A good heart these days is hard to find? True or false. Is looks more important? etc (112)
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A good heart is far more important than looks.
When someone possesses the ability to love unconditionally/freely/without reservation, and if they also have empathy, loyalty & grace in their heart, they will always be beautiful.
Having outer beauty, but a heart filled with either one or more of the following; hatred, spite, jealousy, vindictiveness, etc....takes away from the outer beauty, and can make one seem like an empty shell.
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If its easy to find good heart people then Why divorce rate is increasing?
LadyLori: A good heart is far more important than looks.
When someone possesses the ability to love unconditionally/freely/without reservation, and if they also have empathy, loyalty & grace in their heart, they will always be beautiful.
Having outer beauty, but a heart filled with either one or more of the following; hatred, spite, jealousy, vindictiveness, etc....takes away from the outer beauty, and can make one seem like an empty shell.
When someone possesses the ability to love unconditionally/freely/without reservation, and if they also have empathy, loyalty & grace in their heart, they will always be beautiful.
Having outer beauty, but a heart filled with either one or more of the following; hatred, spite, jealousy, vindictiveness, etc....takes away from the outer beauty, and can make one seem like an empty shell.
Yes good heart is far more important than looks but who cares now a days. people first watch someone if they find him/her attractive then they talk.
if you dont find your man/woman attractive you will never go to have relationship with him/her but you offer friendship only after knowing him/her well ( he/she will have to pass few exams conducted by you )lolz. In relationship everybody wants to be satisfied because its a matter of lifetime.
guysimple: Yes good heart is far more important than looks but who cares now a days. people first watch someone if they find him/her attractive then they talk.
if you dont find your man/woman attractive you will never go to have relationship with him/her but you offer friendship only after knowing him/her well ( he/she will have to pass few exams conducted by you )lolz. In relationship everybody wants to be satisfied because its a matter of lifetime.
if you dont find your man/woman attractive you will never go to have relationship with him/her but you offer friendship only after knowing him/her well ( he/she will have to pass few exams conducted by you )lolz. In relationship everybody wants to be satisfied because its a matter of lifetime.
I do not agree with you.
It is just a matter how much one person is ready to open in front of other, and how much the other person is ready to listen and understand.
guysimple: Yes good heart is far more important than looks but who cares now a days. people first watch someone if they find him/her attractive then they talk.
if you dont find your man/woman attractive you will never go to have relationship with him/her but you offer friendship only after knowing him/her well ( he/she will have to pass few exams conducted by you )lolz. In relationship everybody wants to be satisfied because its a matter of lifetime.
if you dont find your man/woman attractive you will never go to have relationship with him/her but you offer friendship only after knowing him/her well ( he/she will have to pass few exams conducted by you )lolz. In relationship everybody wants to be satisfied because its a matter of lifetime.
I care very much for a man with a kind heart....if I'm already attracted to him in other ways, the changes aging would bring isn't going to matter-the attraction will still be there
Lannna23: I do not agree with you.
It is just a matter how much one person is ready to open in front of other, and how much the other person is ready to listen and understand.
It is just a matter how much one person is ready to open in front of other, and how much the other person is ready to listen and understand.
Absolutely!
LadyLori: Absolutely!
Hi Lannna
LadyLori: Hi Lannna
Hi Lori
Lannna23: I do not agree with you.
It is just a matter how much one person is ready to open in front of other, and how much the other person is ready to listen and understand.
It is just a matter how much one person is ready to open in front of other, and how much the other person is ready to listen and understand.
may be you are different from others but most of the people now do what i wrote above
LadyLori: I care very much for a man with a kind heart....if I'm already attracted to him in other ways, the changes aging would bring isn't going to matter-the attraction will still be there
Good to know that
guysimple: may be you are different from others but most of the people now do what i wrote above
It is true - the very first thing that we will notice on someone is how that person looks like. But, imagine this: there are two men. One has a great sense of humor, nice soul, listening very carefully every single word that you have said, ....... you feel as a special in his company. But, he is a little shorter, maybe a little overweight, doesn't have black hair, as I like, he is blond......
