Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ? (44)

Jul 14, 2014 7:57 PM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
sirLarryIII: So its offical we are to joined in CS wedlock.I want a chocolate fountain at the reception and a bouncy castle in the bridal suite


All I want is a lifetime supply of Cork's very own little blue pill for you, my love heart wings
Jul 14, 2014 8:00 PM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
sirLarryIII
sirLarryIIIsirLarryIIIClump, Kildare Ireland72 Threads 9 Polls 2,016 Posts
mollybaby: All I want is a lifetime supply of Cork's very own little blue pill for you, my love


You know i dont do drugsscold A makeshift splint will do just finethumbs up
Jul 14, 2014 8:05 PM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
Tormented
TormentedTormenteddublin, Louth Ireland2 Threads 228 Posts
equiya: no, not necessarily


Yeah,your right.

Slip of the tonguecrying
Jul 18, 2014 8:27 AM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
otterley
otterleyotterleybrisbane, Queensland Australia2 Threads 9 Posts
if i were to be married i'd encourage my fiance NOT to abandon her surname. definitely not make a double barrelled name either.
Jul 22, 2014 6:18 PM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
Echo_17
Echo_17Echo_17Saint Vicent, Buenos Aires Argentina40 Posts
Why so many names?

They always end up calling you by a nickname anyway.

Why complicate urselves by adding more names ?

Then you end up with names like :

Patrick James Robert Smith- Van Beethoven.

barf

Catherine Ingrid Cardozos-González.

barf



Think of your children and the amount of ink they'll waste writing their names.

Why expose them to the ridicule?

Keep your name the way it is.
Jul 22, 2014 6:24 PM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Echo_17: Why so many names?

They always end up calling you by a nickname anyway.

Why complicate urselves by adding more names ?

Then you end up with names like :

Patrick James Robert Smith- Van Beethoven.
Catherine Ingrid Cardozos-González.Think of your children and the amount of ink they'll waste writing their names.

Why expose them to the ridicule?

Keep your name the way it is.



You go girl!! yay
Jul 22, 2014 6:38 PM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
Echo_17: Why so many names?

They always end up calling you by a nickname anyway.

Why complicate urselves by adding more names ?

Then you end up with names like :

Patrick James Robert Smith- Van Beethoven.
Catherine Ingrid Cardozos-González.Think of your children and the amount of ink they'll waste writing their names.

Why expose them to the ridicule?

Keep your name the way it is.
so true....professor yours faithfully.....ima.vanker
Jul 22, 2014 6:42 PM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
truheart1941: so true.... yours faithfully.....ima.vanker


I'm your wife: Urah Vanker
Jul 22, 2014 6:44 PM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
mollybaby: I'm your wife: Urah Vanker
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing laugh ..your a girl...luv it.laugh
Jul 22, 2014 6:51 PM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
truheart1941: ..your a girl...luv it.


wink laugh
Jul 22, 2014 6:54 PM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
........@ nite Molly....your a great sport.....hug hug bless yer......bouquet
Jul 22, 2014 7:01 PM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
truheart1941: ........@ nite Molly....your a great sport..... bless yer......


Good night Tru hug
Jul 22, 2014 7:16 PM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
AZBlueLady
AZBlueLadyAZBlueLadyTucson, Arizona USA1 Posts
Several of my married friends still use their former last name. There are much more important issues to work out to make a marriage a success than this.
Jul 23, 2014 7:43 AM CST Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
MrRick77: Is the marriage doomed to fail if no one takes the others last name ?


I wouldn't like it. Not doing so suggests an individualistic and self-interested mentality which seeks to defy commitment and undermine the concept of family which is supposed to be the work of a team. And there's no "I" in teamwork.

Of course, taking on the new name doesn't mean that you're not a selfish moral blank, but you are probably less likely to be one.
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