving. So again; to each their own.
So true, without caring or loving there is no intimacy, and without intimacy it wouldn't be my thing either.
I had such a friend, and we truly cared.
Still, you are absolutely right, to each their own.
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