It is said that to be in love is the "most addictive substance on earth", or if you want, how Helen Fisher calls it "Life's greatest prize". Being aware that with the years there is a definite step that happens, when a relationship goes from emotionally, mentally and physically desire to attachment, to getting " accustomed" with the partner, that life can have ups and downs, quarrels and misunderstandigs, I am asking you, what really binds a man and a woman for life?
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No? And the aged couples ( who are together for 40-50 years) who have lived with much less than our society offers, have passed difficult times together, and today are walking hand in hand like at their first "rendez-vous challenging the younger ones in vitality and steadiness? What do you really mean?
bluewave33: It is said that to be in love is the "most addictive substance on earth", or if you want, how Helen Fisher calls it "Life's greatest prize". Being aware that with the years there is a definite step that happens, when a relationship goes from emotionally, mentally and physically desire to attachment, to getting " accustomed" with the partner, that life can have ups and downs, quarrels and misunderstandigs, I am asking you, what really binds a man and a woman for life?
I would like to share with you this issue and have your precious opinions, please. Thank you!
the secret is. doing all/or most things together...team effort ,so to speak......a common goal......working out a plan...that will suit both of you......
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
truheart1941: the secret is. doing all/or most things together...team effort ,so to speak......a common goal......working out a plan...that will suit both of you......
RosePetals69: What really binds us for life are powerful feelings and the mystery of love, the enigma of that particular "c chemistry", and the purity of it.
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Yes, only strong feelings and the proper chemistry and magical can bind a man and a woman for life.
I do believe that there is more then one person who I am compatible with.
As in how to make something work, I think similar background, goals and values are the basis, to keep 2 people happy it is to engage, communicate, laugh - WANTING to spend time with each other and not arriving at a point where you have nothing to say to each other.
Yes there is! My grandparents were together for 65 years before they passed on. My aunt and uncle have been together for 50 years now. I think there is hope.
allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
My parents were married for 40 years before the passing if my father.. Never has a day gone past without my mother visiting his gravestone. He was the one & only for her. Now that's true love!
bluewave33: It is said that to be in love is the "most addictive substance on earth", or if you want, how Helen Fisher calls it "Life's greatest prize". Being aware that with the years there is a definite step that happens, when a relationship goes from emotionally, mentally and physically desire to attachment, to getting " accustomed" with the partner, that life can have ups and downs, quarrels and misunderstandigs, I am asking you, what really binds a man and a woman for life?
I would like to share with you this issue and have your precious opinions, please. Thank you!
Present day society has been spoon fed and conditioned to believe that everything, including relationships, is disposable. This pic kinda says it all.
Ccincy: Obviously everything and everyone has become disposable.I suppose for some it is a myth and some it's not.I suppose it's all about how one sees it.
lol..disposable
i suspect you know where i'm heading...or how i see it
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Being aware that with the years there is a definite step that happens, when a relationship goes from emotionally, mentally and physically desire to attachment, to getting " accustomed" with the partner, that life can have ups and downs, quarrels and misunderstandigs, I am asking you, what really binds a man and a woman for life?
I would like to share with you this issue and have your precious opinions, please. Thank you!