May 3, 2014 2:20 PM CST The secret of succes on a site like CS is:
SinkingSwimmerLiverpool, Merseyside, England UK35 Posts
SinkingSwimmerLiverpool, Merseyside, England UK35 posts
unlaoised: You know what, we all have our stories, good and bad and most of us have learnt from them but the baggage gets very heavy after awhile, and can seriously hamper possible future relationships. Unless you're done with them.
I totally agree with that, very wise words. Its putting it into practice though, very difficult. So many damaged people with so many issues and perverts on here who ruin it for guys like me who are only trying to make friends and chat. Women start thinking; is he like the jerk off who messaged me before and asked me what position i do it in??
very hard to gain trust on a date site- specially a free one.
SinkingSwimmer: Im really only testing the waters with the forums, so will no doubt find out. Im only referring to the date side- well if you could call it that. More like a glorified chat room.
A very good way of "getting a feel" for someone too
2girlsnocup: Sheets of cardboard? I had this all lined up to use as well Dodger caught before a live co-op video blog, hence the look on her face when the others start chatting.
Priceless! That's exactly how I feel on CS sometimes
2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK2,621 posts
unlaoised: No I haven't but good advice if I were ever to go there
Bugga
The best thing to do is pretend that nothing was going on. A bit awkward if you're partially undressed, but, hey, I'm sure people have seen flesh before.
The best thing to do is pretend that nothing was going on. A bit awkward if you're partially undressed, but, hey, I'm sure people have seen flesh before.
@pretending nothing's going on. Yea but it depends what bits are uncovered!
Be yourself, definitely. It cuts down on the amount of explaining you have to do later. And don't try to impress the other person. They'll expect you to maintain the standard for the rest of your life.
A present? You bought her a present???? No no no no no no!!! You're making me look bad.
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