And then second guy, he is tall, has a black hair.....but he is center of his own world, he doesn't care about anyone else but himself. He is pretending as a good listener, just to get you in his bedroom. he doesn't know a difference between country and state. You think that I might consider him as a "good heart person" ....... Seriously?!
Do you understand my point now
LadyLori: I care very much for a man with a kind heart....if I'm already attracted to him in other ways, the changes aging would bring isn't going to matter-the attraction will still be there
Please dont mind. I am curious to know its personal question and i must not ask that but I really interested to know. You profile says you are single this time. why is so if you care much about good heart. Did not you care in past about what u care now?
please dont take it in another way just for knowledge
Lannna23: It is true - the very first thing that we will notice on someone is how that person looks like. But, imagine this: there are two men. One has a great sense of humor, nice soul, listening very carefully every single word that you have said, ....... you feel as a special in his company. But, he is a little shorter, maybe a little overweight, doesn't have black hair, as I like, he is blond......
And then second guy, he is tall, has a black hair.....but he is center of his own world, he doesn't care about anyone else but himself. He is pretending as a good listener, just to get you in his bedroom. he doesn't know a difference between country and state. You think that I might consider him as a "good heart person" ....... Seriously?! ]
Yes i understand your point but good looking guy r confident and they know well how to impress ladies and another who is not good looking feel uncomfortable and cant tell much in real meeting if girl is very pretty.
Do you understand my point now
And then second guy, he is tall, has a black hair.....but he is center of his own world, he doesn't care about anyone else but himself. He is pretending as a good listener, just to get you in his bedroom. he doesn't know a difference between country and state. You think that I might consider him as a "good heart person" ....... Seriously?! ]
Yes i understand your point but good looking guy r confident and they know well how to impress ladies and another who is not good looking feel uncomfortable and cant tell much in real meeting if girl is very pretty.
Do you understand my point now
That impression could last till he opens his mouth, after that is just a "self confident bag of muscles"
Lannna23: That impression could last till he opens his mouth, after that is just a "self confident bag of muscles"
true
guysimple: true
I am glad that you've got my point
Lannna23: I am glad that you've got my point
I know what r u saying but what we see around us . My aunty used to say "girl should be good looking and guy should have good career". looks factor doesn't apply much on men. it apply on women.
Dont you think pretty girls get more attention than ugly one. their bfs suffer and do lot to make his gf happy or save relationship.
guysimple: I know what r u saying but what we see around us . My aunty used to say "girl should be good looking and guy should have good career". looks factor doesn't apply much on men. it apply on women.
Dont you think pretty girls get more attention than ugly one. their bfs suffer and do lot to make his gf happy or save relationship.
Dont you think pretty girls get more attention than ugly one. their bfs suffer and do lot to make his gf happy or save relationship.
That is normal! Even I am going to look at some really pretty girl. I do not have that much of self confidence, and I do not think about my self as a "pretty", but I know, that after two or three dates, meetings, conversation (if I think that person is right for me) ..... he is going to be mine! (I don't like "bag of muscles - to be clear with that)
And if he thinks that I am right person for him, I am going to become the most beautiful one, by his opinion, on the world.
Lannna23: That is normal! Even I am going to look at some really pretty girl. I do not have that much of self confidence, and I do not think about my self as a "pretty", but I know, that after two or three dates, meetings, conversation (if I think that person is right for me) ..... he is going to be mine! (I don't like "bag of muscles - to be clear with that)
And if he thinks that I am right person for him, I am going to become the most beautiful one, by his opinion, on the world.
And if he thinks that I am right person for him, I am going to become the most beautiful one, by his opinion, on the world.
I would like to tell you one story. I know a lady she is near 50 yr old. She is used by 6 guys. All played with her emotions and money. She has a golden heart she is my online friend. I know her for 10 years and her last two relationship were going pretty good in starting but you know cheaters always know how to impress. they used her and left her. I see everywhere break up/link up. what is happening now in this world. Divorce rate are increasing. everybody wants happy married life but why this is happening. If you ask someone " will you cheat" they will reply No. I am sure its not easy now to find a person with good heart. To know person well we need enough patience and time more than 3-4 dates.
some good people change with time. ( because the rule" Life is the name of change").
