If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them?? ( Archived) (20)

Oct 25, 2013 3:35 PM CSTIf your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
radiogaga123456
radiogaga123456radiogaga123456Dublin, Ireland3 Threads 3 Polls 1 Posts

If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??(Vote Below)

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yes
28
57%
No
11
22%
Wait and see if they find out themselfs
9
18%
would tell them, but not say if i dated them.
1
2%
Total Votes
49
what would you do????
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Oct 25, 2013 3:40 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
radiogaga123456: what would you do????
So if me mate was with a young wan, and then I saw her here looking for a man, would I tell him? lol Of course I would. I'd send him a link. That's what a real friend would do. Watch his back.
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Oct 25, 2013 3:41 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
Catibrae
CatibraeCatibraeHULL, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK3 Threads 1,827 Posts
radiogaga123456: what would you do????
If they found out that I was on here as well, that could cause problems...So yes I would tell them, but nicely....bouquet
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Oct 25, 2013 4:13 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
tinyfangs
tinyfangstinyfangsunder a rock, Leitrim Ireland26 Threads 4 Polls 1,034 Posts
Of course I would, and I'd expect to get the reply 'oh I know, he/she told me he/she used the site in the past to find someone'.

People who cheat and lie are ill news. I don't want dealings with cheaters and liars, and neither would I want anyone to have dealings with them, so I'd make sure the truth is told, hoping my friend would know it already and that is out in the open and as it should be ^^
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Oct 25, 2013 4:19 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
I would tell my friend, after all I would like to know and that is what friends do. Now who is it detective
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Oct 25, 2013 4:34 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
radiogaga123456: what would you do????


It depends on how close I was to this friend.
If by friend you mean someone from real life that you chat to and confide in on a regular basis then I guess any normal person would tell them.
If it was a friend, as in someone from the site that you don't really know other than having a laugh on the forums and the odd email, then no I don't think they would need to be told.



It also depends on what the person is like that is dating the friend and on the site..... but that is a whole other debate! and I don't want to bore you all grin
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Oct 25, 2013 4:50 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
radiogaga123456: what would you do????


Tell them what exactly? That you know the someone or the someone is on here? Or that you have dated the someone yourself? Why wouldn't you? Unless the issue is that you are on here.
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Oct 25, 2013 4:52 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
radiogaga123456: what would you do????


A friend i would tell....an acquaintance probably not
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Oct 25, 2013 4:57 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
if they are my friend..they would know who i dated already dunno
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Oct 25, 2013 4:59 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
tinyfangs
tinyfangstinyfangsunder a rock, Leitrim Ireland26 Threads 4 Polls 1,034 Posts
Why not acquaintance?
I know there is this whole social thing going on, with people saying always just mind your own business, but that culture has also led to people looking away when strangers get abused in the public. I go more by what I would lik someone to do in regards to me, and I'd wish to be told. No one wishes to run into open knifes, and liars and cheaters are like open knifes, they can cut into others and cause great wounds.
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Oct 25, 2013 5:01 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
unlaoised: A friend i would tell....an acquaintance probably not


snap grin
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Oct 25, 2013 5:07 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
tinyfangs: Why not acquaintance?
I know there is this whole social thing going on, with people saying always just mind your own business, but that culture has also led to people looking away when strangers get abused in the public. I go more by what I would lik someone to do in regards to me, and I'd wish to be told. No one wishes to run into open knifes, and liars and cheaters are like open knifes, they can cut into others and cause great wounds.


I have found that sometimes people do not want to know the truth!
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Oct 25, 2013 5:19 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
tinyfangs: Well, they can always IGNORE the truth after knowing it?


no I don't agree
once it is out there it cannot be taken back nor ignored

sometimes I feel people tell the truth for their own means, it is almost a smugness....they know it will hurt you and almost enjoy telling you

I am very careful when asked to tell the truth.....and a lot of the time, rather than lie, I chose not to say anything

a wise friend of mine calls it "if you name it you claim it"
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Oct 25, 2013 5:31 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
tinyfangs
tinyfangstinyfangsunder a rock, Leitrim Ireland26 Threads 4 Polls 1,034 Posts
blah, can't spell, shan't even try mumbling
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Oct 25, 2013 5:32 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
tinyfangs: I agree and I don't agree. I personally don't like to hurt others, and I will handle a truth carefully that I believe could hurt, but lies build rotten foundations. I don't like the lying and conveniece culture of today, I find it hard to deal with. If people would not lie so much, I think we'd have a better world, and one could claim in a case like we are discussing here - that one maybe secreltly could enjoy to see someone run into an open knife. I think there are people who do, same as they like to watch vids of people's mishaps. I don't like to see that, and a truth mat can hurt, but lies on the ling run tend to always hurt more, fro what I have observed...


it really does depend and this is how I see it for me personally

if I want the truth about something I ask someone I know that will give it me. I am a "prefer to know" sort of person if it is about myself

if a close friend/family (ie someone I love and care about) wants the truth from me, I would weigh up how much it might hurt them and what the repercussions might be before I blast them with the truth

does that make sense?
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Oct 25, 2013 8:09 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
I agree.thumbs up hug wave
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Oct 25, 2013 8:28 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
radiogaga123456: what would you do????
love is a battlefield every man and woman for himself or herself ,personally if people are up to no good they usually get caught out in time ,karma or carmel or what ever you call it wine
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Oct 26, 2013 3:56 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
tinyfangs
tinyfangstinyfangsunder a rock, Leitrim Ireland26 Threads 4 Polls 1,034 Posts
Yeah I know I think too much, tis a curse. Would have prefered the 100 years sleep thing instead but they don't use curses twice mumbling
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Oct 26, 2013 4:25 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
fifitrixibelle: So did you ever lie or two time anyone?
Nope. Don't have a huge amount of relationships under my belt anyways. laugh
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Oct 26, 2013 5:48 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
facetowardsfront
facetowardsfrontfacetowardsfrontCork, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 2,921 Posts
fifitrixibelle: So did you ever lie or two time anyone?


In my younger years fifi, I often had a few on the go at the same time. Well, what's a young man to do? There were often so many 'bulling heifers' and you know that herd won't cull itself.laugh
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Oct 26, 2013 9:18 PM CST If your friend told you she/he was dating someone you know from here..would you tell them??
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
facetowardsfront: In my younger years fifi, I often had a few on the go at the same time. Well, what's a young man to do? There were often so many 'bulling heifers' and you know that herd won't cull itself.


Thus going by this post, one has become a good boy grin
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