When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone? ( Archived) (31)

Feb 12, 2015 12:12 PM CSTWhen is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts

When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?(Vote Below)

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Never
11
26%
My ex
4
9%
My girl/Boy friend
5
12%
Not for along time, Can't remember when
20
47%
All else
3
7%
Total Votes
43
Some of us had a love that lasted and is still lasting a lifetime.

Some of us never had love, ever.

Others think love is sex.

All I know is that a mother's love last forever, and with no string attached.

With some love it's an exchange. I love u so u owe me.

How do u love?

Unconditionally or selfishly. U r the person to be satisfied.
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Feb 13, 2015 4:48 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
MotherGrundy
MotherGrundyMotherGrundyReading, Berkshire, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 18 Posts
Have u reached the top of the polling list yet or will u still b dominating this section with ur anguished questions for a while?

I thought I had better help u out on this one with a comment to get it going

I dont look for love I prefer to live in the past and poke people with sticks
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Feb 13, 2015 5:10 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Why the hell would I choose to be with someone if all that wasn't a given? confused
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Feb 13, 2015 9:28 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
Cland876
Cland876Cland876chico, California USA1 Posts
well it depend on what you are expecting to get from the person that is whereby he or she changes on the way
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Feb 13, 2015 9:34 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
To love someone is to love someone eternally whether your with that person or not.
I've loved several women in my life and they will always have a special place in my heart.
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Feb 13, 2015 9:35 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
Lonely1: To make this more reasonable, a few points:

^ A mother's love should last forever, but alas, we can find examples in real life that shows otherwise.

^ Can we have a timeline to work with, other than a mothers love? If someone thinks someone else loves them so much that they fall in love and marry them, only to divorce later, were they ever truly in love mentally, emotionally and physically? or was it just infatuation and make believe?


How long r u single now. Then u will know the answer urself not so?
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Feb 13, 2015 9:39 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
Cland876: well it depend on what you are expecting to get from the person that is whereby he or she changes on the way


Do I understand this comment correct?

Do u expect the opposite person to change?
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Mar 3, 2015 10:58 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
I think the question I should ask is:- Have u ever been loved Mentally, Emotionally & Physically by someone?

Has anyone ever accepted u as u r, no changes required?

I have never!!!

Have u?
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Mar 3, 2015 11:30 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
KNenagh: Yes, every time.

Have you accepted someone as he is?
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Mar 3, 2015 12:14 PM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
KNenagh: Yes, every time.

Have accepted someone as he is?


Let me c if I understand this correct:-

Yes, every time the men have accepted u as u r

and

Yes, U have accepted them as they r.

Really?????
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Mar 3, 2015 12:26 PM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
KNenagh: Yes, I don't think anyone can change a person, I always took someone as he was - why bother otherwise?

So yes, I accepted people as they were and they accepted me as I am. It's about compatibility, if that's not there, I wouldn't go near anyone.

Also, why would you want to be with someone you can't take as he is?


Exactly:- He can't take me as I am and expects me to change.

Part of me is:- I don't try to change anyone. Every person is a person in his/her own right with their flaws, etc.

So I get the raw deal not him.

So:- I don't get a man, because I am not changing. (I like myself) (And I have tried it once already, and it did not work)
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Mar 3, 2015 12:39 PM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Probably a little of both I guess,Unconditionally and Selfishly.
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Mar 3, 2015 1:32 PM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
KNenagh: If you go towards someone with that attitude, you will get an attitude like that. In a relationship it's not only about one person. I do like my life, the people in it, I know what I want and like etc. - but I like myself sounds a bit narcissistic.

I never had an issue with a man who wanted to change me - I always looked for an equal partner and they as well. I am willing to take someone's wants and needs into consideration and had the same courtesy extended to me. Otherwise you're at nothing.


U r luckier than I am!!!
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Mar 4, 2015 8:30 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
DertyHarry44
DertyHarry44DertyHarry44Lakeland, Florida USA91 Threads 1,102 Posts
last time? yes it was long long time ago...it's all over now!
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Mar 4, 2015 9:16 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
The love I have for my children knows no bounds.

When was I last loved mentally, emotionally and physically?

Romantically speaking, when I was a teenager.

He even loved me spiritually, and I, him.
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Mar 4, 2015 9:35 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
popcorn
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Mar 4, 2015 9:38 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
popcorn
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Mar 4, 2015 9:41 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
DertyHarry44
DertyHarry44DertyHarry44Lakeland, Florida USA91 Threads 1,102 Posts
not another foking Mexican soap opera????
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Mar 4, 2015 9:42 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Berry.

What flavour popcorn? Toffee I hope.
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Mar 4, 2015 9:42 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Berry.

What flavour popcorn? Toffee I hope.
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Mar 4, 2015 9:50 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
"Your", does not sound like "ur". Sound it out.grin
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Mar 4, 2015 9:52 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Berry.

What flavour popcorn? Toffee I hope.



Caramel....my favourite.
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Mar 4, 2015 9:56 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Berry.

Mine too.

Care to throw some in my direction?
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Mar 4, 2015 9:58 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Tomcat.

Glad to hear that. Lol
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Mar 4, 2015 10:21 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Berry.

Mine too.

Care to throw some in my direction?



Here popcorn I just happen to have one to share.
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Mar 4, 2015 10:29 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Ah. Thanks for your generosity.. A lovely gesture from a lovely lady.
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Mar 4, 2015 10:39 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
truheart1941online today!
truheart1941online today!truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK83 Threads 1 Polls 25,171 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Ah. Thanks for your generosity.. A lovely gesture from a lovely lady.
oy......you. greedy pig..taking the ladies last pop corn.......shame on you.......scold grin grin
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Mar 7, 2015 4:43 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
tomcatwarne: Last night but it wasn't with my mother.


Now that's gross.
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Mar 8, 2015 1:45 PM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
truheart1941online today!
truheart1941online today!truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK83 Threads 1 Polls 25,171 Posts
..when i was born......mum was emotional.....dad went mental.....and the doctor....was physical......he smacked me in the mouth.........crying blues blues blues rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 8, 2015 1:48 PM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
truheart1941: ..when i was born......mum was emotional.....dad went mental.....and the doctor....was physical......he smacked me in the mouth.........


U have all my sympathies.
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Mar 9, 2015 6:07 AM CST When is the last time u were loved (Mentally/Emotionally & Physically) by someone?
rizlaredonline today!
rizlaredonline today!rizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
Only a baby gives unconditional love to it's mother, adults can't/won't love unconditionally, we always have conditions, not least loyalty and honesty.
The reality is, only animals truly show unconditional love, and even a baby will change it's love to whomever is feeding and demonstrating love to it.
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