LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
CapricornDancer: I believe it is only a myth about 'one true love' it is an ideal perhaps, but in my experience you might feel like you have found 'the one and only' but over time you discover that there are differences between you. It is those 'rose coloured glasses' one wears at the start of the relationship. I believe space is important in a relationship ... it is so easy to suffocate your partner if you insist on being with them 24/7. Each will come with their own interests not shared by the other, or friends that are not necessarily mutual .. it is important that this continues. Each requires space to pursue their own interests, and have some degree of independence.
You might be having your own experience, but others do have too, and thank God, every case is diffrent. Most, sometimes forget that marriage is not all the way unison for both husband and wife, a wrong expectation, but because we are not the same that true love cannot exist, contrary to that. In magnetism, unlike poles attract each other, like poles repel, and union is magnetism in it's own sense. True love doesn't stop you from being friendly with others not suitable to your partner, each is free to go on with their own interests, and yet go on loving truly,, i don't realy see the connection between having a social independence and not having a true love,, true love is not tyranism,,it's liberalism is a reasonable dose.
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
Lolette: You might be having your own experience, but others do have too, and thank God, every case is diffrent. Most, sometimes forget that marriage is not all the way unison for both husband and wife, a wrong expectation, but because we are not the same that true love cannot exist, contrary to that. In magnetism, unlike poles attract each other, like poles repel, and union is magnetism in it's own sense. True love doesn't stop you from being friendly with others not suitable to your partner, each is free to go on with their own interests, and yet go on loving truly,, i don't realy see the connection between having a social independence and not having a true love,, true love is not tyranism,,it's liberalism is a reasonable dose.
It is said that to be in love is the "most addictive substance on earth", or if you want, how Helen Fisher calls it "Life's greatest prize". Being aware that with the years there is a definite step that happens, when a relationship goes from emotionally, mentally and physically desire to attachment, to getting " accustomed" with the partner, that life can have ups and downs, quarrels and misunderstandigs, I am asking you, what really binds a man and a woman for life?
I would like to share with you this issue and have your precious opinions, please. Thank you![/quote You get three soulmates in a lifetime. Think back in time,have you already met them? Maybe,maybe not. I think I have! Damn
Yes u r right, but it can be possible in Islam Muslim People.
If u want to see then spent the time with me. i am serious person. how much do u want to spend the time with me. whenever u believe then think further.
RainComeShine: Try holding back intimacy and see if you can connect for a while in other ways. You may find that you have to put in more effort and the best is yet to come.
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I believe space is important in a relationship ... it is so easy to suffocate your partner if you insist on being with them 24/7. Each will come with their own interests not shared by the other, or friends that are not necessarily mutual .. it is important that this continues. Each requires space to pursue their own interests, and have some degree of independence.
You might be having your own experience, but others do have too, and thank God, every case is diffrent. Most, sometimes forget that marriage is not all the way unison for both husband and wife, a wrong
expectation, but because we are not the same that true love cannot exist, contrary to that. In magnetism, unlike poles attract each other, like poles repel, and union is magnetism in it's own sense.
True love doesn't stop you from being friendly with others not suitable to your partner, each is free to go on with their own interests, and yet go on loving truly,, i don't realy see the connection between having a social independence and not having a true love,, true love is not tyranism,,it's liberalism is a reasonable dose.