Now a days people ( men and women) both know their rights but forget duties/obligations toward family and partner.
guysimple: I would like to tell you one story. I know a lady she is near 50 yr old. She is used by 6 guys. All played with her emotions and money. She has a golden heart she is my online friend. I know her for 10 years and her last two relationship were going pretty good in starting but you know cheaters always know how to impress. they used her and left her. I see everywhere break up/link up. what is happening now in this world. Divorce rate are increasing. everybody wants happy married life but why this is happening. If you ask someone " will you cheat" they will reply No. I am sure its not easy now to find a person with good heart. To know person well we need enough patience and time more than 3-4 dates.
some good people change with time. ( because the rule" Life is the name of change").
Now a days people ( men and women) both know their rights but forget duties/obligations toward family and partner.
some good people change with time. ( because the rule" Life is the name of change").
Now a days people ( men and women) both know their rights but forget duties/obligations toward family and partner.
Do not take me wrong, but : does she really have a good heart or she was desperately looking for relationship?! I am not going to judge on her, because I don't know what tomorrow will bring to me, but you have to be really careful, not only here, it is same in real life too. But, I still believe in soul mate, I believe in good heart, I believe in humanity, I believe in "as much as you give, the more you will get back",........even if that will cost me one more disappointment. I am not going to change my point of view! One day, someone will recognize all that
Lannna23: Do not take me wrong, but : does she really have a good heart or she was desperately looking for relationship?! I am not going to judge on her, because I don't know what tomorrow will bring to me, but you have to be really careful, not only here, it is same in real life too. But, I still believe in soul mate, I believe in good heart, I believe in humanity, I believe in "as much as you give, the more you will get back",........even if that will cost me one more disappointment. I am not going to change my point of view! One day, someone will recognize all that
Its alright we are discussing so you can ask. yes she is great lady now a days she do social work like donate money in orphanage and other social groups. she were never desperate. i told she is 50 yr old. too much time for 6 guys if you surrounded by cheaters. Last guy used her to get Visa. See what kind of guy he is. I feel shame about such man.
I am not telling you to change your point of view. I just wanted to tell its not easy to get one good person who can keep his promise. Time has changed and so people have changed. We are living in fast and furious world where we dont get much time.
I are experienced than me I hope you know better.
This site contains both cheaters and those were cheated by others thus they are single and still looking in old age and if post something everybody give very nice and decent comments. If everywhere is nice people where are bad!!!...lolzz
There are certain characteristics I like in a man and if someone doesn't have these, I am not interested. 
I do find it is hard to find a potential partner with a good heart. Not everyone is looking for the same.
I do find it is hard to find a potential partner with a good heart. Not everyone is looking for the same.
joey987: Without a doubt a good heart is more important than looks, for me anyway. A very attractive person with a mean heart does not look so attractive for very long.
So true!
Lannna23: It is true - the very first thing that we will notice on someone is how that person looks like. But, imagine this: there are two men. One has a great sense of humor, nice soul, listening very carefully every single word that you have said, ....... you feel as a special in his company. But, he is a little shorter, maybe a little overweight, doesn't have black hair, as I like, he is blond......
And then second guy, he is tall, has a black hair.....but he is center of his own world, he doesn't care about anyone else but himself. He is pretending as a good listener, just to get you in his bedroom. he doesn't know a difference between country and state. You think that I might consider him as a "good heart person" ....... Seriously?!
Do you understand my point now
its a shame ,that more people don't think like you L....a good comment....And then second guy, he is tall, has a black hair.....but he is center of his own world, he doesn't care about anyone else but himself. He is pretending as a good listener, just to get you in his bedroom. he doesn't know a difference between country and state. You think that I might consider him as a "good heart person" ....... Seriously?!
Do you understand my point now
truheart1941: its a shame ,that more people don't think like you L....a good comment....
I know someone with a true heart, just follow my eyes ^^^^
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